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When someone has adrenaline, they react with one pf the following four responses. If you want to write realistic characters, consider which they would do and then include it in your writing, even if it's very minor, it makes a big difference.

Fight; In an attempt to overcome the complication, the person fights back. Whether this is physical, emotional or spoken, the aim is to best the problem and be on top.

Flight; In an attempt to overcome the complication, the person flees. This can be physical (running from a predator) or mental (stop thinking about the problem). This reaction aims to put distance between the person and the problem.

Freeze; In an attempt to overcome the complication, the person stops their previous action. This can be physical, to avoid being seen or mental, like their thoughts or words stop. The freeze reaction aims to conceal themselves from the complication.

Fawn; In an attempt to overcome the complication, the person attempts to appease. The fawn reaction aims to avoid conflict, physically (talking to complication) or mentally (passing things off)

Keep in mind; sometimes their reactions aren't successful.

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https://www.youtube.com/user/billvicars

and here’s the link to the website he puts in his videos:

i can pretty much guarantee that ↑that↑ is not a heading you see everyday.

now i will not be giving advice on writing cyclopses, (though it may be sort of the same thing) i still hope this will be helpful for some people out there that are looking to provide a more diverse cast to their wip!

i have never ever ever read a book, watch a show movie etc etc that involves a character with one eye. (aside from those badass characters who wear eye patches bc they lost sight in one eye in some badass way)

for context: i am one of many people who was born with microphtalmia, an eye disease that results in one or both eyes develope smaller than normal at birth. i myself was born with a smaller left eye, which resulted in my left eye being removed exactly twenty days after birth.

microphthalmia (along with many other eye diseases) typically leads to being half or fully blind. i lucked out and only lost my left eye which i am so so thankful for.

i would really really love to see more representation for my community in literature, especially so people would come to see that being half blind isn’t as unusual and weird as people make it out to be.

without further ado, i present to you, a list of information, facts, and first hand experiences from yours truly!

i’ve had prosthetic eyes made to fit my eye socket for about fifteen years (i’m 16 lol) (the first 6ish months after the surgery i never had a prosthetic)

in my life i’ve had four different prosthetic eyes made because just like other people, my eye socket grew alongside the rest of me, meaning the prosthetic needed to be made bigger

i’ve had my current prosthetic for four years now, the past ones lasted about 2-3 years at a time. this one will probably last me through the rest of my life unless i need/want a new one

as opposed to most media/assumptions, my prosthetic (along with most prosthetics) is PLASTIC (people always think it’s glass) and only half a circle!!

i’ve had three surgeries related to my eye

i do not have depth perception which makes doing certain things very difficult (estimating distance, how close/far i am from something etc)

driving is not affected too much, i just have to turn my head more than other people. i believe being blind in the right eye might be more difficult, but i couldn’t say

doing my make up is kinda easy, except for eyeliner is a pain in the ASS since most people close their eye to do it on their upper lid, but clearly i can’t close my right eye whilst doing it lol

my family as well as my friends and even myself often forget i have a prosthetic, which sometimes results in awkward/funny situations

i hate walking with people on my right bc i can’t tell where they are unless i’m constantly looking down at my/their feet

i sucked at basketball bc i had such a disadvantage (no depth perception, i could only see half the court, i was constantly turning my head) but professional swimming is much easier for me since it’s not a contact sport and doesn’t really require for me to be paying attention to a million things at once

i rarely have to take my prosthetic out, and if i do, it’s either to clean it, (we do get eye crusties on our prosthetics just like other people do when they have pink eye or sever allergies) it’s bothering me/really dry, or i want to take it out to show/scare people lol

a lot of people don’t realize when i first meet them that it’s fake bc my recent prosthetic is amazing accurate to my real eye. others notice and assume i have a lazy eye since it doesn’t move

for some reason people think i can’t cry out of my left (prosthetic) eye??? i still have a tear duct??? i actually think more tears come out of my left tear duct than my right lol

