Eris

And what pisses me off the most is so many of you have used “protecting your peace” as an excuse to foster 0 conflict resolution skills, cut people off with no explanation, mistreat your friends, be anything but empathetic about human errors your friends are prone to making just as you’re prone to making, never sit in discomfort of having an opposing opinion with someone else, and to also just be blatantly rude and mean spirited. Like a lot of you are obsessed w humbling people and it’s sad. You mistake your flippancy for strength, when it’s anything but. Maybe it’s insecurity too, but above all else it’s flippancy and the inability to put yourself in other people’s shoes. It’s weakness disguised as confidence. And it is genuinely harmful, both to yourself and to others !

What you do in private, shows in public. Reading shows in a conversation. Your diet shows in energy. Your discipline shows in confidence. Your focus shows in your results. You are what you cultivate when no one is watching. Prioritize your time & focus on discipline/consistency.

The inconvenient thing about life is that half of it is all about listening to your body and letting yourself rest, and the other half is accepting that life will be uncomfortable and inconvenient sometimes and you've just go to make yourself push through your brain going Do Not Want and get the discomfort out of the way, and you never know which one it is.

i hate how "being a girl's girl" has replaced feminism. I hate that enforced conformity has replaced genuine compassion for and solidarity with other women. I hate how women call each other "pick me's" for not conforming to femininity or for daring to critique something other women like. I hate how we just keep finding new socially acceptable ways to bully other women for being unattractive or outspoken or difficult or complicated or weird or ambitious or for not performing femininity. I hate those front facing camera "comedians" whose whole thing is making up a straw-woman to make fun of. I hate the obsession with "girlhood" and clinging to being a girl instead of a woman. i hate "the girl version of the roman empire" and "girlhood" and it's just consumerism and I hate the characterisation of girlhood as passivity, niceness, sweetness, helplessness and frivolity and I hate the revival of gender essentialism even as a joke!!!

I reblog  the money pigeon because I love him.

I reblog the money pigeon because its a dinosaur

I reblog the money pigeon because I'm jealous it has money and I don't

do me a solid and just reblog this saying what time it is where you are and what you’re thinking about in the tags.

tired of being brave about things i will now be openly pathetic

I am a mosaic of everyone I have ever known and loved and touched and I find fragments of them in my playlists and how I make my tea. we may not know each other any more but we will stay connected like this. I hope a fragment of me is with you too.

minimalism is cool but have you ever had all the things you love in your room

Having a natural hair color while being fucking nuts is basically just hiding in plain sight. I do not feel the need to advertise whatever is going on here

fighting demons (thoughts & embarrassment about self expression)