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Many girls, especially in this section of tumblr, find it awkward. First of all they're not comfortable with receiving pleasure, with being the focus for that. Second, they worry that it's being done as a chore, a duty, a reciprocation. They can feel like a burden for not cumming fast enough (a feeling that makes it harder to cum). They can feel too demanding if they simply describe what feels good. This is generalization, of course. Not all girls, etc.

At the same time, the person doing it can feel a pressure to perform. To do it right, to make her cum. And if she takes a long time, they can start to feel tired from trying and guilty about stopping. This all takes away from simply enjoying the experience.

I've found that orgasm denial, especially in a D/s context, solves these problems beautifully. She's not allowed to cum! All the pressure is gone, on both sides. She can be sure that her lover is doing it because they want to, as long as they want to. She knows that describing what it feels like is just enhancing the experience for both of them.

And if she ends up just begging to cum, while being told no and relentlessly licked more, well that's fun for everyone.

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(food control)

I was talking with [redacted] about how cats are more affectionate when they want food and whether the same principle would apply to hungry subs.

Then I thought about how nice it would be to feed a desperately hungry girl by hand. I imagine us sitting at the dining table with her in my lap, her hands tied tightly behind her back, helpless in my arms. She’s been on a very restricted diet for days, not so bad that her stomach has shut down but bad enough to leave her famished and desperate for food.

It would be so cute. On the table would be all kinds of bite sized food: sushi, chopped up vegetables, bits of cookies and cake, a sandwich cut into pieces.

I’d feed her by hand, bite by bite, but there are so many little games you can play. First of all she has to behave. Don’t be too eager. Sit up straight, sit pretty, don’t lean toward the food. Don’t open your mouth too soon, wait for the food to come to you then eat it. No no no no, that’s too early. Try again. No no still too early. Oh well I’ll just eat this bite myself then.

Here’s another bite, let’s try again. Bring it to your lips… no, you have to open them in time. You didn’t open your mouth so I’ll just rub this on your face. Okay, next bite.

Then there’s the forced babying.

This bite is an airplane coming in for landing, wheeeeeurmmm… open up, that’s a good baby. The next bite is a train going chk-chk-chk into the station. No, that’s too soon, the train isn’t at the station yet. Let’s try again.

My, you’re making a mess. You’re so messy, you’ll have to wear a bib. Oh it says “FEED ME” that’s so cute.

Then there are the difficult foods.

Here’s a carrot, better bite pieces off fast because it’s going all the way in right now.

Oh did I put too much cayenne on that bite, I’m so sorry. Here, have some water to wash it down, big gulp, okay… oh, oops, that was the vodka.

Then, this is a bit more complicated, imagine lettuce cut into long thin strips. I can hold a bunch of strips by one end, hold them up so you can get the other end in your mouth.

Good, now swallow. Yes, swallow while I’m still holding the other end. Good, good.

Now I’ll just… slowly… pull them back out…

Words matter; the words we use define our thought patterns and the way we conceptualize the world around us. Some cultures generally describe things with relative directions - 'left of', and 'to the right' - while other cultures consistently use absolute directions - 'to the north', and 'south of' - instead. Calling something a 'cost' primes us to think in terms of loss and avoidance; calling the same thing an 'investment' encourages patience, growth, and mindfulness of future payoff. When we u

Words, both on their own and in context, construct the mental scaffolding through which reality is interpreted.

That's why it's important to use the right words, phrases, and terms:

That's not a woman, that's a set of warm holes with tits.

It's not your vagina, it's his breeding hole. It's not your ass, it's his cock socket. It's not your mouth, it's his cum receptacle.

She's not a feminist, she's delusional.

You're not a virgin, you're unclaimed property.

You're not a sex worker, you're a public utility.

It's not an abusive relationship, it's intensive hands-on training.

She's not expressing her opinions, she's practicing her vocalizations.

It's not blackmail, it's incentivized cooperation. It's not stalking, it's personalized observation. It's not kidnapping, it's optimized relocation.

She's not a strong independent woman, she's a cunt awaiting assignment.

You don't set boundaries, you beg for different treatment.

It's not degradation, it's a re-calibration of self-worth.

He didn't bruise you, he decorated you. He didn't hit you, he motivated you. He didn't beat you, he corrected your behavior.

You weren't harassed, you were the subject of persistent romance. You weren't sexually assaulted, you received unexpected attention. You weren't raped, you were enjoyed.

