We live on regardless.

climbing uphill

Advice: You’re not in love, you’re just lonely. You’re just looking for a reason to exist for the time being and the fact that someone right now desires you, makes it easier to get through most of the day. You deny your love for them to others but with them you mumble those empty words with no feelings attached “I love you too”.. Slightly feeling guilty that the love isn’t mutual but needing to hold onto it for as long as possible for survival. My question is, when you recover will you still consider them as “love” or just something you held onto during the process? Let me tell you, this won’t help and this won’t work. Whatever you’re going through you need to do it alone, the demons need to be faced alone, otherwise you will never heal and instead you’ll bring others down with you.

I hope you find a man who doesn’t just give you flowers and calls you beautiful, I hope you find a man who visits your family when you’re homesick. I hope he goes with you to see your sick grandma in the hospital, I hope he gives you space when you need to be alone and grace when you are not patient with him. I hope you find a good man, one who will love you for who you are and not what you can give. I hope that you find someone who will cherish and respect you, opening your heart to new and good things. I hope you find a man who makes you forget all the other men, who gives you hope in something more. I hope you find the courage to be willing to wait for something solid instead of something flashy, because when you’ve found that one good man, I know he’ll light up the stars to see you smile.

Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence.