"Hawks' Green Flags and Red Flags — Part 1"
Hawks is charming without trying, confident without seeming arrogant, and somehow manages to make saving lives look effortless. On the surface, he's the kind of person who could talk his way into anyone's heart with a grin and a wink.
But dating someone like Hawks wouldn't be all sunshine, feathers, and stolen glances.
Behind the easygoing attitude is a man carrying enormous responsibilities, a complicated past, and enough secrets to fill an entire agency. So, what would actually make him boyfriend material... and what might send you running the other direction?
Let's break down the green and red flags this man has, and you can answer by the end of it if you'd still date him.
🟢 Green Flag #1: He's Incredibly Attentive
One of Hawks' most underrated qualities is how observant he is.
His entire job depends on noticing details other people miss. He reads situations quickly, picks up on subtle changes in behavior, and can process information faster than most people around him. That doesn't just disappear when he's off duty.
As a partner, Hawks would likely remember the tiny things. The snack you casually mentioned liking three months ago? He'd bring it home one day without being asked. The fact that you've had a stressful week? He noticed before you said a word. The way your mood changes when something's bothering you? He's already figured it out.
What makes this especially appealing is that Hawks doesn't seem like the type to offer attention performatively. He wouldn't make a big production out of remembering details. He'd just quietly show up with exactly what you need before you even realize you need it. And his attentiveness would probably make you feel genuinely seen.
Of course, this could occasionally backfire because there would be absolutely no hiding anything from him. You can't claim you're "fine" when he's already noticed the change in your voice, your posture, and the fact that you've been staring at the same text message for twenty minutes straight.
🟢 Green Flag #2: He's Protective
Let's be honest: Hawks is the definition of someone who throws himself into danger to keep other people safe.
A lot of characters get labeled protective when they're actually controlling. Hawks doesn't really fit that mold. He respects people's independence and abilities. He doesn't seem like the type who would lock someone away "for their own good."
Instead, he'd be the partner constantly looking out for you.
Walking home late? He's checking in. Feeling unsafe somewhere? He's already on his way. Need help moving furniture? Somehow he's there before you even finish asking.
The downside is that he could absolutely overextend himself trying to shoulder everyone's burdens. Hawks often acts like it's his responsibility to fix everything, and that tendency could carry into a relationship.
🟢 Green Flag #3: He Always Makes Time for You Somehow
This might honestly be his biggest green flag.
Hawks is one of the busiest people imaginable. He's a top hero. He's constantly working. He's frequently involved in situations that demand his attention. Yet somehow, he still feels like the type who would make time for the people who matter because he chooses to prioritize them.
Maybe it's a quick phone call between missions. Maybe it's grabbing lunch together during an impossibly packed schedule. Maybe it's stopping by for ten minutes just to see you before heading back to work.
The gesture matters because it demonstrates intent.
His schedule might be a disaster, but he'd find a way to remind you that you're still part of his life, and those little moments would probably mean everything.
🔴 Red Flag #1: He's Emotionally Unavailable
Now we're entering dangerous territory.
Hawks has spent most of his life learning how to hide what he's really feeling. He's used to wearing masks, keeping things professional, and carrying burdens alone.
That doesn't magically disappear in a relationship.
Even if he deeply cares about you, getting him to open up might feel like trying to unlock a vault.
You'd know he loves you. You'd know he trusts you. But actually getting him to talk about his fears, insecurities, regrets, or emotional wounds? That could take years.
As a partner, this could create moments where you know something is wrong but can't get him to tell you what it is.
He'd retreat inward, insist he's okay, and try to solve everything himself. And for someone who values emotional transparency, this could become incredibly frustrating.
🔴 Red Flag #2: His Life Is Full of Secrets
Dating Hawks would mean accepting that there are parts of his life you'll never have complete access to.
And that's difficult.
His career revolves around classified information, undercover work, and confidential operations. There would be days when he leaves without explaining where he's going. Days when he comes home exhausted and can't tell you why. Days when you know he's hiding something but also know he legally can't tell you.
Even if you trust him completely, secrecy creates distance.
Humans naturally fill gaps in information, questions become assumptions, assumptions become anxiety.
Over time, that can put strain on even healthy relationships.
🔴 Red Flag #3: He Disappears for Work
If you're dating Hawks, his job is essentially your relationship's third wheel.
Hero work doesn't follow schedules. Danger doesn't wait for date nights. Emergencies don't care about anniversaries. There will be canceled plans. There will be missed dinners. There will be moments where you're halfway through spending time together before he gets called away.
And unlike many jobs, his absences often come with genuine risk.
You wouldn't just be frustrated. You'd be worried. Every time he leaves for a mission, there would be a lingering question in the back of your mind about whether he'll come home safely.
Even when he wants to be present, there will be circumstances beyond his control.
Final Verdict
The reality is that loving Hawks would require a tremendous amount of patience and understanding.
His heart may be with you... but his attention may not always be able to be.
Hawks is one of those people whose green flags and red flags are deeply connected.
Would dating him be easy? Probably not.
Would it be rewarding? Very likely.
The question is whether the green flags outweigh the red ones for you. So...
Woukd you date Hawks despite his red flags?
Absolutely, sign me up
Yes, but we'd need a serious conversation
Probably not. I need more emotional openness
No. The red flags outweigh the green flags for me.
Feel free to add more green flags or red flags in the comments and I might share them in the following parts!
