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My All Timers 


Korrasami:

Will never forget the moment after I watched the finale, just sitting in the dark, unable to believe I’d actually just seen what I’d just seen. Still get chills when I re-watch it.

Clexa

We’ve all got our war stories from this one. But it wouldn’t have hurt so bad if the highs weren’t so high.

Sanvers

This one ended up breaking my heart too, but I can’t claim I didn’t love the ride while it lasted, and one of the most meaningful coming out stories I’ve ever watched.

Cohpine

Two lovely human beings who are able to convey yearning as memorably as I’ve ever seen it done.

Goodfoe/Shoni

It feels wrong to put them here when it’s still so early. But I don’t think I’ve felt this way about a ship since the heyday of Clexa

Harley/Ivy

Already loved it in the comics, but the show made it something so real, I’m so pumped for season 3.


The Also Great

Hollstein

This one is really, really close to being in the all time greats. I think maybe if I liked season 3 more they’d be in there….as it stands, they’re probably the best of the rest….for now.

Nysara

So, here’s the thing. You wanna say Avalance is the better ship, I will not only not argue with you, I will agree with you. They have more development, more great moments, and I adore Ava Sharpe. But Nysara is always going to be the one for me. Nyssa the heartbroken lesbian is always going to be one hell of an image to me.

Catradora

I have some issues with this one that I might get into later, but I also think they’re two of the best characters in animation in the past decade, and seeing them together can’t help but feel powerful. 


Scorpia/Perfuma

My only issue with this one is we didn’t get to see more of them

Amy/Hope

I actually wish Booksmart had been a series so we could have gotten a proper slowburn between these two. Doesn’t mean I didn’t near swoon when they kissed. An all time great high school ship.

Nico/Karolina

I haven’t properly finished Runaways, so this probably more belongs in the category below. But what I have seen, I love.

Jenny/Vastra

It’s a lizard lady and her wife/maid fighting crime in Victorian England with katannas. I’m not above that. 


Jamie/Dani

Yes, I watched, and yes, I became a puddle.

Bubbline

This one straddles the line between this category and the next, as I’m in and out with Adventure Time. But I’ve seen most of the important bits and I know I like what I see.

Haven’t Actually Watched The Show But I Still Ship Them Real Hard

Wayhaught:

Confession, I’ve yet to actually watch a full episode. But I’ve seen pretty much every Wayhaught scene, plus enough of the rest to fall a little in love with Wynonna herself. Still. Sorry. But they’re all amazing

Cazzie:

Again, only watched their parts, but I’m honestly not sure I’ve ever seen high school friends to lovers done better.

Curious Archer

I bailed on OUAT before these two showed up, but I’ve watched every scene they were in, and it just makes me wish they’d somehow brought them in 3 seasons earlier. 15 minutes or so worth of screen time after 7 seasons isn’t nearly enough, but it’s certainly something. And they’re so effing cute.

Root/Shaw

This is a show I know I’d enjoy if I gave it a shot, but I just haven’t sat down to yet, and now I’ve spoiled most of the final season for myself because I couldn’t help but watch everything to do with these two.


 The Straights Jake And Amy

I’ve come to have pretty mixed feelings about rooting for cops, but I’ll always think these two had one of the healthiest and most engaging sitcom relationships. 
 Ray and Nora

An adorable couple on and off screen that didn’t get enough time. These two getting such a raw deal is one of the things that’s zapped my enthusiasm from LOT

Gareth/Madelena

Don’t think a lot of folks watched Galavant, or there’d be more of it, but if you want to see the cutest villain ship I’ve ever seen, check it out.

Guilty Pleasures

Choni

They fall short of being in my also greats for a couple reasons. One, I’m just   But the main one is the treatment of Toni as a character. She has no life outside of Cheryl, something the actress is made known she is not ok with, and using an actress of color to be a prop for a white girls story is something that needs to END.All that said….they’re really fucking adorable, and I have a soft spot for “Ice Queen who shows a soft spot to her girlfriend”.

Ruby Slippers

This falls under guilty pleasure for the simple fact that it’s rushed and doen’t justify the buildup. It was supposed to be Mulan and Ruby, and everybody knows it, but instead we got rush job of a love story to throw a bone to the queer following.

That said….I kind of adore them. Maybe it hit me at a moment when i just needed something, maybe it’s cause Ruby was always my favorite OUAT character, or maybe it’s just cause Meghan Ory acted the hell out this episode, really selling that she’s suddenly totally in love with a girl she’s known for 3 minutes. It worked on me….but no one tell Disney. They’re not allowed to feel good about this.

