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⌯ᵔ ⩊ ᵔ⌯⠀Jirai  Kei  PNGs   ♡

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♀ Venus ♀

𓆩She/Him, 28𓆪

Non-binary Butch Adjacent Domme-Leaning Switch Lesbian who yearns professionally

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𓆩♡𓆪 Interests: 𓆩♡𓆪

Lesbian Media In All Forms, Poetry, Writing, Spirituality, Photography, Anime, Manga, Singing, Simping, R&B, Comedy, Video Editing, and Unnecessary Graphic Design

Video Games I like (Please ask me to play with you, I'm desperate): Fortnite, Overwatch, Stardew Valley, Coral Island, Palia, Palworld, Schedule 1

𓆩♡𓆪 Rules of Engagement: 𓆩♡𓆪

ᰔ Check this post if you are interested in a kink dynamic or romantic relationship! ᰔ My DMs and asks are open to followers! Feel free to be flirty, sexy, and funny. Would love to hear some worship and fantasies you have about me ᰔ Consent is mandatory! Ask before you send sexual photos ᰔ Anons: Leave your Age, Pronouns, and an emoji with a Pseudonym I can call you ᰔ I don't do long term anon relationships because building attachments to faceless strangers makes me anxious ᰔ Do not triple and quadruple text me when I don't respond— that will get you blocked. ᰔ CisHet Men, Blank Blogs, and Minors will all be blocked on sight! ᰔ TERFS, Zionists, Imperialists, Fascists, Racists, Transphobes, Fatphobes, Homophobes, & Conservatives I wish you all a very fuck off and ***

𓆩♡𓆪 Tags 𓆩♡𓆪

ᰔ Venus.jpg: Pretty pics of a pretty butch ᰔ Venus Gone Wild: Anything and everything NSFT ᰔ Venus.Mp3: Audio Posts ᰔ Venus Speaks: Asked and Answered ᰔ Venus Yearns: Loverboy posts ᰔ Venus Vents: Old man shaking fist at clouds posts ᰔ Venusian Whimsy: We do a little silly posting ᰔ Venus Writes: Smutty writing

NSFT Under the Cut!

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So I was doing research for my writing and I found a really good Yandere Types chart!

Full sources and links to further reading will be below in the notes!

And before getting into it, remember to read the trigger warnings and content warnings. This is Yandere fiction we’re talking about, so it’s going to get messed up.

Themes + Trigger Warnings + Content Warnings:

Possessiveness, Obsessiveness, Unhealthy relationships, Religious themes, themes of sociopathy, themes of mental illness, hallucinations, delusions, hallucinations and delusions due to drugs, mentions of: physical abuse, sexual abuse, brainwashing, murder, suicide, murder-suicide, self-harm, stalking, panic attacks, cannibalism, necrophilia.   

{click to open and zoom in to see the details! I'm so sorry, mobile app users :(}

Broad types. Click them to see more information!

Possessive Type

Shackling Type

"Denpa" Delusional Type

Love and Hate Type

Intoxicated Type

Stalker Type

1. people hating on writers and fics. writing is something we do for free and for fun. if you stumble upon a fanfic that isn't necessarily your cup of tea or you just don't like, scroll. dont read it. literally leave their page. you don't know if this could be the author's first work that they're so excited about, you dont know if the language they're writing in isn't their first language, you dont know that the writer could be a literal teen and loads of other reasons. fanfictions don't HAVE to be perfect. you write what you want to write because we do it for fun and enjoyment and we want to share that to the world. seriously, what is the wrong with that?..

2. x reader consumers getting WAY too entitled. the number of tiktoks i've seen that say "i run a strict program when it comes to reading fanfics." girl you aint running shit. this is FAN FICTION you're reading. F A N F I C T I O N. there is no denying that most fanfiction writes are beyond talented but just because you read one fanfic that exceeds your expectations doesn't give you the right to talk down on others that don't. people have their own personal writing style, their way of doing things and you talking shit on that isn't right.

at the end of the day, we are all humans, reading and writing is what we do and what we're meant to do. and for you to talk shit about a person WRITING is so insane. we are humans. not some robots that you can tell what to do so you can consume it.

i've seen so so many authors take down their fanfics and losing all motivation to write because of a hate comment. DONT LIKE DONT READ‼️

hate how the internet turned EVERYTHING into a competition. your room doesn't have to be prettier. your art doesn't have to get more likes. your interests don't have to be more obscure. you don't need more followers...

can we all just exist and have fun,, please...

• Morning cartoon time - Before you even touch your phone, watch an episode of a comforting show (can multitask, ofc, just not on your phone)

• Colouring & puzzle books

• Carry all the random things your mom used to have in her purse for you in your bag - Candy/snacks, crayons, wet wipes, etc

• Sunday night baths - Set aside one special night a week where instead of just taking a shower, you set up a nice relaxing bath (maybe even get some bath duckies!!)

