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tloaqve-deactivated20210316

“if you can’t brush your teeth that’s fine uwu one step at a time” posts are supportive and that’s great but I’m about to have a 4.4k$ dental bill because I wasn’t taking care of my teeth when I was super depressed so uhh brush your fuckin teeth

tloaqve-deactivated20210316

the reason I bring up those posts is because every time I saw one I felt less and less bad about not brushing them and when my teeth actually started causing problems it made my MH worse because I was having horrible anxiety about my teeth getting worse and now I’m facing procedures that will probably be pretty painful and will definitely be expensive so I kinda got some beef with the anti-recovery culture on this site

babyfairy

colgate makes some pretty cool little waterless disposable toothbrushes that are good to keep beside your bed or somewhere else accessible for days when brushing your teeth feels like a monumental task. they’re like $5 for a pack of 24 on amazon and i know they’re available at drug stores as well. they look like this.

i have pretty intense depressive episodes + emetophobia that is sometimes triggered by brushing my teeth so i get that it can be difficult but the OP of this post is right. dental health is really important and even using a disposable toothbrush is better than nothing!

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me as a writer: Oh no I can’t write that, somebody else already has

me as a reader: hell yes give me all the fics about this one scenario. The more the merrier

obsessivewriter

This one is so hard to accept. Reblogging to knock that into my brain.

primarybufferpanel

Me as a writer: I feel like I’m repeating myself, I’ve already used that theme, I’ve already written that kink, that other character uses that speech pattern so this one in another fandom can’t, I feel like I’m writing predictable things, is this different enough from that other thing I wrote, are people filling out bingo cards by my work? :sobbing:

Me as a reader: oh hell yeah this hit the spot exactly, I hope this writer has written 20 more just like it

deelaundry

As one friend said when I felt I was reusing a theme too much, nobody ever says, Did Agatha Christie write about murder again?

caledoniaseries

I actually laughed out loud at the last one. A very good point.

giraffeter

“I love this, I hope there isn’t anything else out there like it!” Said no one ever

ashenprincx

REBLOG of you ARE AROMANTIC, SUPPORT AROMANTICS, or ARE LITERALLY A NINJA TURTLE

🐢

rawtoastttt

People: Romantic and sexual attraction is what makes us human-

Aros and aces:

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witches-against-maps

When you find a super cool LGBT post and then look at the persons blog and they end up being an aro/ace exclusionist

chenleyah

chenle: nom nom nom

ranawaytotelltheworld

elodieunderglass

oh. ohhhhhhhhh. oh nooooooooooooooo

dr-dendritic-trees

[A mom and baby otter are floating together. The baby otter is sleeping on his mom’s tummy so he’s still all dry and fluffy. She keeps giving him little otter kisses.]

manicchester

This means the world to me

geminiblogs

Remember that every dollop of lotion you rub on your skin, every little nap you take to be well again, every glass of water you drink to take care of yourself, is blessed by Aphrodite. She’s always there to have a moment with you.

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yesyesverymochi

maybe a bit controversial but please tell me what you think about this. I want to hear others opinions.

could someone explain something to me? it seems like everyone's so against self diagnosis. this means that people who are almost 100% sure they have something but aren't privileged enough or under the right circumstances to get a professional diagnosis can't talk to the internet or people they think are like-minded because it's like there's a secret password to get into the comfort club; that password being a professional diagnosis. so in the time between the person realising something's up, self diagnosing and actually getting a diagnosis, if they ever do, they're just left with all the symptoms everyone else in the community is dealing with, but they're alone, with no comfort place because their feelings are seen as invalid if not diagnosed professionally. is that not torture? can't it be said that the stigma around self diagnosis is more damaging than self diagnosis itself? let me know. message me or comment.

bamberry

Agreed, some people never get a professional diagnosis because at times those around you tend to judge you for it. Me personally, I wont seek professional opinion because I’m afraid my parents think im being ungrateful for feeling the way I do. But that’s something I’m not going to dive into. So yeah, it is torturous having feel like I might just be overreacting because I’m not diagnosed directly with depression. But that’s just me.

I really think it’s just a line between a trend of throwing around the word just because of how you feel in that five minutes your favorite character died versus not actually being able to get up in the morning and maintain your health because it’s exhausting.

That being said, I wouldn’t self diagnose yourself right away but if you’re feeling like you resonate a lot with the symptoms of depression and you really feel like something is wrong. It doesn’t make your troubles any lesser than mines or anyone else. Some people don’t have the privilege to get professionally diagnosed and that’s something people have to understand.

So yes, in my opinion, it is in fact extremely damaging to people who are unsure on whether they might have depression or not. I rather have someone believe me when I say I might have depression because I constantly show some of the same symptoms than being told that I don’t know my own mind and body without a professional opinion. I hope this sorta helped?

yesyesverymochi

yes this is very helpful to hear someone else's opinion. a lot of people, once they hear someone hasn't got a professional diagnosis, are immediately ticked off. they assume the person is one of those that fake mental problems for attention, thinking it's edgy and makes them look cool. what they don't know is that the other person has researched their symptoms for a very long time and has felt like theyve suffered since childhood. discussion seems to be avoided if the topic is self diagnosis, so we're left with misunderstanding.

maybe a bit controversial but please tell me what you think about this. I want to hear others opinions.

could someone explain something to me? it seems like everyone's so against self diagnosis. this means that people who are almost 100% sure they have something but aren't privileged enough or under the right circumstances to get a professional diagnosis can't talk to the internet or people they think are like-minded because it's like there's a secret password to get into the comfort club; that password being a professional diagnosis. so in the time between the person realising something's up, self diagnosing and actually getting a diagnosis, if they ever do, they're just left with all the symptoms everyone else in the community is dealing with, but they're alone, with no comfort place because their feelings are seen as invalid if not diagnosed professionally. is that not torture? can't it be said that the stigma around self diagnosis is more damaging than self diagnosis itself? let me know. message me or comment.

#adhd #depression #anxiety #ed #self diagnosis #mental health #mentalheathawareness #add #asd #aspie #safe place

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just nomin things

luvdsc

doing the bf tag with my bf.

hey, siri, does bf stand for best friend or boyfriend? (or both?)

pairing :: na jaemin x reader genre :: fluff / best friend + youtuber au word count :: 4,691 words warnings :: none playlist :: mean it (lauv & lany) ⋆ always, i’ll care (jeremy zucker) ⋆ fearless (taylor swift) ⋆ fingers crossed (coin) ⋆ cardiac arrest (bad suns) author’s note :: this fic is a tiny bit different than my usual writing because i emphasize more on dialogue than description in order to mimic a youtube video. happy birthday to this absolute darling angel! you have the biggest heart in the universe, and thank you for sharing so much of it with the world ♡ ↳ part of the not clickbait series.

Your subscribers have always wondered if you would do this type of video countless of times, and you never thought you’d ever actually record one due to the state of your love life (or lack thereof), yet here you are.

Unfortunately, the romantic department of your life still remains very much empty though. But lucky for you, so is your best friend’s. And that pretty much works out perfectly because he could stand in for your nonexistent boyfriend in order to complete the popular GF/BF tag (along with a hidden challenge that was popular by demand and personally requested by a certain friend with a flair for baking. Now if only the frantic butterflies in your stomach would settle down just enough for you to do it).

After all, BF could stand for either boyfriend or best friend, right?

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