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In part 1 (link) of this series, we talked about the basics of spirit communication and possible pitfalls of using divination tools when communicating with them.
In part 2 (link), we talked about how my family specifically views different ways of communication via divination tools.
Now, we will talk about the two ways that most spirits prefer to communication.
If you've not read part 1 or 2, the most important thing about this series is that spirits are individuals and each one of them has their own skill, talent, and abilities. Some spirits are naturally gifted at some things and others they must spend years building their skills.
With divination, just like you were not born knowing all the ins and outs of tarot, spirits also are not born/hatched/created knowing how to use divination tools. As such, communicating via those methods is something not many spirits are skilled with and usually is only truly learned by those who wish to often speak to humans.
So, how do spirits most often prefer to communicate? How do they communicate with each other?
There are two common answers: Astral Speaking and Telepathy.
Astral Communication
Astral communication is when two beings who can hear astral wave lengths communicate. They have vocal cords, or something biological within their body that makes noise. Then another spirits who has ears, or other biological functions that can pick up on those sound wave lengths, is able to make out the sound. It's exactly like how creatures on the physical plane communicate but somewhere else.
A human can learn how to hear these sounds, both with their physical body and with their astral body, however it takes dedicated practice - usually with patient spirits who are willing to work with you on this.
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Ron: Again, I am a dragon. My talking is roars and growls. If you learn the language, I'd be pleased. But it's unlikely.
Harp: I'm a shifter, so this is how I prefer to communicate in my human form.
Yule: As I cannot use telepathy, it's really important that humans work on their astral hearing so we can talk.
Please keep in mind that I am an experienced spirit worker, so of course those within my family will prefer to talk to me in the way that they communicate with each other.
That said, my entire family communicates with astral speaking aside. Ron and Vinca are dragons who communicate with each other with astral talking (roars), and use telepathy with everyone else. This does mean that Ron and Vinca cannot communicate directly with Yule, which has caused issues in the past.
This is the only communication method that the majority of spirits are created with knowing how to do as it's a biological feature, however there are species that are entirely deaf or do not make any sound. They still communicate with "astral communication" though it may look different. It could be smells, body language, facial features, or an infinite possibility of any other trait.
Telepathy may feel similar to auditory astral communication to humans because neither of them make the physical sound that you're used to hearing in the physical plane.
However, they are very different.
Astral communication, as mentioned above, is when spirits make sound waves. Telepathy is mind to mind communication without any sound being created. Telepathy has the added bonus that you're not limited to just sounds that you're body can make. You can send emotions, sensations, pictures, and more. Anything that happens within your brain can be sent to another person.
I would argue that this is most of the "visions" that people receive from spirits is just telepathy. I know how that sentence sounds, but let me continue. The word vision, in this context, often has the connotation of something important, something from the future or something important happening right now. However, the word telepathy has the connotation of meaning "brain to brain communication" and doesn't have the weight of "important" or "true". A spirit can lie to you, after all.
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Harp: I'm a shifter and I hate telepathy. It's the only really way I can communicate as a mongoose. It hurts my head though...
Vinca: As Ron said, as dragons this is the most reliable way to communicate with an entity who cannot make our noises.
Wolfcub: I'm also a shifter, but I'm good at telepathy and it doesn't hurt me. I prefer it, even in my human form.
And as previously mentioned, Yule cannot use telepathy. Telepathy is definitely less common than astral communication, but it's still a very common practice. Across many different individuals and species, spirits are born knowing how to use telepathy, can learn to use telepathy, can either only send or only receive messages, can do so with pain and great effort, and cannot use telepathy at all.
Within my family, we have a balance of telepathy and astral communication. Vinca and Ron can only communicate with the others with telepathy, Wolfcub prefers telepathy, but it gives Harp a headache and Yule cannot send or receive telepathic messages. Fi and myself are the only ones of the family who are able to proficiently use both astral communication and telepathy, so we often end up as translators (technically Wolfcub is too, but as he is young, we don't put that pressure on him).
We are lucky that Vinca and Ron can hear astral communication and have to use telepathy to send messages. So Yule and Harp can tell them information, and as we are a family, they can often read body language, facial expression, and sounds to know if the message was well received or not.
All of this is just to showcase how different each spirit is as an individual. Even within our own family unit, everyone has their own way they prefer to talk to each other and the small details of how we do communicate in actuality is the product of years of living together and learning.
Your own experience with spirits will differ vastly as you have different skills than me, and the spirits you interact with will have their own skills and abilities. Learning how to communicate with different spirits is one of the best parts of the journey because it's so full of excitement and the joy of new friendships blooming!
That said, if you are truly starting at square one, here are my families personal ratings, from 1-5 stars all of the types of communication talked about across these 3 posts!
If you haven't read my previous posts about basics of spirit communication and divination feel free to do so here:
Part 1 - The Basics of Spirit Communication
Part 2 - Various Spirit Opinions on Divination Communication
Part 3 - How Spirits Prefer to Communicate
This was all part of Chimera Court's July lesson held in our Discord! We host lessons, classes, and meetings just like this one every month so feel free to stop by in time for our next one!
I hope that this was helpful and that you have a great day!
In part 1 (link), I talked about how different spirits all have their own talents, skills, and opinions about divination tools. But it feels odd to say that, but then not include any actual spirit thoughts on the subject.
So! Let me introduce you to my family:
Yule is a snow angel, Fi is a water sprite, Harp is a mongoose Shifter, Wolfcub is a Keva Hound (a type of wolf shifter), and Vinca and Ron are shift dragons.
(I should mention that both Harp and Wolfcub are young, so they've not had as much time to build their skills and uncover their talents as the rest of my family.)
It should be noted though that all spirits, again, are individuals! My family will have their biases as if I couldn't communicate with them, it would be a struggle for us to become so close. But I do hope that having actual spirit's thoughts on each type of communication helps!
Pendulums
So first, let's talk about pendulums. In my first post, I talked about how most spirits (in my experience) are able to quickly learn how to use a pendulum and how they are super easy to make, so I often suggest them for those who are getting started talking to a new spirit.
However, that doesn't mean that all spirits like pendulums or that it should be the standard.
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Fi: I love pendulums because I get to bat at them like a cat.
Ron: I HATE pendulums. They're inacurate and too small minded for me. How am I to explain myself with a yes/no?
Yule: Pendulums are fast and convenient, but they are often inaccurate.
Within my family, the consensus is that pendulums are fine for quick and dirty things, but they're often liked for superficial reasons. They leave little room for an actual conversation or to explain their reasoning for yes/no. It can work well in tandem with other divination tools to double check, but all on its own? Not preferred.
Okay, this post got incredibly long, so I'm going to put it under a read more~
If you want to read more about cartomancy, runes, curiomancy, scrying, signs, dream work, and automatic writing, please keep reading on!
If you want to jump straight to part 3 where I talk about how spirits prefer to communicate with each other and with humans, then feel free to click through here!
Cartomancy
Cartomancy is the classic divination tool, probably right up there with crystal balls. Tarot, oracle, lenormand, even your regular 52 piece playing card deck all fall under the umbrella of cartomancy.
In part 1 of the post I talk about how divination devices that will always give you an answer (i.e. you will always draw a card even if no question was asked, or answer was given) can lead you to confusion and easy miscommunication. However, if you and the spirit are skilled in cartomancy, it's a good way to get really complex conversations going.
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Yule: Oracle cards are easier than tarot if the spirit hasn't seen cartomancy before.
Vinca: I struggle to read decks over 15 cards. You can remove cards from your deck if you feel adventurous and your deck agrees.
Harp: Fuck tarot! There's too much shit to remember and I've never understood how to influence what card gets pulled.
Wolfcub: I like tarot. It has rules that go from deck to deck. It's easy to explain myself....if you draw enough cards....
I should start by saying I, Fox, myself, am a skilled cartomancer if I do say so myself. So many members of my family are able to use cartomancy fairly well to communicate. There are two areas that are heavily biased, and this is one of them. Just be aware of that!
But that doesn't mean it's a one size fits all here. Harp and Vinca both struggle with tarot because of its large size. Even reducing it to just the major arcana (which you can do if it works better for the spirit in question) doesn't meet either of Vinca or Harp's requirements. Vinca struggles to read decks that have more than 15 at an absolute maximum amount of cards and Harp hates having to remember the meanings of each card which the major arcana would still require.
Both of them vastly prefer using my own handmade oracle deck as it's the only deck I own with only 12 cards, but that's not something most sellers have available. Harp is not skilled at influencing the cards that are drawn, so the smaller deck lets her practice her skills.
However, larger decks are beloved by other members of my family, like Wolfcub who likes to learn all the meanings and put them to practice. However, his major drawback would be that many people draw only 1 or 3 cards at a time, rather than the 10+ cards he would like drawn for each reading. This is another angle that you should consider when deciding to use cartomancy for communicating with a certain spirit.
Whether you're using Elder Futhark runes, witch's runes, charm casting, or curiomancy, they all have about the same casting style - stick your hand into a bag and see what you draw. You can cast them onto a casting cloth or draw one at a time to see what you get. It's also common to use them in tandem with cartomancy by drawing cards and casting onto the spread.
