Hear Me Out.

My roommate and I are trans and disabled and we need help with rent and ultilities until I can get funds coming in from the job I'm finally onboarding for after several delays. We will also need help with his meds and the transportation to get them. Rent is due tomorrow so this us urgent.

I will do art for anyone who gives $50+ just message me at @theartistrans

Dm me for proof or details

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$131/$500

But you are responsible for your own safe spaces. You can block tags, block words, block people.

“But i thought fandom was supposed to be a safe space” —yeah you have to curate it.

Unfortunately one persons’s safe space may be another persons’ trigger. That’s ok. Simply block them, block the tag, block the word etc. They can do the same for you.

I don’t know who said it first, but “I need to be able to express my anger without shame” and “I need to be away from yelling and loud noises” are both valid needs people can have for a safe space that really aren’t compatible with each other.

So are “I need to process my trauma” and “I need to not meet any trauma.”

Or “I want a safe space to tell/read the stories that speak to me” and “those stories are distressing to me.”

Insisting that your needs are the only needs anyone should have is not a safe space, it’s its own act of violence.