i am extremely self conscious about it, but i know there are other one-eyed beauties out there who aren’t which is amazing!! i try to live vicariously through them lol

i make sooo many jokes about my eye lol, and i’m usually ok w other people making jokes as long as they aren’t like overly rude/offensive, then i’ll feel a lil bad about my self

people never really made fun of it, but kids in middle school likes to wave things in front of my left eye/on my left side that i couldn’t see which got really annoying after a while

getting custom designed prosthetics are available, but they’re really expensive (so are normal lol) they costs thousands of dollars, just like other prosthetics do

i run into things that are on my left side ALL THE TIME it’s actually kinda funny lolol

i try to hide my left eye/turn more to my left side in photos bc my eyes aren’t always looking in the same direction, which really gets to me

i wear glasses for both protection and bc my right eye is -1.75 lmao but i did used to wear non-prescription glasses purely for safety

i do have contacts to wear during the summer, swim meets etc, for when i don’t want/can’t wear my glasses but need to see. bc of this, i have a second pair of glasses that have no prescription

if doctors/scientists managed to figure out a way to fix microphthalmia (a birth defect), or do a sort of eye transplant, i would not be able to have that done to me because all parts of my left eye have been removed from my body

microphthalmia is NOT the only disease that results in the haver losing sight in one or both eyes!! there are many others, but it is not my place to share any experiences for something i have not experienced!!!

for once i just want to see a clumsy character who has one eye that WASNT a result of some tragic event.

so please please please consider including a character with one working eye in your wip. it would mean the world to myself and all the other members of the community (there’s a lot of us, trust me) plus, i wouldn’t mind starting an acting debut playing a half-blind female protagonist, that would be so dope.

- Most people cannot tell which eye I'm blind in. The only differences between them are I have a much bigger limbal ring in my good eye and my left eye 'wanders' when I'm tired due to an operation I had on it when I was little (too young to remember).

- I sucked at sports like rounders (and baseball I guess, but I've never played it) because my dominant hand and blind eye are on the same side :)))) But that doesn't mean we suck in all sports or that we only do individualistic sports; I'm at the highest rank in my martial art my association allows me to be at my age. I'm just more defence-based than average since my guarding hand is my blind-side one, although this is individualistic.

- I have a very heightened awareness of how close things are to me since my eyes lack in that department (my depth perception sucks). So I tend to stand in the edge of crowds, and also because there's less stimulation on my blind side to make me jump.

- Some people will prefer if you stand on their sighted side, others their blind side; it's personal preference. My grandma is always on my good side so I can see her when we're talking, whereas my mum is always on my blind side so nobody comes in on that side and scares me. I don't know about other charities, but I do know my local sight charities do favour you going on their sighted side. This could just be a quirk of your character, or it could be down to their background/personality.

The term “saved” generally means to be saved from the penalty of our sins. The Bible says that every person has sinned and is guilty of sin. We are sinners. The punishment for sin is spiritual death or hell. However, John 3:16 says “For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.” But what exactly does this mean?

Since God created this world and Adam and Eve sinned in the garden of Eden, mankind has been under the curse of sin. Our very natures are sinful and we can do nothing to change this. Everyone has sinned. Everyone is guilty. For this reason, Jesus Christ came into the world as a man and lived the sinless and faultless life that we couldn’t live. He then died on the cross, giving up His life for us, and 3 days later, He rose from the dead.

God is perfectly holy. We deserve hell because we have all done wrong things and sinned against Him in rebellion. When Jesus died on the cross, He was taking the wrath of God that we deserved onto Himself so that we wouldn’t have to face God’s punishment for our sins. In that sense, He died in our place.

But the only way to receive forgiveness for all of our wrongs and be reconciled with God is through placing our trust in Jesus Christ and repenting of our sins. This is the only way a person can be right with God, because we are all guilty of sinning against Him.

