Aefa In Wonderland

I dont want to post politics on here much but I dont consider the wellbeing of other people to be political, so heres a reminder that we'll get through this.

Continue believing in Good, continue to be hopeful. Be angry, be loud, take up space and encourage your neighbors to take up space — protect your neighbors and your community!!

And please, dont feel bad for people like charlie kirk. He is dead because of the environment he and his rhetoric created, and being dead does not change that. You do not need to extend empathy, sympathy or compassion to someone who would've — and DID laugh — at your pain.

Have a wonderful day and an even better week :) shout out to all the plurals who for whatever reason, are stuck living with/around conservatives; stay safe and stand your ground, you'll be okay

(aka I don’t consider these to all be hot takes, because some of them are, in my opinion, warranting of a “well, duh”.)

Not every system has to be miserable to be valid

Endogenic systems are valid

Traumagenic but nondisordered systems are valid

Mixed origins systems are valid

Systems who have no fucking clue where their system came from are valid

Tiny systems are valid

Gigantic systems are valid

Systems that are all Brainmade are valid

Systems that are mostly introjects are valid

Introjects are not their source

Systems whose alters are different as night and day are valid

Systems whose alters are similar are valid

Anti-endos are ableist

Willogenics are not “roleplaying DID”

IT IS NOT FAKING A DISORDER IF YOU ARE NOT CLAIMING TO HAVE A DISORDER.

Plurality should be more informed about— it should be normalized to be accommodating of plurals

Final fusion is not a necessary step of the recovery process

Being a system can be hard. Being a system can be happy. The two can coexist.

You should always respect what different systems want to be called; some like alters. Some like parts. Some like headmates. Whatever their preference, respect it.