i used to really want a relationship and hopelessly searched everywhere i went for a guy who fit at least one of my criteria. then one day, something huge dawned on me. i was wasting so much valuable time looking for someone mediocre to want me, when i could have been spending that time turning myself into someone amazing. the laws of attraction state that you attract what you put out, so only when i become someone wonderful will i attract someone wonderful. there’s no need to use up my time looking for someone, because when i reach where i need to be, the person i deserve will come to me.
my thoughts right now (via somethingsoffinside)















