The Kinky Kounselor's Lovingly Deviant Soul.

This Tumblr is for adults only. If you are under the age of 18, please leave now. With luck, this blog will still be here in a few years. You can check it out then. I'm a Phoenix native seeking to explore everything and anyone. I've an insatiable appetite for sex , deep conversation on any topic and good food and smoke. 420 friendly and an advocate for sane party policy. Any questions as to exactly what that means...msg me privately, I'm more than happy to discuss it with everyone. I'm a 50 year old male, currently single after a LTR and excited about getting to know new people. I identify as hetero-flexibe..as I only, so far at least, develop romantic feelings for women, and the Transgendered that present as women. Not sure why, but its mechanism seems to be viceral visual. Men are fun for play. My current position on this does not negate the possibility of more substantial developments with men, it just has not occured yet, in any significant way. I am here to find kindred spirits. Those who have, or are in the process of breaking the chains that bind and restrict the honest full creative expression of our individual sexual social identities. I firmy believe that it is the agressive imposition of toxic belief systems at a cultural level that have stunted the healthy development of an empathic awareness. An awareness that we; as a "one people", so desperately need. Through the mechanisms of fear, shame and guiIt they have instilled terror at the very root of how our interconnectedness begins. The most rudimantary human relationship is the sexual bond. (chicken or egg??) Everything we are as a people flows from that sexual bond and accompanying family unit. This includes any family unit regardless of the gender the sexual bond as reproductive aspects have a way occuring through social interactions and "adoptions" during the course of lifetime. Everything we've created socially from governments to religion to talk show television has in it mission statement the intent of supporting the family unit, and therefore the foundational sexual pair bond upon which that family unit is built. Sadly, over generations, we have allowed our beloved and trusted institutions to over reach, and as a result we, as a people, are afraid to talk to one another openly in the belief that we will be judged harshly and ostracised. Fear and shame in action. It is my deepest felt knowing that this must be corrected. Human beings are sexual creatures. To seek to supress that in any externaly imposed way is only going to be destructive to the individual's well being, and in the end, society. This results in pathological and delusional cultural expressions as well as leaving the individual isolated, afraid and ashamed of being who they truly are, leaving them to their own devices to process and navigate their way through their emotions in a healthy way with the imposed burden of "wrong ness"; weighing them down. and filtering their perceptions making them predisposed to a biased negative interpretation. Pathology and destructive expression is the inevitable result: Gay bashing and other hate crimes, slut shaming, sexually motivated crime, sexual harassment occurrences because men have never really learned how to communicate these desires in an appropriate honest way for fear of being perceived soft or week, And my favorite....... On any given night at 7 pm we can turn our televisions on and watch Us do harm to Us in the most graffic and grusome ways possible with great effort given to detail. And it's ok. We're alright with it. Comfortable with it . But put a naked person on Tv at 7pm, someone with identical parts to the ones you yourself have, together with another naked person and have them touch each other tenderly, with care, devotion and love......... and the universe is coming to an end, humanity is doomed. THIS IS SO FUCKED UP... IT'S STAGGARING, BEYOND MIND BLOWING. WE NEED TO FIX THIS. CAUSE IT IS GETTING PEOPLE KILLED. I CAN'T DO THIS ALONE, PLEASE HELP CAUSE THIS WILL PROBABLY TAKE A WHILE. Please, if you have any interest or compulsion, maybe even a sense of duty or social responsibility in this regard..... or even if you're just in the mood to fool around.... your formally invited to contact me. Your input and opinions, suggestions and advice as well as criticisms, will be gratefully accepted, acknowledged and appreciated. I hope to hear from you. Yes you.