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Fi: Runes are easier to influence than cards. Easier to put in your hand than shuffle to the top.
Vinca: Curiomancy is even easier to influence when you cast them vs just drawing one at a time. When it's all different sizes, it's harder though, so be careful.
My family's consensus is that curiomancy of all sorts is easier than cartomancy on all accounts. It's easier to understand each piece's meaning and easier to influence if it gets pulled or not. However if you have a curiomancy set with different sized pieces, their size could make them easier or harder to draw - even if the spirit doesn't want it to be done.
Our last divination technique that we will talk about is flame reading and scrying. Flame reading CAN be scrying, but sometimes it's not, so we'll talk about both.
Scrying is when you unfocus your eyes and gleen answers from what you see. This can be by looking into a flame, smoke, water, or mirror (or another surface, there are a lot of creative options).
Flame reading, however, is when you look for information by looking at the flame itself. How tall or short the flame is, if it goes out quickly, or won't blow out easily.
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Ron: I'm a large fire breathing dragon. Almost all candles react to my presence. It's not my intentional influence.
Vinca: Human eyes play tricks on them all the time. It's hard to get your message strong enough, but also unique enough.
Wolfcub: I like smoke scrying because I can (meta)physically move my hand and it moves in the physical world! I don't understand mirror scrying though...
Scrying is fun in this household, but it's too unreliable to be used as an actual communication method. (Meta)physical properties like Ron being a fire breathing dragon (large is subjective as he can change his size at will) can influence readings like this easily, which make it hard to get clear answers if its your own means of communication.
Before me, Yule actually used scrying with previous humans. Though she could make effects happen in physical realm, the understanding between her intents and wants to communicate were never understood properly. Yes this could be due to many different reasons, misunderstanding, cultural norms, but nonetheless it was frustrating and she eventually gave up trying to scry with them.
Signs are when you ask for something specific to happen as "a sign" that the spirit is there, talking to you, a sign that something good is going to happen, etc.
I will point out that while deities are technically spirits in the sense that the definition I use for spirits is "non-physical entity", deities are a special category. Deities that have thousands of years of theology and belief that they CAN send signs and control specific things does lend them an easier time sending signs, however spirits who are regular Joes like you and me? Not so much...
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Ron: How the fuck do you expect me to get 15 physical birds into your yard? Be be watching fast because they're fucking birds, they're going to fly away.
Yule: I can make it snow, but the weather has to already be ready for snow. It's not really a sign at that point then is it?
Fi: I can increase water pressure but no one likes it when I flood their sink.
Signs are one of the hardest things for a spirit to accomplish and I encourage you, if you can astral travel, go try to round up some birds and ask them to go to your yard. It's incredibly hard and finicky, and even when a spirit CAN influence the physical to that degree, it's hardly recognized as a sign.
Okay! So there are two more common communication methods that I want to touch on: Dreams and automatic writing and drawing.
Dreams
So, when you are dreaming, your brain is firing neurons activating different parts of your brain. Dreams can have some meaning, such as anxieties you may be facing in your waking life, or things you hope happen. However, dreams are just like screensavers for your brain. The insight they provide is often minimal and putting stock into dreams isn't something I recommend past a curious quick search or question.
However, spirits can influence dreams and communicate through them (as long as they themselves are able to do so). However, as you are asleep and only typically remember the last 15 minutes of your dreams, communicating is extremely difficult. How do you tell the difference between a spirit communication and a dream? Even if you know what the spirit looks like and sounds like, then you could just dream them up, ya know?
Anyway, it is possible, but not one I would personally recommend.
Automatic Writing/Drawing
This is when you allow a spirit to take over your body and use your hand to write or draw something. Some call it possession, but as you always have full control over your body and can kick the spirit out easily, I don't put the big "P" word to it.
Spirits who are humanoid will have an easier time doing this than spirits who are not humanoid as they are already used to using fingers to move things dexterously.
A quote from Vinca, who is a dragon: "It's like being in a flesh octopus mech. Everyone is yelling outside of the mech that it's so easy, and just figure out the super easy controls, but you're also blind and nothing is labeled."
So yes, some love this and it works great, but it's not for me or my family. This is the second one that I'm very biased with as mentioned at the start of the post.
Ending
I just covered a couple of the most common divination methods for contacting spirits, but the methods are endless with enough creativity and there are dozens of other ones I know about that I haven't even talked about!
This post has gotten incredibly long and I'm not even done yet!
Part 3 will cover the ways that are easiest for spirits to communicate and how those work! Hope to see you there!
Part 1 - The Basics of Spirit Communication
Part 2 - Spirit Opinions on Divination Tools and Methods
Part 3 - Spirit Preferred Communication
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