no space without aether

without approval, consent, or contacting me whatsoever, she’s surprise booked my surgery for April 13 (in 1 week) despite cancelling the original March surgery date due to deteriorating health issues, and the surgeon and I agreeing to indefinitely postpone til i see a specialist first to better my health…

im living in a dystopian nightmare. what moron books major surgery without contacting me, and informs me 1 week in advance? they never asked me. they never contacted me about anything. I had already accepted surgery wasn’t happening for another 6-12mo, bc that’s that the surgeon and I agreed on, why and how did this even happen? this is like the 10th fuck up from her.

I have no ride. I have no bed ‘booked’ at the recovery clinic in Toronto. I don’t have a safe home environment to recover in. I’m under extreme stress and my health has been deteriorating rapidly. I’m in pain, I’m fainting almost daily, I’m anemic. I’m dealing with priority housing concerns to flee abuse. There’s been no pre-op appt. No pre-op bloodwork done.

like the examples are property tax bill, rental agreement, statement of benefits from disability etc... bro. that stuff is mailed to them. not me. it's not my mail. it's not my name on the stuff. they want scanned/photographed opened mail addressed to the abuser (or both parties, if applicable). and not everyone living with an abuser shares rental/mortgage costs, and therefore would not have a rental/lease agreement, or both their names on a property tax bill & or hydro bill or smth.