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struggling with self care? here's a few things you can do to include your f/o in your day to day life to maybe help you out :)

— make your f/o breakfast! or lunch, or dinner, or a snack, or a cup of tea, whatever they like!

— your f/o really loves the smell of the body wash you use! take a shower tonight with it so they can smell it while they're cuddling you asleep. same goes for your shampoo!

— your f/o has an outfit they wanna wear tomorrow, but its not clean. may as well do your laundry too while you're at it!

— your f/o had a movie they wanted to watch with you. take a moment to relax with them tonight.

— your f/o wants to have a nice cozy night with you tonight. why not make your bed so you have a nice place to snuggle with them?

— having trouble cleaning your room? that's okay, your f/o is gonna help you do it! try to get it started for them.

note; these are just a handful of things that help me. I dunno if they'll help you but you can try, if you'd like :3

— take a break from social media tonight and talk to your f/o! maybe draw or write them something, and if you aren't feeling that, just take some time to appreciate life with them.

In the spirit of disability pride month, your f/o is there through the mundane.

Appointments. Double checking you've taken your meds. Making sure you're safe and comfortable as possible during a flare up, either keeping a respectful distance or holding you close if that's what you need.

Your f/o is the one to pick you up from therapy and lift up your spirits. Or maybe they're the nonchalant type that secretly carries sweets or painkillers or whatever else helps out your particular disability.

They're there up with you when pain keeps you awake, conversing to ease your mind. You won't even remember when exactly did you fall asleep as their presence made time blur.

If your particular disability is invisible, the f/o will double down on supporting you. Advocating for accommodations if you struggle, scanning rooms to find places to rest, reassuring you when you have to go home early.

The thing is. You're a part of their life now, and by extend this also includes your struggles. This isn't some huge thing in their mind, but rather just something to ease the weight off your shoulders, even by a little bit. Is it always easy? No, however that's what makes it special. They're putting in efforts to their love and it shows.

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Only for Kinger to silently point up at the ceiling, prompting them to look up.

And Caine is just scuttling around on the ceiling like an excited giant spider.

(Btw I adore your art and animations so much! They always bring a smile to my face when I see them!)

Your romantic F/O who is so head over heels for you... The simple thought of you is enough to pull a lovingly sigh out of them.

Your romantic F/O who daydreams about you, who imagines cheesy lovey-dovey scenarios between you two. Maybe they giggle and kick their feet, too.

Your romantic F/O who sketches you in the corners of their notebook, in the middle of their notes — and suddenly, the whole page is filled with doodles of you and hearts.

Your romantic F/O who thinks about you before they go to sleep, hoping they can meet you in their dreams.

Your romantic F/O who is constantly reminded of you throughout the day, by the mere sight of things that make them remind of you — your favorite color, your favorite food, something you like.

Your romantic F/O who always has loving you as the intention behind most of their actions. Their love for you takes a huge part in their life.

Selfshippers with periods

💿 If you struggle with cramps, your F/O will get you what you need. Chocolate, heating pad, anything to help. Even if it's hard to find, they'll do what they can.

💿 If you struggle with cravings, your F/O will tend to those. They'll get you the snacks you need or want, no matter how simple or complex. No matter how strange or random. They're happy to help.

💿 If you get emotional, that's okay, too. Even if your F/O doesn't fully understand or struggles a bit to accommodate, they'll try their best. For you.

💿 Your F/O doesn't find it gross. They aren't disgusted by you for it. If you get blood on your sheets or pants, they won't be grossed out. They'll help you change and clean up. They know it's perfectly natural.

💿 If all you need is a cuddle, and some assurance, they'll give you that too. Whatever you need, they'll do their best for you.

THIS GOES FOR ANYONE WHO HAS PERIODS. REGARDLESS OF GENDER IDENTITY.

Do NOT make this post NSFW.