We must count the cost

Following Jesus is no easy task. It is not about health, wealth, or earthly prosperity. Likewise, Following Jesus can mean having to sacrifice our possessions, our relationships, even our lives sometimes. Christ said that His followers would be hated because of Him, but He also said that no sacrifice we ever make for Him will be for nothing. Following Jesus is hard and different people will pay different prices—but it is so worth it. Jesus is worth it all.

We must believe

Romans 10:9 says, “if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”

To be a Christian, we must believe that there is a holy God who has created the possibility for sin with the expectation that human beings do what is right. We have all failed to meet this expectation. We must believe that we are sinners, and that we need Jesus in order to be saved. Until we make the personal decision to follow Him, we are under the anger or wrath of God. God is angry about sin and He is a morally upright judge. To fix the problem of man’s separation from Him, God had to send His only Son, Jesus, into the world.

We must believe in the deity of Jesus Christ, meaning that Jesus, while He was fully man, was also fully God. Jesus was the Son of God, but He was also one with God (He was God Himself). Now, because no man can provide payment for another man, God Himself had to come and die in our place, seen in Jesus dying on the cross.

Furthermore, the Lord Jesus never sinned. He lived the perfect life that we could never live. And so, He was the only One who could stand in our place and pay that penalty for our sins. When He died on the cross, He was taking the sins of many onto Himself and becoming the sacrifice for these sins (so that those He died for would not have to face the punishment for all the wrong they had done).

Lastly, we must believe that Jesus rose from the dead. If He had not, we would still be stuck in our sin with no way of being forgiven, but on the 3rd day after His death, Jesus Christ rose from the grave.

So, the sinless Son of God, Jesus, died in our place, sacrificing Himself so that we could be forgiven, and then He rose from the dead (Matthew 28:6). We must admit to God that we are sinners, be genuinely sorry for our sins, believe all of these things, and accept the free gift of God’s forgiveness (salvation) through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Through His sacrifice, all our sins are able to be forgiven.

We must repent

Repent means to “change one’s mind”. In coming to Christ, we must repent of our past sins by turning away from them. We no longer love our sin, but we dislike sin because it offends a holy God. For this reason, we are truly sorry for the things we’ve done and we turn our lives around. We start seeking to do God’s will instead of our own. We start living for God instead of living for ourselves. In order to be a Christian, a person has to put aside their own wants and desires and do what God says is right in every area of their lives. In order to be a follower of Jesus, turning away from our sin is a requirement.

Now does this mean that Christians never sin? No. Christians fall into sin sometimes, and as a result, we continually repent of these sins to God. This is called continual repentance. We confess our sin and we ask His forgiveness. The Holy Spirit continually convicts us of sin and we continually turn from these sins throughout our walks as Christians. We don’t rush wholeheartedly into evil, since a Christian is someone whose life has changed direction. We avoid evil, seeking instead to do what’s right. Let it be understood, Christians aren’t perfect, but are progressively becoming more like Jesus through the power of the Holy Spirit within them. Followers of Jesus are always growing in holiness and working towards being better.

A Christian lives to obey God because, after they believe and repent, they have given over their lives to Jesus, and are now officially living for Him rather than themselves. Further, their life begins to change, their nature begins to change, and their love for God makes them want to obey Him. And the Christian practices continual repentance because it is a command given to us by God.

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Have you come to repent and believe in Christ? If so, welcome to the family of God! Christians have the promise of entering Heaven when they die, as well as the ability here on earth to know the Lord in a real and personal relationship that can be built up everyday through prayer, worship, and time spent with Him reading His word. Now it is time to start your Christian walk, and there are a few ways that you can begin…

Time to grow

People begin life in God’s family just as they began it in their parents’ family — as babies. Baby Christians need to be nurtured, protected, taught and loved. Here are a few suggestions that will help you get the care and guidance you need as you begin to grow in your faith:

Tell a friend. Do you know someone who might get excited about the decision you’ve made — a pastor, maybe, or Christian friend? Tell him or her. Share the joy of your new commitment with someone else!

