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by Penzilla

$1k/month= $12k/yr after tax is the same value of $17k/yr before tax

$3k/month= $36k/yr after tax is the same value of  $51k/yr before tax

$5k/month= $60k/yr after tax is the same value of $ $86k/yr before tax

$10k/month= $120k/yr after tax is the same value of $171k/yr before tax

                           WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?

$1K/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $85k/yr

$3k/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $255k/yr

$5k/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $430k/yr

$10k/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $855k/yr

                                 WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?

Gross Income= the total amount a person makes before taxes.

So BEFORE discussing allowance ask your suitor the EXACT TITLE of their profession. You don’t have to ask for the company they work for blah, blah, blah, because then they may think you’re crazy/stalker type. Let them voluntarily release sensitive information like that or pick it up in context clues.

I have run into way too many “sugar daddies” that are just running scams!! There are some very obvious things to look for when you think you might be getting scammed by a POT.

Here’s a quick list of things to watch out for:

1. Refusing to use safer payment options. If a POT refuses to use traditional forms of payment such as cash, check, bank transfers, PayPal, etc. then odds are is he is trying to get too much of your private information and play some shady games.

2. Requesting you purchase him or his business partner or family a gift card. Even if he promises he will reimburse you odd are this is his way of getting you to spend your money and then he will disappear. If he is truly a SD then he would never need you to pay for anything. He doesn’t need you to use your money to purchase or deposit checks on his behalf.

3. If a POT is trying to send you money without ever meeting. Very very few guys are interested in an online only relationship. If you have never spoken on the phone, FaceTimed, or met in person but they’re adamant on spending you money be super cautious!!

4. Asking for any login information is a HUGE red flag. There is no reason your SD would ever need your login to your bank, social media, or any account!! If he is asking for any of this information he is trying to rip you off.

5. Not having any photos on their account is sketch. I totally understand that some SD’s need a high level of discretion but having absolutely no photos is something to be weary about. Simply asking to see them or have them send a pic is very reasonable. If you feel the phot they have is fake then do a reverse google image search.