I loved you

Here you'll find:

-> A robust mod team including pro, anti, and neutral stances, so there won't be syscourse stance bias in moderation! We want everyone's voice to be heard, and to encourage people with different stances to share their opinions!

-> A welcoming and nontox environment where everyone can talk with each other freely and respectfully!

-> A variety of proxy bots including PluralKit, Tupperbox, and Berrytree!

We hope to see you there!

Hello all, I hope that everyone can excuse this intrusion of cross tagging to help me execute or plan a small project I've been thinking of.

Back in the late 2010s discord had a niche discourse community. Servers were built open to people across stances with the expectation of civil discourse as well as a base community. These places had their problems, trust me, I personally handled many of them myself, but they also created a lot of helpful dialogue with the topics popular at the time (then; trans discourse or dysphoria discourse to be specific)

My plan falters when I think about how the discourse community has changed, while I don't know for certain if it's truly gotten more volatile people are much more comfortable being assholes to one another's faces. So I need mods... Like... A lot of them. And I need them from all across the aisle, pro, anti, neu, complicated and anything else that exists. Id also really appreciate people with server building experience because while I've been a mod and owner of multiple servers over the past almost ten years... I'm not good at it.

If any of these apply to you, and you're over the age of 18, please message me! I want to make something good, and I need help to do so.

Thank you all for reading and I hope everyone has a good day

It's 18+ and anti endo but besides that open to any system. Focus is on introject Heavy systems but anyone is welcome! Please join!!!!

🪅 Is splitting a frequent occurrence for you? How long does splitting take for you? What is that experience like?

🪁 What's a unifying like/dislike that (mostly) everyone in your system shares?

🔥 Are there any alters that swear more/less than most of you?

🏆 Who is a alter you'd like to thank/give some recognition to? (no need to name names if you're/they're not comfortable!)

💐 What is something someone has done/can do that makes you feel seen/supported as a system?

📻 How does internal communication work for you? Does the ability to communicate vary between alters? Does communication take the form of words, images, emotions, etc.?

🥁 Do you experience chronic pain?

🎒 Are there any items you carry with you that help ground you? If not, what would you choose to carry?

🐾 Do you have any non-human alters? Feel free to share what species!

🗓️ Do you have any alters that feel connected to/like they're from a different time period? Feel free to elaborate!

🍋‍🟩 Are there flavours most of you like/dislike that specific alter(s) hate/love?

🎻 Are there any songs/genres of music that most of you like/dislike that specific alter(s) hate/love?

❓ What is a question you still have about your disorder?

🚫 What is something about your disorder you don't think is talked about enough?

🗂️ (if you have a journal) Do you share a journal or do alters have their own journals?

🎼 What is a quote/lyric that really resonates with you?

🪵 What is a piece of advice you've received/something you've learned that has helped you and you'd like to share with other systems?

Anti-endo CDD + BPD flag!!!

I’m probably gonna have to remake this one…. Hm….

Anti-Endo CDD + HPD flag!!!

sunset!!! :D!!

having a high alter count

having very little amnesia

having lots of introjects

using sign offs and decorating your system trackers

having comorbid disorders

not knowing whether you have osdd, pdid, did

having dramatic switches

being cringe

not being diagnosed

being a teenager

not remembering trauma