how some of yāall will look at a raging misogynistic character and be like āitās because heās secretly gay/i hc him as gayā is just. so fucked up to me tbh
idk how to convince some of you that gay men who are misogynistic are just as bad as straight misogynists and also men who hate women are not gay on that basis alone, and if they are gay that doesnāt make the misogyny okay or āfruityā. basically can yāall stop trying to yassify misogyny? stg
also if you look at a misogynist and think āthatās a gay manā thatās internalized homophobia <3 gay misogynists obviously exist but itās not a staple characteristic of the wider community (not to ignore the issue of misogyny in lgbt spaces in general but yāknow. different post). anyway im just asking you guys not to automatically associate gayness with bad things. lack of attraction to women is not the same as hating women and trying to justify misogyny by saying āwell theyāre just gayā is an injustice to women and gays alike
agreed.
the same goes to "homophobe character is just secretly gay" always fucking hated that
yeah āgay people are actually just oppressing each otherā is not the hot take people think it is















