miss fortune.

yes, literally make all this manifesting stuff a game.

i think some of us put way too much pressure on manifesting our desires and the 3d results that it becomes stressful. some people even would go as far as to pause their responsibilities and tasks in life just for the sake of manifesting(aka neglecting the 3d and outer world).

yes, 4d and fulfilling inner world is important, u gotta do this do that blah blah blah, etc. but whatever u doing, stop making manifesting such a big stress. please focus on life and ur daily tasks and enjoying ur life and caring for urself

one way to make it less stressful is to treat manifesting like a game. because if it's a game, it would not be such a big deal if ur doing it right, if the 3d showing it, etc. it would not matter that much. you're just doing it for the fun and enjoyment.

for example, if im gonna manfiest bigger lips, and i decide that i'm gonna use robotic affirming as my way of manifesting it, i'll just make it a game by making my goal to just saturating my mind by affirming as many times as i can without wavering. i know u dont have to saturate ur mind to manifest but this is just an example i'm giving. and yes, robotic affirming and repetition works if u assume so. also repetition reprograms ur brain either way and makes it into an assumption BUT if u dont like affirming just replace that with however else u prefer to manifest. because you don't have to do anything its just whatever works for you y'know.

so in this case, i'll just focus on telling myself that "my lips are so big" over and over again without wavering aka persisting and dwelling in the new story and desired state. and if i start to get doubts or "negative" thoughts, i'll just not identify with those thoughts such as by letting them pass away without reacting to them, or by flipping them and just repeating affirmations. the goal is to affirm as many time as i can without giving up to the old story. i don't care about the 3d or whatever. i just care about the main goal of this game.

the point is to stay consistent. its completely fine to have negative thoughts. it's probably not gonna be natural at first bc if u first start out playing a game ur probably not a pro at it yet. but still don't give in. stand firm with the new story. don't waver back and forth. the mindset is very important. just keep persisting and keep the mental diet. keep returning to and dwelling in the desired state where your desire is already fulfilled.

it's kinda like that dino game when u have no internet. ur making ur score as high as u can. those cactuses thingys are bits of the old story and ur negative thoughts etc. but ur gonna jump over them by not wavering but being persistent in already being the person who has the desire. by fulfilling urself. whatever ur doing to do so, do it whether its repeating affirmations, etc. just do it and persist.

but yeah just play the game. the 3d don't play much of a role here. it's just some extra prize in the end of the game lmao.

once u keep playing this game, and become a pro at it, its gonna make an assumption and the assumption is persisted in. what happens when an assumption is persisted in? it hardens into fact !! so basically thats when it becomes more natural when you are now feeling fullfilled within and it cause the outside 3d to conform. and bam you got big lips without getting lip filler. congrats you beat the game 💞💞

[ The idea of this challenge is not created by me! All credits to the rightful person ]

☆This challenge is very simple yet effective imo! Basically, in this challenge for 7days you just saturate yourself.

☆In this 7 days you shouldn't let any negative thoughts/feelings. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but trust me! Just keep persisting!!

☆This method is also known as "robotic mode" Method. Just like a computer or robot, you will just have your mind reprogrammed and fully occupied with positive assumptions.

☆Negative assumptions/thoughts should be totally ignored. In this 7 days, you persist and do things which you love alot! Don't focus on negative!

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With lots of love,

she has some of the most helpful posts ever and they're easy to understand. there's SO many of them too. hope it helps <3

🍡reblog list

if you overconsumed info

manifesting FAQ

change your physical reality challenge

just do it challenge

revamp your whole life!

manifesting celebrity sp

money affirmation trick

for those who feel like they dont deserve the desire

fun manifesting hack

the only requirement for being a hot girl

break the pattern today or the loop will repeat tomorrow

manifesting equation

how to reality shift

make 2022 better

why having good self concept matters

celebrities that manifest

manifestation myths

everything is you pushed out challenge

remember this

difference betwee you and a bad bitch

the only issue you need to work on

self concept affirmations

self concept affirmations 2

self concept affirmations 3

how to persist

money affirmations

future tense affirmations work

answering your manifesting questions

the issue for asking others for affirmations

stick with it

beauty vaunt

you're meant to have an amazing life

how i manifested my celeb sp

quotes and key points from solar's guide

masterlist

how i personally manifest

what it feels like to actually know you have your desires

reminder

realize once you change your self concept

reminder it's impossible not to get your desires

the way i was able to manifest one of the biggest celebs

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step one : decide what you want, and decide that you have it.

