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And no one else can do that : because then they would be projecting heir biases and their own life views onto you and you wouldn't be able to think for yourself, you're just going to take their work for it.

It's not easy because you're admitting to yourself that you have faults, flaws, that you are confusing and contradicting yourself.

Ref : Man's search for himself, Rolo May : picking good friends

Being in solitude, being with themselves and their thoughts in a very raw place is the most terrifying to hallow people. You cannot depend on external entities to complete yourself, you became frustrated because the puzzle is not fitting in order to feel fullfilled : it doesn't give me what i always thought they would give me.

Rolo believed that anxiety influenced our society, the ruler of the people. People are trying so hard not to be weird, to look like a normal human being among all of those human beings.

The opposite of courage is conformity : think about trying to be part of the people, trying to be the everyday person, trying to fit into society mentally. Beacause you don't want to miss out anything when you want to feek what others are felling. When you try and imitate how other people are because you think they have a better anything and everything.

All of these sorts of comformity will make you lose yourself because of trying to set yourself apart and figure out what it is that makes you : You choose to go to the easy route, but actually the more painful route of just comforming and being like everyone else.

Music related comments

the song is so emotional and beautiful.. i liked so much the mix of their voices, having the deepest and higher voices sing along together, giving us deepness to the lyrics.

there were a lot of add libs, this song is magical i feel so bad, so vulnerable, crying on the floor. People talked most about the bridge but my favorite parts are add libs and the mix of voices 😭☝️.

Cinematography

the mv was so beautiful, i really want to cry. It was filmed in japan, the sceneries are so melancholic and the mv was edited like those coming of age films. It does affirm the amazing acting they gave us, it gives a deep mood full of thoughts.

the boys go through a lot of thoughts and (new) emotions after meeting a girl. Its their new experiences, their new emotions and feelings. at the end of the mv, me might think that they finally came to a term where it was enough already and be courageous. they go through vulnerability and heartbreak. It hurts, being exposed.

at the very last end, the sceneries were more about recovery and letting go.. and staying with their closest friends despite the sadness. we should still have fun, and process it.

Details

i really enjoyed Sungchan's and Anton's voice here. Anton did showed more of his talent in this comeback i feel really teary.

the song doesn't sound like a winter song, the scenery of winter and snow add meaningfulness and deepness to the song, lyrics and the emotions they transcripted.