scrolled a little down your blog and saw that person claiming radqueers share more CSEM/CSAM and like... bro said "because they are radqueer and support pedophilia" HELL YEAH I DO, THATS THE WHOLE POINT, PARAPHILIA =/= ACTION, the grand majority of pedophiles never do anything about their paraphilia to abuse children, ever, they don't consume CSEM/CSAM, they don't get close to kids, they especially don't assault kids, THE GRAND MAJORITY DONT DO IT, in fact most child predators ARENT PEDOPHILES, they are NOT attracted to kids! they pick them as their victims BECAUSE THEY ARE EASY TARGETS. Like, the same happens with men assaulting women cases, its not "man so attracted he could not help himself" NO, its because cis women tend to be an easier target, ASSAULT IS ALMOST NEVER ABOUT ATTRACTION, ITS OVER 90% OF THE TIME ABOUT POWER AND VIOLENCE, ABOUT HURTING SOMEONE IN THE MOST SOUL CRUSHING INTIMATE WAY POSSIBLE, OF RUINING SOMETHING THAT HAS GREAT IMPORTANCE TO ONES IMAGE OF SELF.
Sorry about all the caps and angry ask, but I'm so so sick of people 1: acting like pedophile means predator/offender, 2: acting like assault is always about attraction when its most often about power/control/violence
The same power/control/violence that antis are so very obsessed over, power over peoples thoughts, control over peoples thoughts, and violence towards those unlike themselves (or hell, sometimes- dare i even say often! antis are paraphiles who are not coping right and are angry that there is people out there with their paraphilia who aren't abusing themselves over thoughts they cant control), again, the same which people who assault are after, control/power over peoples thoughts (how they view themselves/how much mental damage they can do for their thoughts) and violence towards those unlike themselves (violence to those who are weaker and/or more vulnerable)
I get that antis are ignorant, but HOW LONG DO I GOTTA PUT UP WITH SEEING SO MUCH IGNORANCE FOR SOMETHING SO EASY TO UNDERSTAND AS ATTRACTION =/= ACTION
-Dearly, a paraphile who is sick of people equating the "big 3" with assault largely committed by non-"big 3"s
as someone who is a recovering zoophile I agree. I wanted to defend people of my community who are facing discrimination everyday now, and someone had to barge in and claim that radqueer's and paraphiles are the problem (which is ableism in many ways).
