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all the users are free by the time im posting. if you take any of them in the intention to use, let me know! 

2 cool 4 skool album:

werebulltproof (we are bulltproof)

noworedream (no more dream)

O!RUL8,2? album:

luvnskol (outro : luv in skool)

bngtanrises (the rise of bangtan)

skool luv affair album:

skoluvz (intro : skool luv affair)

skooulvaffair (intro : skool luv affair)

buyinlov (boy in luv)

justoweday (just one day)

tomorrzw (tomorrow)

trrptych ( bts cypher, pt. 2 : triptych)

spinebrsker (spine breaker)

dark & wild album:

whtmi2u (intro : what am i to you)

dangxer (danger)

warofhrmne (war of hormone)

hiphpluvr (hip hop lover)

lettmeknows (let me know)

blanketkcck (blanket kick)

secondqrade (2nd grade)

the most beautiful moment in life, part 1, part 2 and young forever album:

lNIEEDU (i need u)

hoIdmtght (hold me tight)

ffunboyz (fun boys)

convsrhigh (converse high)

lovsntover (outro : love is not over)

bttfIys (butterfly)

whsalien52 (whalien 52)

mactyz (ma city)

housefcrds (house of cards)

saveime (save me)

youngfrever (epilogue : young forever)

wings album:

bwymetsevil (intro :boy meets evil)

blwdsweatears (blood, sweat & tears)

winvgs (wings)

21tsgrl (21st century girls)

amiwrrng (am i wrong)

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crisis/urgent support lines and sites

hotlines/crisis lines for depression, domestic abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, teens, pregnancy, lgbt and more

mental support community - a forum where you can post that you are in a crisis right now and need peer support as soon as possible

imalive crisis chat - online one-on-one chat for if you’re in at risk of hurting yourself etc

self harm alternatives

si urges alternatives

relaxation/anxiety relief

do nothing for two minutes

interactive silk art

guided relaxation

watch a dream

100,000 stars

thisissand - create sandscapes on your screen with your mouse

calming gif

the quiet place project

the quiet place - find some quiet

the thoughts room - a super calm page to unburden yourself from bad thoughts

the comfort spot - a place for anonymous venting with out anybody judging you for who you are

the dawn room - my personal favourite, especially good for when you feel alone

know that it will be okay - when a moment is too hard for you - come here.

music and sounds

my anxiety relief playlist - on 8tracks

my positivity/recovery playlist - on 8tracks

‘stay strong’ playlists - on 8tracks

coffee shop sounds

rain sounds

calmsound - nature sounds

rainycafe

comfort food

one minute cookie in a mug

brownie in a mug

several cookie recipes

25 hot chocolate recipes

loads and loads of snacks - 533 quick and easy recipes for a range of snacks on studentrecipe

lots of different in-a-mug recipes

chocolate pudding in a mug - my personal fave (lil tip: add mini marshmallows for extra gooey yumminess)

advice and tips

how to be okay with yourself

25 resolutions

life hacks

more life hacks

a hella ton more life hacks - so many life hacks dude soon ur gonna never have a day-to-day stress again

school masterpost - school sucks so bad but hopefully this can help ease the stress

how to love yourself

how to bypass restricted wifi omg

alleviate menstrual cramps

boost your confidence

love yourself!

self help after anxiety

stop biting your nails

stop procrastinating

stop skipping breakfast

videos and movies

cure to sadness (video)

the movie blog - a blog dedicated to movie masterposts you will never be without a movie to watch again

cute roulette - THE BEST PLACE ON THE INTERNET ITS LITERALLY JUST A HUGE ROULETTE OF VIDEOS OF CUTE ANIMALS WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT FROM LIFE

random acts of kindness caught on film

disney movies

movies for angsty teens

distractions etc

rice questions - answer simple questions and donate free rice to people in poverty!!

