carpe diem

i love all girls in both a supportive way and a gay way

You know what’s messed up? People make fun of women for reading romance novels in which men are kind, chivalrous and sexually generous to the women they love, but men watching violent hardcore porn where women choke on dicks is considered normal, and ‘shaming’ someone for it is considered more taboo than the porn itself. And women reading romance novels has certainly yet to lead to a culture where men are considered lesser if they don’t emulate the men in the pages. I wonder the fuck why.

Holy shit I’ve never put these two things together before now

I’m gonna say it, a culture where men feel pressured to live up to romance novel standards would be better for pretty much everyone than the culture we actually have, where women feel pressured to live up to porn standards.