you want something? you already have it! you want an ability? you already have it!you wanna shift somewhere? you're already there!

step two: maintain your faith to that decision by fulfilling yourself in imagination.

a.k.a. thinking as if or living in the end / knowing. when it comes to imaginal acts: if you get bored with affirming all the time, you can use other methods!

step three : persist and be consistent to your new assumption.

by persist, i mean i want you to stand firm in the feeling of acceptance & belief towards the fact that your desire is yours. not forcing yourself to become or believe. this is also super helpful when doubts pop up.

step four: repeat step three until the idea of having your desire feels natural and you naturally accept / believe your assumption to be true and normal.

decide -> maintain faith -> persist in new assumption -> assumptions / beliefs shift -> 3d instantly shifts to match.

REMEMBER! ☕

⭐️ your 4d creates and always comes first, your 3d reflects and follows.

⭐️ your past thoughts, experiences and states do not matter.

⭐️ you can't try to become something you already are.

⭐️ just because your circumstances are real, don't mean they're permanent and forever.

⭐️ it's the frequency of returning to fulfilling imaginal acts that counts, not how long you do them for.

⭐️ manifestation is inner work. not outer work.

⭐️ stop focusing on the fact that you don't have it and focus on the fact that you do.

⭐️ wishful thinking and inner fulfillment will never be the same thing.

⭐️ manifestation / shifting will always be instant.

⭐️ if you steer off track, dust yourself off and get back on it.

⭐️ never doubt the limitless power that resides within yourself and your imagination.

⭐️ acceptance is allowed from surrendering, not forcing.

⭐️ success is a choice. not an unattainable prize.

Hot girls don't gatekeep, so here are some of my favourite glow-up tips that actually work. <3

Skin

Find a skincare routine that works for you!! It took me years to find mine, but now my skin is literally perfect. <3 (let me know if you guys want a detailed skincare routine!!)

Don't pick your skin, the less you touch your face, the better.

I believe ice rollers are bs…

If you struggle with dark circles, don't try fixing them through skincare. Most likely, the problem comes from your diet or stress.

Dry brushing is a game-changer!!

Use lotion after every shower and apply a body spray before the lotion is fully absorbed into your skin. You'll smell amazing for DAYS.

Don't try homemade skincare if you already struggle with your skin. I learned it the hard way, lol…

WASH YOUR MAKEUP BRUSHES

Hair

The more heat you use, the more damage you'll have.

SILK PILLOWCASES

Never sleep with wet or damp hair.

Stop buying cheap shampoo and conditioner, also make sure to check the ingredients!!

Some ingredients to avoid: Sulfates, Parabens, Polyethene Glycols, Triclosan, Formaldehyde, Synthetic Fragrances and Colors, Dimethicone, Retinyl Palmitate.

I trim my hair every 3 months.

If you have damaged hair, invest in some Olaplex!! my favourites are N4c, N6 and N7. <3

Diet

green juice actually makes you feel better. I make mine at home and LOVE it :)

Balance is key!! I swear by the 80/20 rule.

Drink more water, even if you think you're drinking enough. DRINK MORE

Keto is BS <3

Focus on eating more protein. Usually, low-fat products have more protein, so I just try to buy those, lol.

I eat gluten-free, not by choice… But it did clear my acne, so…

Take supplements, get a blood test done, discuss it with a doctor and start taking whatever they recommend. GAME CHANGER.

EAT MORE VEGETABLES and fruits.

Lifestyle

Focus on being more active, walk more, workout, join a club or sport, dance, whatever works for you!!

I aim for 10K steps, I live in a big city, so I usually walk more than that but still.

Hobbies that don't include screen time. Trust me.

Find your personal style and ALWAYS dress up. <3

TREAT YOURSELF. Buy yourself flowers, and presents, go to your favourite restaurants, vacations!!

Read more. As a classics lover, I can't imagine a life without literature, but even if you don't like classics, any book is better than no book!!

Take more pictures. I've noticed that I have become a lot more present since I've started taking more pictures!! highly recommend :)

I hate to say this, but getting up earlier is lowkey kinda great... been doing it for a few weeks, and unfortunately, I do feel better... they were right...

