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“Appreciate your parents and never take them for granted. If you have parents that are healthy and youthful - enjoy them and spend time with them. If your parents are older and sick - take care of them and spend time and money on them. If your parents have passed on - pray for them and do acts of charity on their behalf Parent are a treasure of good deeds - don’t miss out on the opportunity to enrich your life & theirs!”

““Oh Allah! I ask you to forgive me for the sins I’ve committed, How fortunate am I that you gifted me with the door of repentance, I repent and turn back to you, Please forgive me Allah; the most merciful one””

“Truthfulness is the key to healing. Quickly and completely. Being honest and open with yourself and Allah about everything. This means being honest about your sins. Facing them and begging Allah for forgiveness. And then doing what’s necessary to make amends for any missed obligations. This also means being honest about what you’re feeling. The pain you’ve suppressed or numbed and the feelings you try to hide from yourself and the world. Not being open and honest and truthful is like a person who keeps a gunshot wound covered, but never cleans it out. It will get infected. And eventually even amputated. But the sufferer takes anesthetics to numb the pain. What will happen? The infection grows. Covering something doesn’t make it go away. And time alone is not enough to heal a wound that isn’t cleaned out. To be truthful with Allah, first realize He never rejects *anyone * who comes to Him sincerely. *No matter what they have done*. Realize that Allah is more merciful than a mother is to her child. Second, cry. Break. Be vulnerable with Allah. There is no truthfulness without vulnerability. And there is no hiding or fooling Allah. To do this is only to hide and fool yourself. When you cry and break and show vulnerability and truthfulness to Allah, you are opening and cleaning the wound. When you repent and make amends with Allah you are purifying the wound. You then allow Allah to carry out the natural healing process. But when you cover and numb and pretend–when you put things in a drawer and throw away the key–you’re only blocking this natural healing process and prolonging your suffering. Allah has designed the human being *extremely* resilient. Wounds are a part of the design, but so is healing. You just have to make sure you don’t get in your own way. Don’t be afraid of showing your true self to Allah. He will never reject you–no matter how broken or ‘ugly’ or sinful you think you are. No matter how scarred. Don’t be afraid to break to Allah. When you break to Allah, He builds you. Stronger. Be truthful and begin the road to true healing and peace.”

““Some people may complicate it for you, but the formula is simple: Love God more than anything else. More than your ego. More than your money. More than your desires…More than your sleep at dawn. Love God more than anything else, and submission comes natural. Love God more than anything else, and all goodness will follow.””

“If you really depend on God, then everything will fall into its proper place and be made clear to you. Take the means you can, but do not get attached to “what you want”; be open to the “whatever is best” principle. Trust in God and instead of asking Him to give you what you want, make du’a to receive from Him what is best for you.”

“Everything happens for a reason; even those that make us sad for there are lessons in every situation.Learn from them & be grateful to Allah”

If you getting through a difficult time or in pain then these points may help you in shaa Allah 1. He won’t burden you with something that you can’t handle. So take a deep breath and trust His plan. He knows whats best for you. 2. He is watching over you and He will guide you through this difficult time. 3. Look at your relation with Allah subhanahu ta'ala. Let this time make your relation stronger with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Make dua and ask for His help. A trial is a blessing if it makes you closer with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 4. Every trial is teaching us a lesson so try to learn that lesson. 5.Be grateful to your Lord. When you are grateful. He will increase your blessings. 6. Try to be content with His Decree. His plan are better than our wishes. So make dua that Ya Allah make us content with your decree and grant us ease. 7. The trial will end on it’s appointed time. So be patient. If you become impatient then you will lose the reward as well. Allah subhanahu is with those who are patient. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala help you all and grant you ease. Allahumma Ameen.

If someone is not treating you with love and respect, it is a gift if they walk away from you. If that person doesn’t walk away, you will surely endure many years of suffering with him or her. Walking away may hurt for a while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. You will find that you don’t need to trust others as much as you need to trust yourself to make the right choices.

Not everything is supposed to become something beautiful and long-lasting. Sometimes people come into your life to show you what is right and what is wrong, to show you who you can be, to teach you to love yourself, to make you feel better for a little while, or to just be someone to walk with at night and spill your life to. Not everyone is going to stay forever, and we still have to keep on going and thank them for what they’ve given us.

My life is a struggle between my need for acceptance, my fear of rejection, and a desire to not care at all.

It’s only when you lose someone that you’ll realise how strong you can be. You’ll learn how to cry so silently you wonder if it qualifies as crying at all. You’ll realise that you can survive on two hours of sleep every night for a week. You’ll stand there, back straight, talking to people, and pretending that they don’t see how your body is trembling from the weight on your shoulders. We learn to call it strength, and we aspire to attain it. But we forget that strength is thrust upon you; we forget exactly how difficult it is to grasp; and we forget just how easy it is to lose yourself to it.

The sad truth about love is that it doesn’t have to be reciprocated.

I’m not a steady person. When I get angry I don’t yell, I give a cold shoulder. When I’m mad at myself I treat other people poorly. When I’m upset I push everyone away and regret it. I can’t stay mad at people who do me wrong for too long and I have way too much love to give. I can treat someone I love like I’ll never see them again or like my love for them never existed. No, don’t get me wrong, I love them, I really do. I just have an awful habit of destroying things I love

To all those who have ever felt like prisoners, at the mercy of a mood, here is what I’ve learned: Our state will never be constant in this life. It will always go up and down. For the highly sensitive and intense ones, it will go up and down, even more intensely. But that’s just part of the package. It’s a beautifully packaged, double-edged sword. The key to success is not letting the waves own you, by holding onto solid land. The only solid land is God. And you can only hold onto Him through your prayers, remembrance, and worship. Hold onto these things for dear life–regardless of the broken state you may be in at that moment. When you do that, you will be able to ride the massive, and often crushing, waves of your life. Instead of drowning in them.