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This is our dedicated "complaining, bitching and whining" account. Bear this in mind if thou cross this threshold.

We rarely tag shit on account of often being on the verge of falling asleep or drunk or barely a person. We're usually vague as hell anyway, and I'd like to say that if it was overt we'd remember to tag it with tw self harm or tw suicide or whatever else may apply. But I'm gonna be totally honest. I cannot promise that, if you don't wanna see it just block us, pal.

Also we are an adult and may post or reblog adult shit sometimes.

Uuuuuugjgjkfd what else. Wtf do people put in these things. I used to have 5 wisdom teeth in my face.

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Once when I was in undergrad, someone described something as “problematic” in class and our professor was like, “That’s cool, but ‘problematic’ doesn’t really mean anything. It means that the thing you’re describing has a problem, and in and of itself that’s not bad. Art, especially, should always have problems, or else it’s not interesting and not art, either. It sounds like you’re trying to say that this is bad, but you don’t want to say ‘bad.’ Is that right?”

So from then on whenever one of us called something problematic, he would make us talk it out until we could name the “bad” thing we were hinting at. In this particular class, 7/10 it was some type of oppression, and the remainder was like, “I’m uncomfortable because this is very new/confusing/pushing boundaries that made me feel safe.”

Once we stopped calling things “problematic” and stopping at that, class got way more interesting and... we all had to say, like, “that’s racist” or “that’s misogynistic” or “ew capitalism gross” out loud, which a lot of us had never done in a classroom before. Or we had to be like, “Uhhh... I’m not sure what’s so bad?” and confront our own beliefs and that was maybe even more useful.

Anyway. Whenever I see the word problematic, I can’t help but think of this professor being like, “Good starting point, now let’s get specific.” I think when we have to commit to saying “that’s ___” it requires a lot more careful thought about the truth and impact and complexities of whatever we’re claiming. Sometimes there really is some bullshit afoot, and also sometimes it’s art, and it should be full of problems, because that’s what art is.

doomed-era

one of my number one writing pet peeves is when a writer doesn't think about the massive complications or implications of something they put in on a whim it drives me nuts

headspace-hotel

The implications and the complications are the most fun part, too...

the-haiku-bot

The implications

and the complications are

the most fun part, too…

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

feral-asexual-possum

shout out to black trans men y'all are so fucking awesome and strong and don't let anyone tell you otherwise

drsaikiscorkboard

This Pride Month, let us advocate for and support our trans men and transmasculine siblings—not as an afterthought, not as a footnote, but as a necessity.

Transandrophobia is real. It is documented. It is the discrimination, shaming, harassment, and alienation specifically faced by trans men and transmasculine individuals.

This is not a hierarchy. This is not an attack on trans women. This is a data point.

Trans men face systemic discrimination before, during, and after transition. The visibility paradox means that as they become less visible as queer, they do not become less oppressed—the oppression just changes shape.

Trans men are routinely shamed, told to "reflect on their misogyny," and dismissed simply for being male. This shaming impacts mental health, self-image, and access to care.

Radical feminists and trans feminists who dismiss transandrophobia need to reflect. The problem is not feminism. The problem is specific actors who have decided that transmisogyny is the only axis of trans oppression worth naming. Both things are true.

Trans women face transmisogyny.

Trans men face transandrophobia.

Acknowledging one does not erase the other.

The silencing of transmasculine voices follows documented patterns:

"You're not really oppressed, you're just men now."

"Your trauma doesn't count."

"You're betraying womanhood."

"Be quiet and listen to transfems."

These are not neutral statements. These are silencing mechanisms.

Trans men deserve to be heard and seen—not as a threat, not as traitors, but as people navigating a specific, intersectional form of oppression.

This Pride Month, I am not asking you to celebrate them.

I am asking you to stop erasing them.

Listen. Believe. Reflect.

Then do better.