I am literally always struggling to find WLW content, so I decided to put together a list of every WLW Relationship I could find! There is a lot on here, and has been organized into Television, Movies, and Webseries. If there is anything that isn’t on this list, please shoot me a message and I’ll make sure to add it! I’ll also make sure to update it if I find anything else that isn’t on the list! These are in no particular order and if spelling is incorrect, I apologize. I did my best to find correct spellings of shows/characters in different languages

UPDATE: I also added the link to this in my bio so you don’t have to scroll through my whole blog to find it. 

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Television:

Em Familia - Clara and Marina

Emmerdale - Vanessa and Charity

Grey’s Anatomy - Callie and Erica

Grey’s Anatomy - Called and Arizona

Grey’s Anatomy - Arizona and Carina

Grey’s Anatomy/Station 19 - Carina and Maya

Hockey Girls - Lorena and Flor

Las Estrellas - Flor and Jazmin

Perdona Nuestros Pecados - Barbara and Mercedes

Amar En Tiempos Revueltos/#Luimelia - Luisita and Amelia

Amar A Muerta - Juliana and Valentina

Jane The Virgin - J.R. and Petra

Jane The Virgin - Luisa and Rose

Rote Rosen - Isabelle and Eliane

Servir y Proteger - Nacha and Rocio

Servir y Proteger - Nacha and Teresea

Young and the Restless - Mariah and Tessa

The L Word - Bette and Tina

The L Word - Alice and Dana

The L Word - Shane and Carmen

The L Word: Generation Q -Bette and Tina

The L Word: Generation Q -Natalie and Alice (and sometimes Gigi)

The L Word: Generation Q -Sophia and Dani

Atypical - Casey and Izzie

Orphan Black - Cosima and Delphine

Gentleman Jack - Anne and Ann

Vis a Vis - Macarana and Estefania

Vis a Vis - Macarana and Zulema

Killing Eve - Eve and Villanelle

Dickinson - Emily and Sue

SKAM France - Lola and Maya

SKAM Spain - Cris and Joana

Legends of Tomorrow - Sara and Ava

Home And Away - Alex and Willow

Shortland Street - Nicole and Maeve

100 Dias Para Enamorarse - Juan and Emma

Four More Shots Please! - Umang and Samara

Lip Service - Frankie and Cat

Sense8 - Nomi and Amanita

Gentrified - Ana and Yessika

Gypsy - Diane (Jean) and Sydney

One Day At A Time - Elena and Syd (Syd is non-binary, but keeping them on the list anyway because they’re adorable!) 

