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“We assume others show love the same way we do — and if they don’t, we worry it’s not there.”

“I am not what happened to me. I am who I choose to become.”

to clarify … so many strong women in my life rely on men. that dependence is dangerous. ladies here are some good ref resources I’ve found helpful on my journey towards self reliance

a lot of ‘man things’ are a lot easier than you think they are. especially considering the fact that most of these things when buying the parts come with directions on the packaging that men usually don’t even look at (and often end up doing it wrong because they were taught by fathers who also did not look at the packaging). 

YouTube also helps a lot when it comes to this stuff. Changing your car’s head and tail lights are the simplest things. Parts stores (I’m talking like autozone or pep boys and the like) will tell you/give you what lights you need if you give them the make/model/year of your car. And you can get a 2 pack for under $10