A lot of the arguments against jax and tadc criticisms genuinely always just always feels like it can be summed up as an "i like pancakes" "so you hate waffles?" Type of argument half of the time with how stuff that was never even said is brought up.
"So you don't think isn't she lovely can be recontextualized about a trans woman even if it's about a newborn black girl?" No we just don't think it should be in a show created by someone who made racist jokes and covered by someone who is literally a lolicon, the recontextualization to be about trans identity is not the issue here.
"So you hate jax because she's a trans woman?" No we hate jax because she's an abuser who drove two of her friends to suicide who faced no direct consequences for it. [ I'm not counting abstraction as a consequence, we are not counting literal suicide as her facing consequences on either side of the argument. ]
"So you think trans characters can't be bad people?" No we think characters who are bad people shouldn't be treated by the narrative as if they're the most important victim and throw away any development for other traumatized characters who are direct victims of said bad character.
"So you-" etc etc you get the point.