Trinkets - Elodie and Sabine

Faking It - Amy and Karma

South of Nowhere - Spencer and Ashley

Dead To Me - Judy and Michelle

Sjukt Oklar - Ellen and Vera

The Bold Type - Kat and Adena

Motherland: Fort Salem - Raelle and Scylla

Operacion Pacifico - Paula and Valeria

Desenfrenadas - Marcela and Vera

Utopia Falls - Brooklyn and Sage

Nurses - Ashley and Caro

Demain Nous Appartient - Sara and Roxane

Demain Nous Appartient - Sandrine and Morgane

Acacias 38 - Camino and Maite

El Embarcadero - Alejandra and Veronica

Orange is the New Black - Alex and Piper

Lucifer - Maze and Eve

The Originals - Freya and Keelin

Mi Familia Perfecta - Megan and Genesis

Saving Hope - Sydney and Maggie

Rookie Blue - Gail and Holly

San Junipero (Black Mirror) - Kelly and Yorki

You Me Her - Emma and Izzy

Wentworth - Be a and Allie

Wentworth - Frankie and Bridgett

Lost Girl - Bo and Lauren

The Fosters - Stef and Lena

Exes and Ohs - Jennifer and Sam

Runaways - Karolina and Nico

Black Lightning - Anissa and Grace

Pretty Little Liars - Emily and Allison

Pretty Little Liars - Emily and Paige

Once Upon A Time - Ruby and Dorthy

Once Upon A Time - Tilly and Robin

Riverdale - Cheryl and Toni

Wyonna Earp - Waverly and Nicole

Feel Good - Mae and George

One Mississippi - Tig and Kate

She’s Gotta Have It - Nola and Opal

Control Z - Alex and Gabriela

Tommy - Tommy and Kiley

Twenties

Boardwalk Empire - Angela and Mary

Hart of Dixie - Crickett and Jaysene

Deadwood - Joanie and Jane

Heroes - Claire and Gretchen

Army Wives - Nicole and Charlie

Skins - Emily and Naomi

The Good Wife - Kalinda and Lana

Bomb Girls - Betty and Kate

Bomb Girls - Betty and Teresea

Black Sails - Max and Eleanor

Black Sails - Max and Anne

Janet King - Janet and Ashleigh

Stitchers - Amanda and Camille

The Bastards of Pizzofalcone - Alex and Rosario

For The People - Kate and Anya

Legacies - Josie and Penelope

Vida - Emma and Cruz

Batwoman - Kate and Sophie

Alles Was Zahlt - Ina and Chiara

Schloss Einstein - Cacilia and Leni

Glee - Brittany and Santana

The 100 - Lexa and Clarke

Girl/Girl Scene 

Buffy The Vampire Slayer - Willow and Tara

Sugar Rush - Kim and Saint

Umbrella Academy - Vanya and Sissy

9-1-1 - Henrietta and Karen

Supergirl - Alex and Maggie

Supergirl - Alex and Kelly

Everything Is Going To Be Okay - Matilda and Drea

EastEnders - Iqra and Ash

The Order - Nicole and Lillith

Person of Interest - Sameen and Root

Doctor Who - Vastra and Jenny

Legend of Korra - Korra and Asami

Tipping The Velvet

Fingersmith

Degrassi: The New Class - Zoe and Rasha

Hannibal - Dr. Alanna Bloom and Margot Verger

Vernon Subutex - La Hyene and Anais

Dates - Erica and Kate

Sex Education - Ola and Lily

Sos Mi Hombre - Brenda and Marisa

Teenage Bounty Hunters - April and Sterling

Coronation Street - Kate and Rana

Coronation Street - Sophie and Sian

Charmed - Mel and Ruby

Merry Happy Whatever - Kayla and Kirsten

Agua de mar - Gabi and Ariana

In The Dark - Jess and Vanessa

In The Dark - Jess and Sterling

Euphoria - Rue and Jules

Almost Family - Amanda and Edie

Haunting of Bly Manor - Dani and Jamie

Little Voice - Prisha and Ananya

Cable Girls - Carlota and Sara

Movies

 Saving Face

Girl King

The Half Of It

Loving Annabelle

Bloomington

Show Me Love

Room in Rome

The Handmaiden

Aimee and Jaguar

Heartland

Happy End

More Beautiful For Having Been Broken

All About E

Liz in September

A Perfect Ending

Below Her Mouth

Blue is the Warmest Color

Concussion

Let It Snow

Lez Bomb

The Feels

Alto

Booksmart

Elena Undone

GirlTrash: All Night Long

I Can’t Think Straight

Kiss Me

The Miseducation of Cameron Post

Rent

Snapshots

The World Unseen

Tell It To The Bees

Imagine Me and You

Portrait of a Lady on Fire

Vita and Virginia

My Days of Mercy

Disobedience

Heart Beats Loud

A Million Happy Nows

Princess Cyd

Signature Move

Almost Adults

Carol

Stuff

Anatomy of a Love Scene

But I’m A Cheerleader

La Luciernaga

Idle Thoughts

Thelma

Lost and Delirious

Rafiki 

Camp Belvidere

City of Trees

Nina’s Heavenly Delights

Desert Hearts

Reaching for the Moon

Summerland

La Belle Saison 

Colette

Becks

Better Than Chocolate

Gia

The Guest House

Duck Butter

Desperadas

Show Me Love/Fucking Amal

Elisa y Marcela

Seasons of Love (2019)

Liberty’s Secret

Kissing Jessica Stein

Professor Marston and the Wonder Woman

Itty Bitty Titty Committee

DEBS

The Favorite

AWOL

Freelancers Anonymous

Bombshell

Boys on the Side

Yes or No

Yes or No 2

Yes or No 2.5

The Incredible Story of Two Girls in Love

The Chinese Botanist’s Daughter

Atomic Blonde

Frida

It’s In The Water

Wild Nights with Emily

Ana e Vitoria

Four Faced Liar 

All About Them 

Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister

And Then Came Lola

Jamie and Jessie Are Not Together

Seeking Dolly Parton

Summerland

Good Kisser

Route of Acceptance

Bittersweet Symphony

Take Me For A Ride

Reaching For The Moon

The Ring Thing

The Truth About Jane

If These Walls Could Talk 2

Room in Rome

Anchor and Hope

Mercy’s Girl

Bonnie and Bonnie

Freeheld

Happiest Season

Webseries:

Girls Like Magic

The Fortnight

BIFL

Carmilla

All For One

The Stripper

A Melhor Amiga de Novia

Anne+

Just Another Love Story

Kontrolla

Gay Victorian Affair

LA Web Series

Twenty

Starting From Now

Barbelle

Haunted or Hoax

Addicted to Straight Girls Anonymous

This is Taylor

1 in 10,000

Pot Luck

Queer Ghost Hunters

Gal Pals

Kelsey

Same Same

Her Story

The Solve it Squad

Flunk

March Family Letters

Call Me Katie/Nothing Like The Sun

It’s Complicated

Bonus [x]:

fans:

Potent minimalist art sends a strong message about police and vigilante brutality in America

Journalist and artist Shirin Barghi has created a gripping, thought-provoking series of graphics that not only examines racial prejudice in today’s America, but also captures the sense of humanity that often gets lost in news coverage. Titled “Last Words,” the graphics illustrate the last recorded words by Brown and other young black people — Trayvon Martin, Oscar Grant and others — who have been killed by police in recent years.

