Taylor Swift is bae

“And the old widow goes to the stone every day, But I don't, I just sit here and wait, Grieving for the living”.

The widow goes to the cemetery to grieve for her dead husband at his grave

This is being compared to:

which is kinda sad !!!! but where the narrator is back in town for the holidays and runs into this old flame who has the balls to tell her who they’ve been with (literally) and she’s hurt about it (reasonably so, but it was probably to get back at her) BUT also running into them reignites these old feelings in her, maybe due to jealousy, maybe due to an unrequited ache from the past, probably both, so she contacts them back up after their chance encounter and is like ‘hey, what you said, that hurt. But we can call it even cause I know I hurt you back in the day when I left you. Anyway you uh wanna hang out :) if you’re into it you know where to find me ;) (her parents house)

And she KNOWS this is gonna hurt bc she knows she can’t just stay in her hometown forever cause it’s not her home anymore and she has to go back to LA and her life there where she’s been struggling and her new friends aren’t all that .. and she knows this is gonna break her heart because she’ll have to leave and only has the weekend BUT she decides wants to be with them again anyway because she MISSES THIS PERSON THAT MUch, that the future pain of leaving (again) would be worth it

... and as she’s kinda talking herself into it then it all comes flooding back to her, this person knew her so well, like to the point they knew her fake smile, much unlike her new LA friends, and she realizes she would be perfectly content to just ride around in their truck together if it meant spending more time together, and that after all this time that has passed and things have been objectively messy, in the end? She craves their company. The familiarity. The person who gets her.

What we don’t find out is DID THEY SAY YES? We don’t know!!! And we’re left kind of aching to know the answer in the end !!!!! and i think us not getting an answer and left hanging, it kinda is meant to parallel her ache, this unfulfilled feeling

A year ago an Arizona girl was fighting for her life after being diagnosed with cancer and used Taylor Swift’s song “Bad Blood” as her fight song. On Saturday stood feet away from her idol Taylor Swift as she victoriously sang that anthem along with the pop star at a concert in Texas.

Last year, 12-year-old Naomi Oakes, who lives in Arizona, but has family in Utah, missed out attending Swift’s August show of the “1989” World Tour, because it was in the middle of her treatment.

She learned in June she had been diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia. The childhood blood cancer might have stopped her from attending a concert, but it couldn’t stop Naomi from fighting to get well again.

A video her father created titled “Naomi’s Bad Blood” went viral and reached the eyes of Taylor Swift. The pop star made a generous donation of $50,000 to Naomi’s GoFundMe page. At the time Naomi’s uncle, Robert Percival, told KUTV of the donation.

“I broke down and cried,” he said. “It’s just amazing that there’s somebody with her celebrity that would think about people and be able to donate. It’s just great.”

Along with the donation, Swift left a message that stated: “to the beautiful and brave Naomi, there are going to be plenty more concerts to attend, just focus on getting better.”

Naomi, of the Mesa, Arizona area, did just that and went through four rounds of chemotherapy and was able to take a 6-9 month hospital stay expectation and turn it into getting out in five months. She finished up chemo treatments in November.

Today Naomi’s cancer is still in remission.

Last year, Naomi’s mother Shannon Oakes bought her daughter tickets to Taylor Swift’s “1989” show, but Naomi was never able to go because of her cancer.

After hearing her daughter had a clean bill of health she wanted to try and make it up to Naomi. So for six months she kept a secret about some tickets she bought for an October show at a Formula 1 race in Austin, Texas. She was also able to get Swift’s people to arrange a meet and greet with her daughter.

A week before the trip, Shannon recorded Naomi’s reaction to what they were planning to do. They were going to Texas, but Naomi didn’t know what for.

As the day of the concert got closer, Shannon revealed that she got tickets for an event in Austin, Texas and asked her daughter if there was anything in Austin she would like to do.

“She knew right away,” Shannon said. “She said, ‘Taylor Swift.’”

Naomi also found out she would be going with her best friend Piper, who is from the Salt Lake City, Utah area. A bus even came and took the girls to the pit, right up next to the stage.

The two girls got to go back stage and meet Swift.

“Taylor Swift has got to be one of the nicest people in the world,” Shannon said adding that they didn’t know what to expect, or if Taylor would even remember Naomi.

When Naomi walked in it was clear Swift knew exactly who she was.

“I just found out five minutes ago that you were coming back and that just made my day,” Swift said.

Naomi replied with a smile, “Well you just made my life.”

Shannon said all she and her daughter ever wanted to do was give Swift a hug because of the monetary donation she made in 2015, that “made such a huge difference” to help cover medical costs.