— Dr. Kusuke Saiki

PS. I have sources:

https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-031-49509-2_9

https://thesocietypages.org/girlwpen/2011/09/21/transgender-employment-experiences/

https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-030-12633-9_9

https://www.newstatesman.com/ideas/2025/02/transfeminism-radical-feminism-toryn-glover-essays

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/01/masculinity-is-crippling-society-could-trans-men-be-the-key-to-changing-that/

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Dad ranting to me about how terrible this cream liqueur he got is... Ok well I have light and laughter in my heart and no respect for myself. I'll drink it all. I don't care, it's actually kind of okay? It tastes like milk with a liquorice aftertaste and a nebulous hint of alcohol. I'd chug that

#blegh I should wait a week before I drink more

scrupulosity-comics

sometimes instead of a horrid little monk, divine visions of lesbians dance in my head dispensing wisdom

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queeranarchism

Oury Jalloh was burned alive in a German police cell while his hands and feet were cuffed to a bed. the cops claimed he had set himself on fire but offered no evidence. No one was convicted. It took 2 more violent deaths in the same police building (Hans-Jürgen Rose, died from internal injuries from blunt force impacts, Mario Bichtemann died from a skull fracture), before one cop had to pay a fine. No cop faced real consequences.

15-year-old Jerryson Noor was shot and killed by police in the Netherlands after being accused of trying to steal a bicycle. We was running from police and clearly posed no threat.

telavivdelhi2

Independent forensic tests and later expert analysis commissioned by Jalloh’s family suggest it would have been very difficult for someone bound to ignite the mattress on their own and that fire accelerants such as petrol may have been involved.

A 2019 autopsy commissioned by the family also found fractures (broken rib, broken nose, skull base fracture) indicative of serious injuries before the fire — a point the courts did not allow as decisive evidence. (DW)

anarchistmemedistro

Between 2020 and 2022, thirteen EU countries reported a total of 488 deaths occurring in custody or during police operations. Despite international calls for transparent reporting on such fatalities, most European countries still do not meet UN standards for investigating these deaths, leaving persistent gaps in accountability and oversight. Inconsistencies and inadequacies in data availability further underscore the challenges in maintaining adequate transparency in law enforcement practices.

Deaths in custody and police operations Between 2020 and 2022, thirteen EU countries reported a total of 488 deaths occurring in cus

anarchistmemedistro

not to mention that the coastguard in europe are primarily a border patrol force and routinely watch migrants drown to death without intervening.

the migration data portal estimates at least 1700 died in the mediterranean in 2024 alone

No More Refugee Deaths – Time for Change!

anarchistmemedistro

Open letter by over 180 human rights organizations and initiatives together with Tima Kurdi, aunt of Alan Kurdi. Today on World Refugee Da

One year after 600 migrants drowned off the Greek coast, no one has been held accountable

More than 40 people are alleged to have died as a result of Greek coastguard actions, BBC analysis reveals.

anarchistmemedistro

don’t get me wrong america is a genocidal settler slave state but the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree

isuggesteatingtherich

i have a suggestion

flufflogic

Have we already forgotten Jean Charles de Menezes?

It's ALL not AMERICAN in ACAB.

nctinmotion

Source: This

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xcziel

cellophanes-princess

I really needed the last one

hmm why am I nauseous drunk. I thought I had pretty conclusively figured out that happens if I drink on an empty stomach, at which point I never did that again and was cured of it. Why does the bullshit return to haunt me. I'm fed. Can I not drink in peace

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forcaken

tag game: ten people you'd like to get to know

tagged by: @vosquitransitis Thanks !:]

last song: hold on till may by pierce the veil

currently watching: just finished AAA like 2 days ago, but i’m about to continue ds9 again and try to finish it this time

mister-warmth

hiiii thank you for the tag :]]

last song: Lyrics 2 to the rhythm by Essence

currently watching: Homicide life on the street and the occasional law&order svu ^^

nuffnotsaid

Thanks for tagging me

Last song: Dead & Bloated by Stone temple pilots

Currently watching: From, law & order on the roku channel

Current obsession: Homicide life on the street ofc, and Pearl Jam. I'll love that band forever

Currently reading: Wildman by j.c geiger. I don't like it that much, but it was three dollars so idc

Currently working on: Frankentim fanart and other edits. Too many wips

Currently wearing: A very long shirt and pajama pants

Last search: Weather. My tap water wouldn't run cold so I had to check. Very sunny and hot

Favorite flower: Sunflowers

Tagging: @f00ls-err4nd

(You don't have to do this ofc^^)

f00ls-err4nd

Thanks for tagging me, maybe I can make friends with my mutuals through this rb game :3

Last song: Sweet Hibiscus Tea by Penelope Scott

butchhatred

I usually dont do tag games because the questions take too much time for me to answer because im a perfectionist and also plural (if youre a mutual of mine who tagged me and never got a response i am so fucking sorry) but this one seemed simple enough

