”Transandrophobia isn’t real.” Well, okay. What do you call it when my best friend decided to unfriend me and her parents stopped trusting me not because I was trans, which I know because her other best friend is a trans woman and she and her parents love her a lot, but because I was a man specifically, because that meant I would turn out to be a predator one day? What do you call it when trans men are labeled as aggressive or dangerous because they’re on testosterone, and are thus seen as more manly by society and thus inherently more prone to violence? What do you call it when trans men are pushed out of lgbtq clubs and groups for being men, while other people with different trans identities are allowed to stay because they’re not men, and are thus safer to be around? No, I am not saying androphobia is a systemic issue. No, I am not saying it is nearly as dangerous as misogyny. I know that androphobia is not a systemic issue even close to misogyny. But denying its existence, claiming that the hatred trans men face doesn’t have a single thing to do with them being specifically men, is just wrong. I’ve lived this. Many people have. You need to learn to trust our experiences and listen to our voices. Because I’ve faced hatred for being a man. I’ve had people tell me to my face that they are man haters and hope all men die, including me because I’m a man. Don’t you fucking dare tell me that is not hatred due to being a man. Don’t you dare tell me that is not Transandrophobia

Being transmasculine is odd cus on one end of the spectrum everyone is telling you that you're privileged and evil and basically just a cis man (even if you're nonpassing), and on the other end you're watching your brothers being raped and murdered and buried under their dead names while being falsely listed as a femicide. (this faulty documention will be wielded as proof of your privilege)

if you genuinely believe that "afab" privilege is a real thing then you are not a feminist in the fucking slightest and that shouldn't even have to be said

Wow, I wonder why the group of people that don't identify as strictly women but have uteruses and have concerningly high sexual assault rates around the globe would want to be included in fights for abortion rights! But who cares, right? What's the point in fighting for such a small group? Why should we worry about excluding them in our language when there's just so little non binary people, transmascs and trans men out there! You know, because they're killing themselves and being killed and staying closeted and stealth so that they won't be killed. Because we aren't including them in our activism. But how is that our fault? Why would a trans man be upset that he's being called a women for needing abortion rights? It's literally the same thing as saying "not all men"! Ugh, men make everything about themselves. The 2 transmascs in the world are fine. Clearly.

“all these tmra’s—“ yeah i do think trans men deserve rights. Do you not?

tbh I think we should probably get a lot more comfortable outright calling transandrophobic behavior misogynistic when it’s misogynistic, even and especially when it comes from other trans people. And just making it clear that transandrophobia in general is largely rooted in misogyny. I get that it’s been downplayed partially bc it can make us dysphoric, but I think a bigger reason we’ve downplayed it is because it makes other trans people uncomfortable. But maybe their discomfort is not on us to fix or avoid. Why should we have to avoid talking about our reality just because it makes others uncomfortable? People AFAB are usually/often taught from birth to go the extra mile to avoid making others uncomfortable (which is, of course, misogyny). Maybe it would be good for us to stop doing that.

fake allies will treat a trans man like the most evil person in the world for simply being a man, and then get mad when he doesn't feel validated that he's being told he's fundamentally and irreversibly evil and irredeemable and heartless and cruel and there's nothing he can do to change it

You’d think the prevalence of “if men could get pregnant” and “men couldn’t deal with having periods” and stuff like it around that people would realize that trans men are not given male privilege because we are not seen societally as men so much so that even trans people use the word men to mean “perisex cis men”, and yet here we are.

your feminism needs to include trans men because their existence is rooted in women's rights to self expression. btw

"Do you want trans men to be treated like a different kind of men????" Hmmmm yea. They have uteruses and vaginas so they need different medical care. They also have high rates of sexual abuse and there's no laws in place of protecting trans men being physically abused. Like yea, we do need them to be treated like a different kind of men because they are a different kind of man.