Get a cat. :)

Mindset

Stop assuming that everyone hates you, they don't, trust me.

Journaling, manifesting, law of attraction, affirmations.

one of my favourite affirmations: "if I weren't capable, the opportunity wouldn't have come my way; I belong here." <3

Stop hanging out with people who drain your energy

stop consuming media that makes you feel bad.

What would the highest version of yourself do?

If you change your mindset, you will change your life.

Romanticise every aspect of your life. <3

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and glow-up tips in the comments! <3

✰ i am the luckiest girl alive

✰ everything goes my way and way only

✰ i love how everything just naturally goes my way

✰ i always get what i want because i have luck on my side

✰ i was born into this life to be the luckiest girl alive

✰ why am i so god dam lucky?

✰ everything i want just instantly falls into my lap

✰ i am a magnet for miracles

✰ i attract more success and luck everywhere i go

✰ I always get special treatment

✰ amazing opportunities flow to me like water

✰ everything just loves to work in my favour

✰ literally everything always works out for me

✰ luck is always on my side so i never have to worry about anything

✰ everything i want just easily and effortlessly flow into my life

✰ i am always in the right place at the right time

✰ everything is working and happening for me

✰ i am blessed with the abundance of luck

✰ everything comes easily to me

✰ life is a game and it is rigged in my favour

✰ life is a game i always win

✰ i was born lucky

✰ i am just naturally lucky

✰ everything falls into place perfectly for me

✰ things just naturally go my way no matter what

This is your reminder to KEEP PERSISTING!!!

DO NOT GIVE UP!!! Do not give up. You are so worthy of your desires. Why would you give your power away and ditch your desires all because of the 3D?? You're literally God. You can manifest literally anything you want in the blink of an eye. You literally have sooo000 much strength in your mind. Why give up on your desires? You're too good to be doing this to yourself, I swear.

THIS IS HOW YOU HAVE TO FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF

       𝐃𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐌 𝐆𝐈𝐑𝐋 𝐖𝐈𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐑

a winter post on getting through the winter flawlessly, warm, and cozily as a dream girl ♡ if you’re interested, look at my dream girl guides for summer and autumn!

my winter looks like traveling, cabin stays, new york, adventures and activities all the while staying cozy and warm inside surrounded by christmas lights, hot chocolate, candles, shopping music, and keeping to myself looking out my floor to ceiling windows with my books and loved one.

♡ table of contents

what does your ideal winter for this year look like? ideas, moodboards

physical: winter essentials, what to wear, beauty products, winter reads and bucket lists

mental: wellness, book recommendations

   ❄️ what’s your ideal winter? ❄️

like i always say: you create the definition of dream girl and it can always change. so what does your ideal winter look like? 

have a balance of attending holiday parties, walks in the city to see the lights, indoor shopping and staying inside, in your cozy space while keeping warm with a hot beverage and a good movie/book!

♡ bucket list ideas

create a winter routine! make sure to get your daily fresh air, staying physically & social active and uplifted to stay away from the winter blues. wake up earlier.

pick up a new hobby

spend more time away from your phone

make it a priority to avoid isolation

go skiing, snowboarding, ice skating

attend a ballet/musical

go on late night drives

take a drive to see the christmas lights

attend or host holiday parties or small gatherings with loved ones. have a game night!

try new recipes, bake goodies

most important of all: follow your gut. keep your safety your #1 priority.

♡ cozy winter habits

christmas movie marathon

playing classical music

sitting by the fireplace

making your christmas wishlist

take up crochet and knitting. make a hat, scarf, headbands, book sleeve, etc!

donate old clothes and toys

playing in the snow

wearing fluffy socks

make a new year vision board 

movie nights

try new ways to make coffee, hot chocolate…

buying christmas themed pajamas. match with your pets.

reading winter books and classics

go on a youtube throwback binge and watch bethany mota and meredith foster’s old christmas videos

keep writing in your diary

shopping or browsing through the city and malls to take in the holiday atmosphere

candlelit bubble baths

turning on the radio to listen to christmas music

                        physical

♡ winter essentials

moisturizer. with the colder seasons come with drier skin. make sure to invest in a good heavy moisturizer that soaks into your skin well. recommendations below.

sunscreen. it doesn’t matter what the season is, spf will always be important! don’t forget your neck and hands.

a pretty blush of your choice

get a new signature scent for winter

candles

cute onesies 

classic pink silk robe

a cute winter mug for when you add in mini marshmallows + whip cream/sweet foam for your beverages

♡ outfit essentials + my personal favorites

chanel earmuffs

santinni “an affair to remember” + “roman holiday” + “an american in paris” coats

chloe betty boots 

a cute fur + puffy jacket

black vivienne westwood leather gloves

ralph lauren cable knit sweaters

baker boy/fiddler hats

mini skirts. yes. i said it.

demonia boots (vigilance/camel line)

fur mini bags

oversized scarfs!

victoria secret silk robe

new and fresh bed sheets

knitted mini skirts

sam heidi bib puffer jacket

santinni “harlow” fur headband with bow

fur trim everything and anything. coats, boots, gloves, hats…

fur empty top hats

microfiber and leather ankle boots

leg warmers

tweed + knitted blazer and cardigan sets

moon boots

prada monolith combat boots

the arrivals moto jacket

bow tights

ugg earmuffs 

fleece tights that keep you warm and cute

hair bows and headbands

scarfs

sweater dresses will never not be my favorite

sunglasses

baggy denim 

half zip up pullovers

uggs (with bows) 

long trench coats + wool coatigans 

tote bags, small crossbodies 

trousers

the basics to layer. turtlenecks, mocknecks, wool crewnecks, leggings, long sleeves, thicker socks

and… the bear hat and scarf. i love it. don’t look at me.

                     beauty

♡ the colder weather calls for soft, sparkly and blushy looks!

blushed and flushed or nothing comes out in this post as well! the cold look is the absolute cutest.

glittery eyeshadow and highlighters

gradient lip combos

plum colored makeup looks for the holiday season

♡ beauty tips for the colder season

gear towards creams instead of gel moisturizers. creams are heavier, gel will hydrate your skin but it won’t last you through the whole day. you’ll eventually start your skin tightening and dry mid-day.

i always go through my sheet masks fast during the winter! run the extra serum on your neck, chest and hands.

Invest in face masks, a good face cream and lip product.

keep hand cream and lip balm on you!

 ♡ product recommendations

philosophy - snow angel, white cherry, and candy cane shower gel (or all of them tbh)

victoria secret - warm & cozy line

o’keeffe’s - working hands cream

fenty skin + dior addict lip oil

nature republic - fresh herb peach cleansing foam

laneige - cream skin toner & moisturizer

tatcha - the dewy skin cream, water cream, and overnight repair

amlactin - rapid relief restoring body cream

créme de la mer - ultra rich cream

etude house - soonjung 2x barrier intensive cream

kopari - ultra restore body butter

♡ nails 

pale, muted colors with decos! pinks, winter blues, nude, ombre, etc.

lots of deco and designs are my favorite

i usually go for coffin but with designs i love to recreate, long almond.

examples for both makeup and nails are in the photo above! ♡

♡ winter scent recommendations

voltaire zadig - this is her

ysl - mon paris

carolina herrera - good girl 

killian - angel share & love don’t be shy

fresh cream - warm cashmere

gucci - bamboo

chanel eau tendre

juliette has a gun - not a perfume

replica by the fireplace & jazz club

eilish - billie eilish

burberry - her

victoria secret - warm & cozy

              for the mind & soul

♡ reminders

keep up a routine and structure. switch it up when you feel called to. it can be hard when it’s cold and the days become darker but remember the feeling that comes with being active and getting things done.

take a list and write things down that you can enjoy in the winter and focusing on bringing more of it into your life for the season.

make yourself cozy and romanticize life! stock up on sweaters, get cute blankets, bake goods to enjoy and have your house smelling heavenly, play music in the background, and whatever your heart desires. 

