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Wear white billowing dresses that gather delicately around your ankles

Spray your pillows with essential oils like lavender or eucalyptus to soothe you into the arms of sweet sleep.

Keep fresh flowers in every room you dwell

Wear perfume with tuber rose and jasmine so that when your lovers lips graze your neck they breathe in delight

Walk bare foot through grass, let them bathe in life

Have a bath filled with almond milk to soften skin and rose petals for beauty

Gold jewellery to adorn your body

Apply a shimmering body oil so that when your skin catches the light, their mortals eyes can tremble before you.

Always walk with your shoulders back and head held high, you are a queen and queens bow to no one.

Apply lipstick in the shade of your enemies blood and smile before them

Heels to announce your presence

Twist your hair into an elegant up-do so that they me see your ethereal face.

Eat wine and cheese, reclining on a soft cushioned couch before an open window

Classical music to compliment your old soul

Learn languages and speak them with conviction

Dance like a swan delicately beneath the moonlight

Your academic path, your professional career, your adulthood, your hobby, whatever it is. It's okay not to know and not wanting to rush it, to try things out and then to ditch them, to get enough experience before you make a choice and to question that choice if it doesn't serve you anymore.

No matter what your age is, do not let somebody tell you how your life should be, or what kind of decisions you should make.