• Listen to obnoxiously happy music - Sad music IS making you more sad, make a playlist of songs that make you smile

• Draw without needing to be perfect

• Play your childhood video games

• BUY A DVD PLAYER!!!!! - I cannot possibly stress this one enough

• Do jigsaw puzzles & play board games

Febuwhump #10: God Complex

CW: Dehumanising, god complex, power imbalance, nsfwhump (under cut)

"You can't do this!" "Oh, I think you'll find I can"

"Give up." "Never." *Grabs chin* "Get it through your head. I own you. So fucking obey like the dog you are."

"You're not here to ask questions, you're here to satisfy me"

"You have no power over me." "Yet you're still here. Yeah, keep telling yourself that.

"You expect me to... to..." "I don't expect you to stutter about it. Hurry up."

”You should be grateful I allow you to serve me.”

“You think you deserve to walk on my floor? Get on your knees and crawl, mutt.”

” It’s funny you think you made that escape plan all on your own. I’m in your head, Whumpee. I see everything. Now give. me. your. hand. We’ll see how well you fare without fingers.”

NSFW prompts under the cut

An It-Girl doesn’t waste time overthinking, gossiping, or stressing about other people's actions or behaviour. She doesn’t entertain unnecessary thoughts or internal conflicts. An it-girl doesn't dwell on things that drain her. Instead, she detaches, refocuses, and puts all that energy into herself—her growth, her glow, her dream life.

Learning a new language

Crocheting

Reading (books, articles, etc.)

Learning sign language

Practicing Pilates, Yin Yoga, and workout

Writing a novel

Writing comics or short stories

DIY projects (decor, stationery, etc.)

Dancing or learning new choreography

Listening to pep talks and podcasts

Doing facial massages

Weekly exfoliation & masks

Staying hydrated

At-home spa days

Hair care routine

Nail care routine

Skin care routine

Tracking skincare progress

Start a blog and share your journey

Learning digital art and design

Drinking lemon water for skin clarity

Cleaning makeup brushes regularly

Applying SPF daily

Cleansing your skin twice a day

Learning video editing skills

Learning effective communication skills

Painting & sketching

Practicing meditation, mindfulness, and self-awareness

Making your favorite food and experimenting with new recipes

Learning attractive body language and self-presentation

Learning about fashion & finding your style

Diy candles

Planning ahead for studies and personal goals

Planning and preparing for exams in advance

Creating a schedule for consistent progress

Organizing and cleaning your desk

Experimenting with makeup and beauty routines

Learning photography

Exploring new music and creating playlists

Designing and organizing your personal planner

Taking nature walks

Trying out journaling

Making your personal playlist for different moods

Learning about astrology or spirituality

Doing vision board

Exploring aromatherapy and creating a calming space

Practicing gratitude journaling or affirmations

Creating a travel bucket list

Developing a signature fragrance

Growing your own mini garden

Trying out new hairstyles or hair experiments

Staying active with fitness routines

Mastering time management

Learning new skills online

Doing regular digital detoxes

And yet, there are so many more... the list goes on...

in my control

my actions

the way i respond

my values & goals

my boundaries

my beliefs

my choices

my perspective & mindset

what i take responsibility for

what i focus on

how i spend my time

how i engage

in my influence

my health

my wellness & wellbeing

my connections

relationship dynamics

my reputation

certain aspects of the future

my energy

my environment

my finances

not in my control

the past

my memories

regrets

others feelings

others thoughts

others words

others beliefs

others behaviors & responses

politics

world conflict

aging

illness

loss

the weather

Hello! This is the Become Your Best Version Before 2025 masterlist. It’s a collection of all the posts from the series, gathered in one place to make it easier for you to access and follow along.

I hope you find it inspiring and helpful as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself!

Day 1: What Does Becoming Your Best Version Mean

Day 2: Understanding Yourself / Self-assessment

Day 3: Identifying Limiting Beliefs

Day 4: Identifying Your Core Values

Day 5: Setting SMART Goals That Actually Stick

Day 6: Creating Your Personal Mission Statement

Day 7: Building Better Habits

Day 8: Mastering Time Management

Day 9: Auditing Your Relationships

Day 10: Mastering Your Emotions

Day 11: Taking Care of Your Body

Day 12: Stress Management

Day 13: Financial Planning and Budgeting

Day 14: Career and Purpose

Day 15: The Power of Self-Talk

Day 16: Digital Detox and Mindful Living

Day 17: Decluttering Your Life

Day 18: Creating Healthy Boundaries

Day 19: Self-Care Rituals That Actually Stick

Day 20: Building Confidence

Day 21: Overcoming Fear & Self-Doubt

Day 22: Developing New Skills

Day 23: Personal Style & Self-Presentation

Day 24: Setting Up Progress Tracking Systems

Day 25: Designing Your Accountability Plan

Day 26: Personal Development Tools and Resources

Day 27: Hobbies & Passion Projects

Day 28: How to Keep Yourself Motivated

Day 29: Prioritizing Yourself and Your Needs

Day 30: Creating Your Vision for 2025

Day 31: The Beginning of Your Best Year Yet

people say that beauty costs money. there is some truth to that, but the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. it is a mindset that is cultivated - not purchased. 🎀

fashion & beauty

home manicure → trim & file nails, paint colour

dress nicely even when you’re sitting at home → you don’t feel girly when you feel like a slob.