click to give - just click a button to donate (it costs nothing) food to animals shelters, people in poverty and homeless veterans; mammograms to fight breast cancer; therapy for people on the autism spectrum; alzheimer’s and diabetes research; a book to a child; protect wildlife habitat

break something - good for anger

loads of cute games

how to make a blanket nest

learn something new - a masterpost of hobbies

exercise like a superhero

nice words

things to do when your sad

slap a bald guy with an eel - this is ridiculously entertaining

watch a dog lick your screen - it loops, so you could literally watch for hours if you want

calmingmanatee

daily puppy

how to make a comfort box

download free books

extras

emergency compliment!

lots of compliments - they even include ur name aw

huge list of bloggers who have put themselves forward as willing to listen/chat without judgement

getting anon hate?

:) tag - all the posts that i’ve tagged for making me happy

7cupsoftea - free, anonymous, confidential talks with trained listeners

get a hug

Calming songs, playlists and instrumentals:

Sing Me to Sleep

The Boulevard of Broken Dreams

Boost your Mood (peppier and happy songs)

The Driving Mixtape

Study

Summer Nights

It’s Going to be Fine

Calm & Collected

Once Upon a December - Piano (song)

Clair de Lune (song)

The Moon is a Harsh Mistress (song)

Calming/distracting Websites

The Quiet Place

Rainymood.com

Calm.com

Soundrown.com - calming sounds to mix and match

A website to distract yourself

A recovery masterpost

A post of interesting things

Ungruntle yourself

Press a magic button and fix everything

Play cute games

Almost every movie your little heart desires (i suggest you use with adblocker)

How to love yourself

A website that compliments you

Crafts and activities, easy and fun DYI projects

Glitter calm jars

A list of things to do to curb anxiety

Make a blanket nest

Silky summer legs

Lots of food recipes; mostly desserts  

For bad days masterpost

Make some microwave snacks

Five minute fudge

Make a phone case

A bunch of hobbies!

Self care list!

Pretty gold-dipped feathers (for decorating or anything)

What to do when:

You’ve been triggered

You’re having an anxiety attack

You’re having a panic attack

Your face is red and puffy after crying

You just had a fight

You hate yourself

You want to avoid being stressed

You want to get over your ex

Meditation and breathing

Guided Meditations

Do Nothing for 2 Minutes

Calm Down

Meditation Tips

90 second relaxation exercise

Simple things

Pretty Tree

When You Feel You Have Lost Everything

See Some BLOOD

Press a Button to Make Everything OK

Calming Manatee

Calming Gif

Make Something!

Jump into a Sofa Fort!

Make a Comfort Box

Glitter Jar Or This One

Other Nice Things

A Page To Help You Recover!!!

Coping Skills & Distractions

The Quiet Place. Shhhhh

For When You’re Upset

The Nicest Place on the Internet

Player 2

10 Most Relaxing Online Games

Talk To Someone That Will Listen

Not Having a Good Day?

How-to Love Yourself

Ground Yourself X X  X

Mood Chart

Do Nothing For Two Minutes

Rainymood

The Comfort Spot

Weave Silk

Seed Plant Breeder

This Is Sand

C.A.L.M

Calming/Relaxing Music:

Soft Piano: x, x, x, x, x

The Sound of Waves: x

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Endless List of OTPs ≡ Ron Weasley/Hermione Granger (harry potter)

Seven

Hey there, welcome to the blog! I’m the admin from @zentherainbowunicorn, and I’ve got @mysticmessengertranslation and translation anon g with me :) This is a blog dedicated to translating the unsubtitled voice clips in Mystic Messenger for those who don’t know Korean. Mainly it includes the following:

- Emojis

- Main menu voice clips

- Ring tones, text tones, and email tones

Posts will be tagged by character and where the voice clip comes from.

don’t get me wrong, i love saeran, and i often find myself hitting the options to get his hearts, but as someone who went through a very toxic relationship, some of them hurt to click.

saeran does not love mc. he is obsessed with her. he pressures her, goes to extremes to keep mc with him, isolates her, holds her against her will…

but there is a reason why flirting with saeran and not v earns a bad ending. saeran is mentally ill, he needs help. simply complying with his desires will not help him.

