Her Attitude Is Savage, But Her Heart Is Gold.

I just have this happy personality and a sad soul in one body. It feels weird sometimes.

I feel that everyone disconnects sometimes. We all shutdown without warning from time to time. We all need a moment to recollect ourselves. Don’t ever feel guilty for needing to take a moment for just you. It is perfectly acceptable.

But here’s a little secret for you: no one is ever the same thing again after anything. You are never the same twice, and much of your unhappiness comes from trying to pretend that you are. Accept that you are different each day, and do so joyfully, recognizing it for the gift it is. Work within the desires and goals of the person you are currently, until you aren’t that person anymore, and everything changes once again.

on a scale of 1 to glitter on boobs, how much did my fathers absence affect me?

At some point you just have to let go, and move on. Because no matter how painful it is, it’s the only way we grow.