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aster: what's in the coat?

ellie's coat: [meows]

aster:

Although I understand the sentiment of not wanting to watch any more unhappy endings for wlw in media (I don’t share it but I 100% get it), I’m so glad you went back on your original opinion and changed your mind, so first things first, thank you for that and for telling me, it really makes me happy ❤️

I also think it’s always important to take the context into consideration. Judging a movie by “do they/do they not get together at the end?” is extremely reductive, especially for a movie like Portrait. You have to consider why it ends the way it does. Are they going for a sad ending just for the sake of drama? Or is there something more being said here? There definitely is. And it’s also why, although tragic and heartbreaking, I don’t consider the ending a ‘bad’ ending at all. The whole point of the movie is to show a love between women that is possible but it’s made impossible by the circumstances they live in, Céline, Adèle and Noémie have said it more than once. We experience their love on the island and get to see how beautiful and rich and tender it is, we see how these women get to be when they’re free from constraints, which is why it’s so maddening when they have to separate, but that’s the whole point. How unjust it is, how unfair. Not just for Marianne and Heloise but for women in general. It really points the finger at patriarchy and leaves no room for mistakes. It’s not on Marianne or Heloise, it’s not their fault for not being ‘strong enough’ or ‘brave enough’, the responsibility is not on them, it’s on the system of oppression that doesn’t let them live how we know they’re capable of living. To put it in Adèle’s words, “YOU (the patriarchy) are not letting us be alive enough.” To be able to show that, Marianne and Heloise cannot be together, and them managing to escape or anything of that sort would say that if you’re just brave enough, you can evade the system, that it’s not really that oppressive. And that’s not true, and a disservice to to women in general. I know when one watches a movie sometimes you just wanna watch a nice love story for 2 hours, but Portrait is and has always been a very political movie. It just doesn’t spoon-feed you with its message so sometimes people forget that.

But I also don’t think it’s a depressing ending in the sense that you have to submit to oppression and that’s it, your life is over. The movie doesn’t say that at all, quite the opposite. What happens instead, is that we see that even after all those years, the love Marianne and Heloise have for each other has survived, in spite of the forces in place to crush it.

First there’s Marianne submitting for the gallery a painting of Orpheus and Eurydice, clearly one she painted with hers and Heloise’s love story in mind, meaning that unprompted, she still thinks about her. Then, she realizes that a portrait of Heloise is in that same gallery and she rushes to see it.

Heloise is there, with her child, who is the first detail Marianne focuses on. She is painted conventionally, her face resembles much more the first painting Marianne did than the one they created together. It looks like the picture of someone who has fallen in line with the conventions of society and been assimilated by that oppressive system. 

And then.

Even after all that time, even in a portrait that seems to say Heloise has submitted to the fate imposed on her, we and Marianne see that it’s just an illusion and the ‘real’ Heloise is still there. Page 28 is the proof of her resistance. The survival of her love for Marianne is her resistance. Yes, she cannot physically escape and be with Marianne but she won’t let her spirit be constricted by the forces that constrict her body. 

And in that final scene at the opera house, we see just how alive Heloise is thanks to the memory of her love for Marianne. And not just the romance. The intellectual side of it too, the artistic side. She cries to a music Marianne first played for her, because this woman allowed her to have access to art she had never experienced before, and challenged her intellectually, and made her laugh, and made her cry, and Heloise carries all that with her and it’s something nobody can take away, even in a society as oppressive as the one she and Marianne live in.

This movie decided to remain realistic and with reality comes tragedy and comes pain, yes, because society was horrible to women and it still is. But the message isn’t that women who love each other will be punished by society. It’s saying that love sets you free, that love is emancipatory, it’s what makes you alive even when you cannot escape. When it comes to the ending, I always think about something Adèle said. She has often talked about how Heloise’s mode of resistance is absence, because she cannot physically run away from her fate or stop it in any way, but she has removed her presence as much as she can, for example before the movie by refusing to pose and hiding her face. It’s the same with her marriage. Yes, she will go along with the wedding her mother planned for her, yes she will marry this man she has never met, she will carry his children, she will share his house etc etc. But he will never get her. He bought her essentially, so she’ll be like a piece of furniture. Everything behind that, her heart, her passion, her love, that’s hers to keep and it’s untouchable. This isn’t to say her husband is necessarily an evil man who treats her like a thing. He could be the most wonderful man in the world, but it’s not the point. The point is he got her through oppression, and if Heloise cannot physically resist the imposition, she will do it emotionally. And we see that she does. The ending proves it. Her love for Marianne is her freedom.