experiment with make up → try out new tutorials when you have no where to go

play in your wardrobe → experiment by mix & matching your clothing & accessories to find new outfits

study to become inspired → study fashion, movies, art, history and whatever else you want online to find new inspirations and role models for you to incorporate into your style

lifestyle

start exercising → we all hate this advice but it truly makes the biggest difference to your mood, body and feeling girly. do free pilates or yoga videos from youtube. you don’t even need shoes, or a mat if you don’t have one.

take a beauty bath (ideally with bubbles and music playing) → if you don’t have a tub, then a beauty shower where you take your time and listen to music is also really effective.

drink more water → every cell in your body requires adequate hydration to function so don’t starve yourself of precious water!! this is a requirement for glowing skin.

dancing → put on music, dance in your bedroom. moving your body frees up restraints that you subconsciously put on yourself and can help you feel more girly.

reading → ditch the scrolling and just start reading. read what? whatever you want, it all counts. you don’t need to buy anything new - read books you already have, articles on substack, or borrow e-books to your phone from a public library. spending time reading calms your brain down and lets you readjust.

environment

clean your house → there is a difference between a ‘girl mess’ of some clothes on the floor and actually dirty. you’re never going to feel cute and girly with a sink full of dishes and crumbs in your sheets.

redecorate your digital spaces → maybe it’s not possible to decorate your outer environment right now, but redecorating your digital spaces, like your phone and computer, is free and can give you fresh girly inspiration.

swap out your media → consider what makes you feel girly and thoughtfully curate the types of content and media that you are putting into your mind. surrounding yourself with girly energy will make you feel more girly.

change your music -> music affects your mood so intentionally choose music that supports the way you want to feel. create playlists to be the soundtrack to the movie of your girly life. don’t put on sad heartbroken music and expect to feel like a queen!

mindset

appreciate yourself in the mirror → most people have a negative self image and you can begin to repair your own by paying yourself compliments. it feels cringe at first but the more you do it, the more beautiful you begin to feel.

journal → how do you become your own dream girl if you don’t even know who she is? write about her, discover who it is that you actually want to be.

if you want to become a more girly, cute, feminine version of yourself then there is no one stopping you other than you. while having a huge budget can buy us a new wardrobe and lots of lovely things, the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. your new dream girl life is bought with your mindset, not your wallet. just aim to make small changes one by one and work towards becoming your dream girl over time.

in the words of Dita Von Teese: “beauty, glamour, even luxury need not be determined by one’s bank account”. ♥

cheers to us all becoming dream girls 🎀

We need to get real about our actual habits in order to live the life we dream about. Our current thoughts shape our actions, which build habits, and over time become your identity. We all label ourselves based on these tiny actions we take over and over each day. A habit of not giving yourself enough time becomes you're the person who's always late. A habit of leaving your messes for the future becomes you're the Type B friend who can never stay organized. A habit of not washing your face means you're acne-prone (not anything against acne, but please, wash your face). These labels shape how you view yourself, and more importantly, how you talk to yourself and what you believe to be true about yourself.

This seemingly simple concept is often overlooked when it comes to conversations about starting new habits. We cannot change what we are doing if we a) don't understand our current situation and habits and b) don't reflect on our self-concept. Our habits form our ideas about our potential; what we believe about ourselves is critical to understanding our self-worth and leveling up our lives. If you believe yourself to be a tardy person, you never allow yourself to change your habit of leaving the house late. If you believe yourself to be unorganized, you won't be successful in keeping your room clean. The underlying beliefs in our psyche are so powerful; they subconsciously define what we can and cannot do.

So, how do we actually change our behavior and habits?

Start with naming the negative traits you apply to yourself. Maybe it's lazy, undisciplined, tardy, unorganized, or something else entirely. Make a physical list. Write them down.

Then reflect on your day-to-day habits that reflect those traits. "I call myself lazy because I doom scroll for 4 hours instead of doing homework." (Been there.) "I call myself unorganized because my room is always messy." etc.

Next, begin questioning the labels and beliefs you have about yourself. "Am I really defined by X habit, or am I making excuses to remain in my comfort zone?" Most of the time, you want to stay in your comfort zone.

Find friction in your daily routine. Define when and where you want your new habits to take place, and feel the tension of wanting to do what you're comfortable with and choosing otherwise. Lean into it; real growth happens outside your comfort zone.'

Congratulations, you have the framework for building new habits! Start small, simply reframing your thoughts about yourself when you notice them. This will help construct your identity around the person you want to be, not the version of you defined by stagnation and plateaus. Changing your self-talk to be aligned with your values and who you actually dream of becoming is the most important step in chasing that dream life. Keep leveling up!

xx