Last song: get out by dagames

wetheunkindness

Whooag yay tag game <3

Last song: Dear Dictator - Saint Motel

dead-decomposer

since i dont see enough of it: nonbinary transfems i love you so so much

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phosphorusab

I hate this saccharine, cloying, infantilizing way trans men are talked down to by their own community when speaking about the words they choose to describe their experiences and oppression

‘Oh yes, you do experience a valid intersectional form of oppression - but you’re just so fucking stupid, that you’ve chosen a terrible word to articulate your experiences. So we aren’t going to listen to anything you say! You’re just so silly and stupid, you can’t possibly be trusted to articulate your own thoughts and experiences, let alone be trusted to do your own research. In fact, don’t even think or talk at all! Leave all the thinking and talking to the smart people whose suffering actually matters.

Also, no your experiences aren’t unique at all, negating the previous statement of you experiencing a valid intersectional form of oppression’

The tone of voice is no different than when people try to manipulate trans men into detransitioning - overly sweet, infantilizing and concerned while also being incredibly backhanded and demeaning

Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now

techiekittie

God forbid women do anything omfg. When transfems try to explain delicately and nicely they’re being “infantilising”, when they’re direct and serious they’re “rude” and “aggressive”.

Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now.

phosphorusab

Being told we aren’t smart enough to speak on our own experiences and should just shut up, but with a tone of voice that’s overly sweet and familiar, is in fact infantilizing and demeaning!

You’d know that if you actually listened to anything I said

techiekittie

Where on earth are you getting this strawman from 🫩

If a tma person tells you you’re not knowledgeable enough on a complex topic to speak abt it then perchance look at their actual sources like Whipping Girl. If they’re actually using the words in your post like “stupid” and “dumb” then that’s a vent and obvs not a debate or informative discussion so just scroll.

phosphorusab

You are a self proclaimed tme person lecturing someone who has already read Whipping Girl cover to cover to read Whipping Girl. Read other books

“If a tma person tells you you’re not knowledgeable enough on a complex topic” -

And the topic is about MY OWN LIVED EXPERIENCES and the experiences of TRANS MEN AND MASCS IN PARTICULAR. So why would I listen to someone WHO IS NOT a trans man or masc speak on trans men and mascs experiences?!

THIS IS WHAT I MEAN BY PEOPLE TALKING OVER US

And yes, people genuinely talk down to trans men and mascs like this. No, I’m not going to just scroll and keep sweet about it. Finally speaking out about how people have treated me on the basis of being transmasc has done wonders for my self worth, and I sincerely recommend that you try it someday

tdaywasamaritale

pride on tumblr is so fun!!!11!!! the heart turns into a rainbow when you hit the like button 😆😆😆 the tumblr staff and algorithm continues to be exceedingly transphobic and especially transmisogynistic. trans women are getting banned left and right for merely existing. please don’t let another version of rainbow capitalism distract you

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butchhatred

I think executive dysfunction is like, a torture method that escaped hell and is now on earth, theres no way this shit is real

dickgraysonsptsd

i think MORE characters should be rape survivors. i think more characters should be csa survivors. i think more characters should be dv survivors. i think strong and noble and attractive and charming and brilliant characters with indomitable spirits should be survivors. i think the most powerful characters in the world should be survivors. i think characters who are cultural icons should be survivors. i think victims and survivors should see ourselves in the most admirable and beloved characters around! i think we should be protagonists!!!

dickgraysonsptsd

#‘it’s so unnecessary’ . okay . god yea this one drives me CRAZY. people will yap all day long about how it's "unnecessary" to make a character a survivor like do you think it was necessary for any of us to be abused or raped irl? was it narratively essential? did it teach the audience an important lesson? why do we, who have to justify our experiences and existences and reactions all the time in real life, also have to justify why we should exist in fiction? people act so repulsed by the thought of us. i've really fully and truly had enough of that. there is nothing so uniquely disgusting or repulsive or unspeakable about our victimhood or our survival that justifies this obsession with keeping the reality of our existence hidden

dualcasterjay

"oh but talking about it can be triggering for victims :(((" you know what else is triggering? living in a world that insists that we cannot be open and honest about what happened to us. maybe if we had, oh, i don't know, prominent examples in our cultural stories of people who are victims and are competent and strong it might be easier (for everyone, not just victims) to have the discussions we actually need to have about our trauma.

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