Read the Bible. Baby Christians need rich nourishment, and no source is better than God’s Word. The Bible is God’s message to mankind, so it’s vital for young believers to know what it says. We’d suggest that you make a habit of reading a chapter a day, beginning with the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John — they’ll help you get better acquainted with Jesus). Next you could take a look at Paul’s letter to the Philippians and the letters of James and I John. To understand more about how Jesus’ death means life for you, read Paul’s letter to the Romans. If you have questions, a pastor or Christian friend will be able to help you in your Bible study. If you don’t have a Bible, please contact [www.focusonthefamily.com] and they’ll be happy to send you one.

Talk to God regularly. Make prayer a daily habit. This means talking to God about anything, at any time of the day or night. It can also mean spending a special “quiet” time with Him where you meditate on His Word, tell Him of your love and devotion, and talk to Him about others and their needs.

Get involved in a church. When you open the door to Christ and come home to God, you acquire a new set of spiritual brothers and sisters. God has many other children on the earth, and it’s important that they meet together regularly as a family. That’s what church is all about. The church is the best place for infant Christians to find the support they need to grow strong. Churches are where God’s people gather to worship, learn from the Bible, encourage each other and welcome new believers into God’s family. Find a church near you that does these things, and get involved. Your church should believe that the Bible is the accurate Word of God, that Jesus Christ is God’s Son, that He is fully God and man, and that only through faith in Jesus Christ can a person be saved.

Talk to your church about getting baptized as well. Baptism is a very important and meaningful next step now that you have come to faith in Jesus.

Quoted statements by:

What Must Someone Believe in Order to Be Saved? (2019, January 02). Retrieved from https://www.desiringGod.org/interviews/what-must-someone-believe-in-order-to-be-saved

“Time to Grow” Excerpt by:

Coming Home: An Invitation to Join God’s Family. (2012, February 23). Retrieved from https://www.focusonthefamily.com/faith/becoming-a-christian/coming-home-an-invitation-to-join-Gods-family/

hey netizens! i'm not sure how many people are aware, but youtube's been slowly rolling out a new anti-adblock policy that can't be bypassed with the usual software like uBlock Origin and Pi-Hole out of the gate

BUT, if you're a uBlock Origin user (or use an adblocker with a similar cosmetics modifier), you can add these commands in the uBlock dashboard (under My Filters) to get rid of it!

youtube.com##+js(set, yt.config_.openPopupConfig.supportedPopups.adBlockMessageViewModel, false) youtube.com##+js(set, Object.prototype.adBlocksFound, 0) youtube.com##+js(set, ytplayer.config.args.raw_player_response.adPlacements, []) youtube.com##+js(set, Object.prototype.hasAllowedInstreamAd, true)

If you live in the US and you have a phone you need to keep secret for any reason, make sure that it is turned off at this time.

Yes, I'm doing this months in advance, and yes, my blog has very little reach, but I figure better to post about it more than less.

TURN OFF YOUR OTHER PHONE AND DO NOT TURN IT ON AGAIN UNTIL YOU ARE ALONE AND SAFE BECAUSE THE ALARM WILL COME THROUGH AS SOON AS THAT PHONE IS POWERED ON.

AGAIN I REPEAT:

OCTOBER 4, 2023

THE ALARM WILL COME THROUGH AS SOON AS THAT PHONE IS POWERED BACK ON.

SO ONLY POWER IT BACK ON WHEN IT IS SAFE TO DO SO.

OCTOBER 4, 2023

If this doesn't make sense, then good news it's not for or about you but still reblog it because you never know who may need to know this.

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I always look at cookbooks for people who have no energy/time to do elaborate meal preparations, and roll my eyes. Like, you want me to stay on my feet for long enough to prepare 15 different ingredients from scratch, and use 5 different pots and pans, when I have chronic fatigue and no dishwasher?

These people seem to get it, though. It's very simple in places. It's basically the cookbook for people who think, 'I'm really bored of those same five low-spoons meals I eat, but I can't think of anything else to cook that won't exhaust me'. And it's free!