Asexual Demiromantic

“Sex/Romance is what makes us human!”

It’s 100% okay to not feel those (or any) attractions, and I will always stand behind that because that’s exactly why aros and aces are treated horribly, but I think we should all remember that it’s not a bad thing to feel attraction.

Sexuality can be fluid. Your orientation always has the possibility of changing, and that’s okay. That’s just as good as a solid, unchanging one.

It’s also possible to feel attraction and be on the spectrums, so this especially goes for demis, greys, etc.

Remember that there is no such thing as a “true” aro or ace. There is no checklist where you have to say yes to all the boxes to be a real aro/ace. There is no strict set of rules that you must follow to be aro/ace. You are not a fake or liar if you don’t fit the textbook definition.

💚 it’s okay to be an ace who has sex

💜 it’s okay to identify as asexual/aromantic and then realise you are demi or vice versa

Please send all submissions to [email protected]!

I will be accepting the submissions until July 18th.

  Due to the gatekeeping in the LGBTQIA+ community I am making a video. In order for me to make this video, I will need the help of others in this community. (The video will be playing the song Battle Scars by Paradise Fears)

  The video will consist of pictures and clips that are submitted by those in this community. In every clip or picture I’d like for them to have you holding a sign with a phrase or something or your flag.

 The videos can be silent or you can say a phrase or something. They can’t be more than a few seconds though.

 The pictures can be of you or you and your friends holding your flags or signs. 

  This project is for everyone in this community. For asexuals, aromantics, gays, lesbians, bisexuals, nonbinary, transgenders, etc. ANYONE.

  The video will be posted on various social medias. I’m planning on having this done before the end of the summer. I will make another post within the week with a due date and where to submit them to.

being aro in a world obsessed with romantic relationships ain’t easy

but you are awesome

your platonic relationships are just as beautiful as romantic ones

your sexless relationships are  just as beautiful as those who have sex every week

In solidarity, I made some Pride crystals. I tried to cover some of the major ones I’ve seen. You’re totally welcome to save the ones I made to your computer for your own personal use, or if you’d like to make your own with your preferred colors and your flag you can download the file from my Gumroad. Just enter a “0″ and you can download it for free and personalize it as much as you like- and feel free to reblog this with your own image + added modifications to anyone else who may want to use them: https://gumroad.com/l/XIuXf

I’m proud to be Bisexual, though it’s only been a handful of years since I came into acceptance of that, and even more recent since I’ve become more open about it. Know that through all the hardship and hopelessness, you matter. You are not broken, you are valued, and you are wonderful.

I reblogged a post of helpful links and sources if you want to help or need support just below this one, and you can always send me an ask if you need. Keep fighting the good fight ❤

it’s not our fault that the stereotype that say “all disabled people are asexual” exists and it is not our job to dismantle it or disprove it.

you’re allowed to be you and to be proud of who you are. people are not allowed to blame you or shame you for being yourself.

I’m literally sitting on my couch choked up and nearly in tears.

As a nonbinary person I’ve never felt like I had any options to legally be myself.  It got to the point where I didn’t even want to bother with changing my name.  But if this is possible for me, if my ID and passport can one day say ‘nonbinary’ instead of male or female…