Lawful good chaos god

not even funny how true this is for me

to be a WAG is to construct an identity of being Secondary, what Steven Ortiz calls “a ‘wife of’ identity”. they put it on themselves and go to great lengths to upkeep it. to humanize these women is to acknowledge their ability to cause harm, to society and to themselves.

He is my princess diana

Sharknado is what happens when you have that tendency of escalation, but your starting premise is 'a tornado full of sharks'

Federer Both Flesh and Not, String Theory by David Foster Wallace

oh my god youre right.

/ID]

“Blow it Back” by Carl Phillips

Do any of you gay bitches online wanna join my ponzi scheme

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

Having a healthy, active sex life is very good for you. Masturbation is good for you. Sexual pleasure is one of the few sources of dopamine we have that companies can't charge us for or monetize. It's always 100% good when people are able to have exactly the kind of sex life they want and sex is not in any way an inferior way of expressing/experiencing closeness & connection, and horniness isn't an inferior emotion either.

Shame around sex is an issue in religious communities, even if you are straight, even if your church isn't as conservative. I have heard from multiple people how hard is too switch from "I have to resist sexual temptation" to "I can enjoy sex now" the minute you are married and "allowed". And I'm talking about churches that don't condemn masturbation or feminine pleasure. Shame around sex is a problem. Celebrations of sex are necessary.

Had to add prev notes cause it's too good a point to lose.

with that being said, i second all the previous additions about how horniness is natural and good and it should absolutely be encouraged instead of suppressed. it just doesn't sit right with me to see queer people and queer relationships as something that's inherently so sexual that even a mention of sex between two men is a sign of some kind of cultural hypersexuality.

Cis straight people can make small talk with their coworkers about how they're "trying for a baby" (fucking often & raw) and it's fine but god forbid a queer trans person as much as implies that they're sexually active.

Has the trans community not suffered enough

Body text reads: So I keep all of my sex stuff in a removable container that sits in a bookshelf. Not the most elegant but alas it works. My roommate started talking to this ... /End ID]

it's the same problem with like, when i call social security about my disability benefits, the individual i speak to isn't an asshole. doesn't change the fact that the aggregate of all their policies and standards results in an extremely dehumanizing experience. what it DOES do is obfuscate who or what is to blame for the problem. when something is made up of so many moving parts, any single part can easily wash their hands of the problem until somehow no one at all is taking responsibility. systems suck.

*they talk about the many ways you can't blame various people for things 'the company' does. they then turn around and say the company can't be blamed for individual employees. they do NOT state the obvious conclusion that no one can be blamed for anything. it's all very transparent.

like i dont know the solution here, other than continuing to demand transparency and accountability so we can SEE who, specifically, is behind every transphobic moderation decision, and why there aren't any working checks in place. is it a company wide culture, or just a few very very influential assholes? or is it actually a passive process driven by many smaller biases that seem minor on their own, but all add up to outright hostility, like the social security thing? we can't know for sure, even if we suspect, because they won't admit the problem actually exists. because SURELY The Company is its own entity that is consistent with the values stated in their press releases! you wouldn't call poor sweet Tumblr The Company mean names, would you?