When I was growing up and transitioning, it was understood that trans women were more vulnerable to bigotry as just an observable fact. It was unspoken.

I have been hurt by transphobia sure but it was never because I was specifically FtM. What I mean by that is this -that people who hate trans men ALWAYS hate trans women too.

Yet I have met many cis people who don't mind trans men but LOATHE trans women, seeing us as 'quirky gender outlaws' while still viewing trans women as predatory men invading some 'sacred female space.'

Example: no one ever bothered me for presenting masculine things at work, even when my beard was too long for our work standard.

Yet the day my freshly-out trans femme coworker wore tights to work, her department manager pulled her aside within an hour of her clocking in and made her go home and change!

The cis girls were never bothered for wearing tights even if they were wearing colors/styles that were against technically against dress code.

The same HR lady who helped me change my legal name in our employee roll did nothing to help this girl when I reported the manager who singled her out. Even speaking up for her got me labeled as being 'dramatic.'

She quit within the week, it was awful. ( I am glad to report she got a better job and recently got her legal name change and is four years on E at this point! )

I've had to cut ties with many people over them saying weird shit about trans women to me, that job being one of those ties! I was there for five years but seeing what happened to the girl made me lose all my faith in their 'inclusive' claims, so I left.

If you don't want my trans women peers around, you don't get my trans masc self either! That's how it should be.

All trans men must practice zero tolerance for transmisogyny otherwise we can never expect trans girls/women to buy into claims of solidarity from us trans men. The world is coming at the girls from all sides, we shouldn't be adding onto their stress by repeating rainbow-flavored TERF talking points.

It says a lot that the public generally perceives us (trans guys) as ready to agree with the whole "lol trans women are freaks, amiright??" Bullshit.

The reputation is there because many trans men are too chickenshit to speak up for their sisters. At worst, they agree with the transmisogyny.

I have been trying to educate the younger men about why TME vs TMA is needed in trans discussions but it has been an obnoxiously uphill battle. Many do not want to listen.

Your page is a great resource for breaking down the aspects of transmisogyny that trans men miss or don't consider, thank you for putting it up. It gives me the language to dismantle transandrophobia arguments.

This issue is something older trans men need to get active in correcting this behavior. Trans men have to teach our younger bros to be better than this otherwise it will keep spreading like redpill shit did among cis dudes. The fact that so many trans women are doing the emotional labor of educating these buttheads isn't fair and I don't blame all of you trans femmes for being frustrated.

Sending this privately because I don't want to seem like I am stating my peace for clout.

You rock ✌️ and don't let the bastards get you down.

I don't support the mobile port HOWEVER I do enjoy the artwork, so I decided to rip the assets myself and upload it all here for free use! It has all the art, icons, ui and sprites included.

Here are some of my favourite pieces I found:

I think trans mascs do experience sexual violence and there should be spaces where they can discuss it without their masculinity being invalidated. I know that’s something I would have benefited from when I was assaulted.

But that’s not what this is. It does not exist to uplift transmasculine people because it explicitly allows and encourages cis men to post, it is not meant to uplift transmasculine people because they are only allowed to post about abuse that fits the narrative of the blog (transmascs victimized by transfems)

And it does not uplift transmasculine people because ultimately the goal is not actually to support transmasc victims of sexual violence.

Trans men and TME nonbinary people deserve better than this fucking transmisogynistic propaganda blog.

Kosmaj Spomenik near Belgrade, Serbia. Sculptor Vojin Stojić and architect Gradimir Medaković. Poured concrete and rebar, completed in 1971.

"During this period, the Yugoslav break from Soviet socialist realism combined with efforts to commemorate World War II, which together led to the creation of an immense quantity of abstract sculptural war memorials, known today as spomenik."

scripts for accounts like that are as follows: start off by being blatantly transmisogynistic, claim that “transfem abusers silence us non-transfem victims!!” then when the well-deserved tongue lashings come flying in begin to crytype about how Traumatizing it is to be recognized as the bigot you are, then use it to double-triple down on your original claim that “transfem communities harbor and protect abusers.” it’s a very common tactic bigots of all stripes use, and the whole time it’s just gaslighting transfems about their own oppression, claiming they have some sort of social power to keep tmes silent when they’re victims of abuse at their hands.

as i’d hope most of the people reading this know, the exact opposite is true. transfems are almost never believed when they speak out about being assaulted by a tme person, and there is absolutely no need to “bring awareness” to transfem perpetrators- because nearly every single tme person and their mother already assumes transfems as potential predators, so they’re already predisposed to believe they’d SA someone no matter what!! it’s kind of one of the most major facets of transmisogyny there is!!