"I'd be tender, I'd be gentle,

Happy gay month cuz know you gay and stuff

he's just a kid, but he's also almost 13. he feels like he should be smarter and more mature after this. but he's also just a boy who wanted to have fun with his family before everything went to shit. and he wonders: was it worth it? he wants whizzer back. he wants his family back. he feels like it's his fault, but really, it wasn't. and whizzer died happily, surrounded by his loved ones, watching the child he's grown so fond of growing up.

Now, why is it important that Whizzer is masculine? We know Marvin has always been attracted to men, but he also developed a certain aversion to femininity due to the negative experiences he had with women in his life—something that begins to change as he grows as a person. That’s why, when he meets Whizzer, he’s immediately captivated—not only by his beauty but by how much his body and attitude scream “MAN.”

Whizzer’s masculinity triggers deep insecurity in Marvin about his own manhood. He knows that, in many ways, Whizzer is more of a “man” than he is, and that makes him feel inferior—especially because Whizzer is completely comfortable with his sexuality, while Marvin is still struggling. That difference enrages Marvin and is one of the key reasons behind his toxic, macho behavior toward Whizzer: he tries to force Whizzer into the role of “the woman” in the relationship because he can’t handle feeling like the lesser man.

This is exactly why Whizzer can’t be seen as a “femboy.” His masculinity is essential to the emotional dynamics of the story, particularly Marvin’s inner conflict. Seriously—wake up, people.

say goodbye to the pain of the past—we don't have to feel it anymore