hi! i saw someone saying that hudson looks like that he decided to keep his relationship with K and not take a risk with C. But if he's made peace with that (continuing with K), why does he seem so miserable with her? They only look like a couple in staged photos. If Hudson really chose this, I feel sorry for him because it's such unhappiness.
Hudson's speech to K at CSA made it clear that, while he may love her, what keeps him in the relationship is the "stability." Because he became famous so quickly, he wants some control over his personal life in Vancouver, and that includes her. I'm afraid he might stay in this forever. He's very loyal to his friends (and most of them don't deserve that), and he might get stuck in this situation, afraid of what might happen if he leaves this part of his life behind. I hope he doesn't stay like this. He seems unhappy in his relationship; they seem more like friends than lovers, and I hope he doesn't choose this for his life. That "my partner" scared the hell out of me.
Everyone's got their theories about what's going on. We're all trying our best to put all the puzzle pieces together so they fit together, in order to see the full picture.
Sometimes i wonder why some of you are so reluctant to consider that K might, for all intents and purposes, be a beard to Hudson at this point?
Yes, they might have dated before, but to me it seems like a situation where they both agreed that they're better off as friends. When Hudson needed help controlling the situation, the why doesn’t matter, she agreed. I've yet to see any sign Hudson is romantically or sexually attracted to women, and that includes K...
Here are some things to consider:
Hudson is loyal, dependable, grounded, explicitly loving and affectionate and he seeks stability and low conflict. He has heart and empathy for everyone. He's a humanitarian (he's an Aquarius). That's how i read him as a person.
I don't read him as someone messy, who would play with someone's feelings, emotionally cheat or in other ways disrespect someone he's in love with and is in a relationship with.
I also don't see him as someone conflicted, who can't make up his mind, who is wishy-washy and is fighting his true feelings. He seems like a very confident man who knows who he is and what he wants.
So with that in mind, if Hudson has decided that his future is with K and not C, wouldn't he commit to it then and friendzone Connor? Instead were seeing Hudson namedrop him at every opportunity, post red hearts around his pictures and use romantic language like this:
"Connor and i kind of clicked right away and i think we quickly knew what our relationship would bloom into and it’s been really lovely"
Hudson said that only two days ago. Relationship, not friendship, mind.
The difference in how he treats Connor vs. how he treats K, and how he acts around them, talk about them, light up around them and even posts about them on social media is stark. His energy is different, the vibes are different and his body language is so different.
Not to mention how his relationship with K is becoming more and more public, while his relationship with C is becoming more and more private. How H and C acts when they're in a safe environment, away from red carpets, paparazzi and fans, tells us that they're even more affectionate, clingy, co-dependent and on the same page about their feelings for each other.
Hudson and Connor are trying their hardest to normalise their behaviour as non-toxic masculinity practicing queer friends. A beautiful bromance. It allows them to act as they do with each other without people raising suspicions about a romance between them. That might not be enough in itself, so that's where K comes in. If Connor and FA's attempt at a PR relationship would have succeed, H might have been able to get away with keeping K only in the background. It all depends on the reason for her presence.
As i've said before, i think this situation is under development and things aren't black and white. I do think things will work out in the end, and perhaps sooner than we might think.
