turning 18 is not some magical switch that suddenly makes it normal - let alone ethical - for you people to start sexualizing someone

if your first instinct when someone crosses that line into legal adulthood is to immediately create explicit content about them, that doesn’t read as admiration, it reads as anticipation. it reads as you were waiting, and thats sooo fucking disgusting

martin and juhoon are barely there. “legal” does not equal “appropriate”, and it definitely doesn’t erase the reality that these are real people who have just stepped into adulthood under a spotlight that already strips them of enough privacy as it is

the way some of you reduce them to objects the second you feel like you can “get away with it” is not only invasive, its genuinely disturbing

its not “just fiction” or “just how fandoms work”. that excuse is tired.

youre still choosing to engage in something that crosses a line, and youre still responsible for what you normalize in these spaces

i’m not interested in debating this. i’m not interested in hearing justifications,if i see any of my moots interact with, create, or support that kind of content, i will block you. immediately. no warning, no conversation. this needs to stop.

some of you need to seriously reevaluate the way you engage with people who are barely stepping into adulthood, because this pattern of behavior isn’t normal, and it shouldn’t be treated like it is

do better or stay away from coerblr

there’s a particular courage in walking away from the thing that built and shaped you and in being able to leave something so grand and safe to find something bigger than your current self. most people never do that. i am incredibly moved that he has chosen that journey: to leave the thing that made him, so he can become the person he know’s he was always meant to be.

his departure isn’t him just leaving, but it is him also modeling a kind of self-trust people hardly ever have. people often think courage is that cinematic moment where someone stands up and declares their new path to everyone, but, truthfully, it is often a quiet, fearful, and private decision where you turn it over in your head a million times and have a million conversations over the same topic over and over again with loved ones before you decide you’ll eventually have to loosen the grip on what’s defined you to find what’s waiting for you.

letting go of something big isn’t just courageous either, it’s painful, lonely, and disorienting, and i can only imagine what it feels like when the life you’re letting go of is what’s been the majority of your life AND career.