oh no! i accidentally misgendered someone! what should i do?
DO:Ā
apologize
thats it.Ā
realize you fucked up.Ā
realize you probably hurt the other person.Ā
apologize.Ā
IN THE FUTURE:
try to make sure it wonāt happen againĀ
get in the habit of asking someone what their pronouns areĀ
when in doubt, use gender-neutral pronouns until you figure out what they use
dont assume gender from someoneās name/clothing/appearanceĀ
FOR THE LOVE OF SOMEONE PLEASE DONT:Ā
try to make excuses for yourself
go on the defensiveĀ
try to justify it by recounting your own experiences with misgendering
brush it off asĀ ānot that big a dealāĀ
refuse to try and correct your behavior
No.



















