⌗ ⋮ SPENCER 𓃦

if a marginalized man starts talking about his struggles and you make it about how much you hate men you are not a good person tbh

i love cis people cause when i say “when i used to be a girl…” they go “mhmm…. but also….. you’ve ALWAYS been a man” okay ur very sweet but actually i was a weird girl in middle school and you need to know that to understand my personality today

Trans guy going on T, call that Project Male Hairy

never let the fact that you were born a girl stop you from being the gayest man alive

i really think that we as a society should take pregnant men more seriously.

theres definitely an idea in the trans community that trans men are uniquely privileged in both their ability to access transition and to pass as cis men with "less" treatments (hormones, surgery, voice training, ect) than trans women, and thats not true. in fact a lot of trans men end up never transitioning for one reason or another. id like to take a moment to acknowledge and remember all the trans men who never transitioned due to transphobia, transandrophobia, misogyny, financial underprivilege, or otherwise never having or seeing it as an option in the first place. including my biological mother apparently

btw if you call trans men "birthday boys" or anything of that sort I will block you/refuse to interact with you. theres no valid reason for using a derogatory term against an oppressed group.

This post has been great bait for catching all the transandrophobes that can't stand to not use these bullshit terms. Basically a free blocklist in the comments/replies

Ive said it before and Ill say it again, I block whoever the fuck I want and I refuse to argue with a bigot. If you come onto my blog spewing bigoted bullshit and trying to start an arguement I will block you without hesitation, I don't have to deal with that.

this doesn't mean go into your alt to harrass me holy shit

If I were to stop being a man, and detransition and occupy the role of a cis woman, and therefore stop being a target of transphobia, then being a man is what makes me open to oppression, and am therefore oppressed for being a man.