You don't have limits, you have a list of things you haven't learned to enjoy - yet.

That's not a lesbian couple, that's a fakedyke breeding pair.

You're not crying, you're leaking from the eyes instead of from your holes.

It's not hateful sexism, it's realizing the reality of your role. It's not toxic misogyny, it's a recognition of natural order. It's not the malevolent patriarchy, it's right.

Corruption/Dumbification/Hypnosis

Reward systems: Rewiring your brain is hard work

What's the difference?: A small change in perspective goes a long way.

Hypnotist: I’m not one, but that won’t stop you from dropping.

Catchphrases: Personally, I'd prefer if you were here for a good time AND a long time.

Brain Stuff: Something about him brings the best out of you.

Study Sesh: A little peer pressure never hurt anyone.

Relapse: You've enjoyed your time off, but it's time to come back.

Moderation: You're begging him to make you dumb again.

Repetition: I never expected you to drop on the first try.

Curious: Okay, so maybe you shouldn't have drank master's pink potion.

How-Tos

Your regularly scheduled check in: Look at how far you’ve come.

Fundamentals: Affirmations to make you a better slut.

Training: The best way to be good for him, is to be good for me.

Edging 101: The fundamental principles of not cumming

Rough Stuff: CNC/Stalker/Kidnapping/Somno/Free Use etc.

Participation: Watching you pass out is my favorite part.

Type: Am I your type?

Deep Breaths: If I told you to stop breathing, would you? 🥺

Half-Dreaming: Being asleep isn't an excuse.

Fucktoy: Who gets to use you next?

Times Up: Just don't cum and he'll let you go.

Bait: You finally attract the man of your dreams.

Selfish: Have you ever stopped and considered what I want?

Hole Inspection: Just making sure everything is up to code.

The Clearing: You've heard the rumors, but now it's time to see for yourself.

Sleep Tight: It's that wet dream again... the one where I fuck you in your sleep.

I Wish: You don't actually want all men to be like me.

Hate: You hate that he makes you love it.

Our Entertainment: Master is having a party, and you're the main attraction.

Rotation: You'll do anything for another hit.

Stronger: I could just take what I want.

I try to be good: I should probably let you rest.

Red: Your face is too pretty not to slap.

Hierophilia

Vespers: Not all sins are created equal.

Pet Play

In heat: Trained to go into heat. You know, like a dog.

Inconsistencies: Honestly, I think treating you like a pet is a compliment.

The Leash: Click goes the leash. Gone goes your mind.

Shock Collar: That's a little inhumane, don't you think?

Sweet Stuff

The Hilt: I knight has nothing if not his oath and his sword

Roommates: girls who room together, rub together

The Bottom: The key to a sadist’s heart is getting your ass spanked.

Just Once: Babe, I swear I’ll pull out. Trust me.

Throat Fuck Thursday: Babe, it's throat fuck Thursday. Come on. You have to.

Distance: This would be so much easier if you were closer.

Prep: You can take him. You just need a little help.

Morning: Good morning princess :)

Starving: Please please please just let me eat you out.

Panties: I can't believe you soaked through another pair.

Student X Teacher

Symbols: His methods are controversial, but they get the job done.

After hours: You’ve never seen this side of him before

Yapping & General Mind-fuckery

Condoms: They get a bad wrap.

Before & After: Learn to appreciate the journey

Why you should just give in

How long does it take to turn you into a cumdump? It's an honest question.

Dramatic: I like putting on a show for you

Gratitude: Thank me properly.

Tying you up: I can’t get it off my mind.

Work: I really need you in my lap if I’m going to get anything done.

We need to get you offline: Go touch grass cock.

I'm not fucking you: Yes, I know that may be hard to believe.

Losing control: Why won't you just follow directions?

Whiplash: The blog is supposed to be a little disorienting.

Premature Celebration: I think I won, but let's not get ahead of ourselves.

Losing yourself: The old you isn't worth holding onto.

Boundaries: Say thank you the next time he touches you.

If this didn't matter: The blog is affecting you, and that's why you keep coming back.

Why does edging feel so good: Let me explain.

Why does becoming porn feel so good: Let me explain... again.

Voices: Don't listen to them. Listen to me.

Concession: Maybe you're getting to me too...

Disclaimer: Hahaha, I can't believe you thought you were getting to me.

Embarrassing: I really shouldn't have such an effect on you.

Wet Already: It really doesn't take much, huh?

Secrets: Being blackmailed builds character.