Emotional abuse is very subject to the person supposedly being abused. Some ppl are stronger than others and don’t realize the “abuser” is even trying anything since they’re just that strong. And others, like me, understand exactly why ppl act the way they do, understand those actions to be the result of mental problems, and never even think to look at it as abuse.

Manipulation isn’t abuse. That’s something ppl do regularly, whether they realize it or not. It /can/ be abusive, but that behavior itself is not always abusive. Obsession is the same way. Just because someone is desperate to make someone stay with them doesn’t make them some abusive monster. Many mental disorders cause obsession to be shown as a form of love since ppl who haven’t had love don’t know how to correctly show it, so the “he doesn’t love MC” argument isn’t necessarily right. Playing the victim is also something every single person does regularly. And even his DID (multiple personalities) isn’t bad to ppl around him unless one or more of the personalities is abusive. Pressuring ppl is also not abusive behavior. None of that is strictly abusive behavior, unlike hitting and neglecting.

As for MC being isolated and held against their will… where? Since I haven’t seen that, I asked other ppl about it and no one has been able to show me that. I won’t make a claim either way until I can find what could be taken as Saeran isolating and keeping MC against their will.

I don’t think most of the ppl claiming his abusiveness have had one psychology class in their life… but that’s my major and the career I’m going into, so lemme clear something up: emotional abuse isn’t about being manipulated, it’s about how the abuser makes you feel. If they make you feel like a worthless pile of trash then yeah that’s abuse. It’s like how kids bully in school: teasing, name calling, body shaming, excluding from friend groups, etc. Trying to convince someone to stay with you isn’t abusive by itself. There’d have to be more factors (like that person telling you to stay with them because no one else will want you or something like that), unless you’re just that sensitive of a person… then I can only say that you should look into therapy too.

The definition of emotional abuse is: “emotional abuse is a form of abuse in which a partner uses verbal assault, fear, or humiliation to undermine the other person’s self-esteem and self-worth.” Now that that’s cleared up, I gotta ask: has Saeran verbally assaulted or undermined the MC in any way? He can’t be abusing MC any other way through the media we’re given (he can’t really touch MC, and he’s definitely not neglecting them), so if he’s not emotionally abusing MC then there’s no abuse.

Yes, Saeran isn’t healthy. Yes, he needs help. Yes, it wouldn’t be the healthiest relationship until he got he got help. But “abusive” is a reach. I’ve been in my share of abusive relationships, and not once has Saeran treated me like my abusers have. We certainly shouldn’t romanticize his issues, never never never. But calling him abusive isn’t helping him either. That’d only trigger him and make him worse since Mommy Dearest was abusive to him.

But yeah I don’t really see how Ray is abusive just because he’s scared to be abandoned… I don’t abuse someone by being clingy.

i’ve been wanting to talk about this for awhile, but after playing v’s route and seeing how people reacted to it, i’m honestly so upset that a lot of people fell for ray and pushed v aside. i understand why a lot of people would fall for ray- i did too, but this is v’s route and yet i see people saying that they wanted a ray route because “i liked ray so much more than v”, “v’s one was not romantic” or how “the whole time i was playing i just wanted a route for ray” instead of actually talking about the route itself or even v.

v has gone through so much and seeing the majority just dismiss him or not appreciate him was really upsetting. when i was playing his route, i could see just how much he had gone through and how much he has been suffering. i thought more people would appreciate v after his route, but all i see are people saying that they wanted a ray route, while ignoring everything that was in his route because they wanted romance and didn’t even focus on what the story was about. v is a sweetheart and i’m actually surprised a lot of people didn’t seem to really care about v in his own route.

v is broken, so of course you can’t expect him to jump right into a relationship. he needs time, and the way cheritz handled that felt realistic to me. with what he went through with rika, there’s no way he could commit into a relationship immediately. it’s upsetting that people are more concerned about the romantic aspect in v’s route and not appreciating the story.