♡ winter reads

sit by the fire or window, cuddled up in a blanket and dive into another world with bamb’s recommendations!

before the coffee gets cold - toshikazu kawaguchi

little women - louisa may alcott

murder on the orient express - agatha christie

one dark window - rach gillig

a christmas carol - charles dickens

the bear and the nightingale (winter trilogy) - katherine aden

sorrow and bliss - meg mason

sleepless nights - elizabeth hardwick

frankenstein - mary shelley

from lukov with love - mariana zapata

wuthering heights - emily bronte

six of crows and crooked kingdom - leigh bardugo

echo north - joanna ruth meyer

for the wolf - hannah whitten

disorientation - elaine hseigh cho

the winter duke - claire eliza bartlett

tinder - sally gardner

an unwanted guest - shari lapena

shiver - allie reynolds

the picture of dorian gray - oscar wilde

the overnight guest - heather gudenkauf

lapvona - ottessa moshfegh

murder for christmas - francis duncan

i want to die but i want to eat tteokbokki - baek sehee

behind closed doors - b.a paris

snow - orhan pamuk

the invisible life of addie larue - v.e schwab

lakesedge & forestfall (gothic fantasy duology)

- stay safe, warm and cozy. kisses from bambi ♡

master manifestor mentality affirmations ⋆ ˚｡⋆ ୨୧

1. i am a limitless master manifestor

2. i have a perfect top-tier self concept for everything

3. i manifest whatever i want INSTANTLY

4. it’s literally normal for me to manifest quickly

5. i only need to affirm once to get what i want within a heartbeat

6. manifesting is extremely easy for me

7. i manifest effortlessly, whatever i want just falls into my lap

8. i’m just naturally good at manifesting

9. i only have to want something to get it, it’s as simple as that

10. i literally have everything i want right now

11. everything in my life is absolutely perfect

12. everything ALWAYS works out in my favor

13. i know that everything is unfolding for me perfectly

14. everything goes my way and my way only

15. i always assume for the best and that’s exactly what i get

Stop checking the 3D, if you know that you have your desires you wouldn’t constantly have the urge to look for them. If you KNOW something then you don’t need constant reassurance and validation.

”If a physical fact can produce a psychological state, a psychological state can produce a physical fact.”- Neville Goddard

You have established some things as facts such as your name or that 2+2=4. You don’t call your parents every 5 minutes to make sure that your name is your name. You don’t carry around a calculator to make sure that 2+2=4 every time you feel doubtful about it. Instead you accept these things as factual and move on with your life. Do that with your desire as well, accept it as a fact and move on. You don’t need to see it to know that it’s already yours.

we treat old stories like albums, n****, all that shit get dropped… or whatever 21 savage said

nothing has more irrelevance than an old story in the law of assumption community, nothing. i know you’ve heard the phrase “circumstances don’t matter” many times and an old story is just circumstances. it doesn’t matter if you’re 4’11 and nobody in your blood line is above 5’2, you can manifest being 6’6 as fast as instantly. it doesn’t matter if your SP said “i’d eat bat shit before i’d deal with you again” you can have them crying for your attention and begging you to take them back. it doesn’t matter if you’ve never even had the funds to even take a trip out of your city, you can be in another country with nothing but luxury. if circumstances don’t matter THE OLD STORY DOESN’T MATTER. the moment you are able to drop the old story is the same moment you become 90% closer to you having your desire. the only thing left for you to do at that point is affirm and persist. when you want to change something about your life why would you even be focusing on the past anyway. even if the circumstances/old story is hard to ignore.. everything is possible to change. if you ever get triggers just tell yourself “i only exist in the reality where xyz”, repeat that until you feel better, then go on with your regular affirmations. the past is the past and is only kept alive by you. the moment you start telling yourself the story has changed, the more you see evidence of that. drop the old story NOW! even if you don’t want to start affirming for the new story today. whenever you get any sort of reminders about old story you tell yourself “that doesn’t exist in my reality” then keep it pushing!

Be delusional.

Let’s take a simple example, you want to manifest clear skin but you have acne or scarring or something and every time you go in front of the mirror you see it and find it difficult to manifest it properly. Or when people point it out to you, you get insecure.

Now gaslight yourself into thinking that’s stupid.

Like imagine you’re wearing a blue shirt and someone goes ‘that’s an ugly ass orange shirt’. What’s your first reaction? Insecurity or being like oh that persons blind as fuck, why are they calling my blue shirt orange, are they good?

Just think of it the same way. The moment you affirmed you have clear skin, you have clear skin. If the mirror shows otherwise, the mirrors malfunctioning. If other people are pointing it out, it’s think of it as are their eyes okay?

Your imagination is the only reality that matters. If something doesn’t match up with your desires, it’s that thing that’s not working properly not you. If the weighing machine shows 60kg when you wanna be 55 or something? There’s something wrong with it OBVIOUSLY.