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White Foster & Adoptive Parents You Can’t Raise Black Kids
First, I’m against transracial adoption and fostering. Just putting it out there and IDGAF.Black kids need to be with BLACK families, not white ones. White people can’t raise Black kids. They can’t it’s impossible. Second, white people will never care about Black kids or Black lives. The only reason why white people foster and adopt Black kids I mean babies/toddlers (because we all know you don’t GAF about Black teens or older kids) is because they can’t get a white one. White people want white babies not Black ones. Since white women can’t pop them out fast enough or lose them to the foster care system white people are fucking mad. So then they turned their attention to Black kids. Suddenly, they care about Black kids. Only after they could not get a white kid. They took every other kid but a Black kid. China loves giving their kids to white people. Many white people went or go to China or South Korea to adopt babies. Now they can’t get babies easily. So what did white folks do? They went to Russia, Romania, Eastern Europe for white babies. Then those close down. So now white people are going to Haiti, Ethiopia, and Uganda to adopt. God leads them there. They are checking the all race box to get Black kids from foster care. Knowing damn well they could care less about Black kids. I mean Black babies cost less to adopt and white folks are fine with it. During the 60s,70s, 80s, and 90s white people could not adopt Black children. But white people fought to adopt Black kids and take them away from Black families. This whole damn system is racist. White people control adoption and foster care. White adoptive parents and white foster parents need to use their damn power to fight for Black kids to be with Black families but we all know they won’t do that. White people love getting attention and playing savior. A poor Black kid is saved by white people. Can’t get or afford a white baby? Go get a Black one. They are much cheaper and easier to get. I hate seeing Black kids with white people. I hate it. I was in foster care with white foster families and I hated it. When a Black child is with white people they lose a part of themselves. We need more Black families to care and adopt Black kids.
Or you could quit making everything out to be a “For the conveinence of White Folks™️” scenario? The average cost of raising ANY child, adopted or biological, is $200,000 a year and constantly rising. On top of a $25,000 adoption feel, the legal fees, and the cost of whole process.
Foster families are different from adoptive families. Foster families are paid a stipend per child that they’re fostering from the time the child arrives in their home to the time they leave, and not all of them care about the kids, but then the kids don’t really care about them back. You kind of have to not care because otherwise you’ll get attached to each other and it’ll only hurt even worse when the inevitable system-ordered separation happens.
Adoptive families, on the other hand, are permanent families for the children who would’ve been stuck in the system until they were 18 or (Gods forbid) anything happened to them. They’re families that WANT those children and WANT to help them. Who cares if they’re black or white or Korean or Chinese or European or from Jupiter?
You’re sitting there behind a screen complaining about kids having adoptive families that actually do love and care about them, all because they don’t have the same skin color. This whole entire hellsite has become infected with racist, segregationalist ideas and opinions like this one, but you and everyone else just jumps on the bandwagon and act like it’s okay to do and say and think these things, act like it’s okay to hate and spit vitriol. I’ve never seen anything so pathetic in my life.
OP, I’m sorry you had shitty foster families, but foster families aren’t paid to care about you. They’re paid to house you. Adoptive families are paid nothing and spend everything to adopt their child/children because they DO care about them.
Guess what, maybe adoptive families don’t care about them.
Maybe adoptive families have kids because they want to be a savior, whether that is a conscious choice or not.
Maybe adoptive families think they can handle children, and then learn very quickly they cannot.
Maybe adoptive parents adopt because they want to live up to some stupid expectation to be parents.
Also, white people are fucking racist. I can’t speak for other countries, but in the United States, racism is so engrained in the culture that people grow up learning racism and participating in racism, sometimes without even fucking knowing. When a person of color gets adopted by white people, racism is passed onto them directly from their parents.
Children of color adopted by white parents are robbed of the poc experience. They cannot grow up around a family who looks like them, and values them. I also do not support transracial adoption. I barely support adoption in the first place.
You’re making a lot of generalizations. Nobody jumps straight into adoption. Usually it’s lead up to by countless miscarriages, failed conceptions, and fertility/infertility tests. Even then, the process you have to go through to be screened to be able to adopt a child is ridiculous. Does everyone always pass or fail that should pass or fail? No, but it’s a pretty effective system for now.
“Maybe adoptive families think they can handle children but quickly learn they can’t.” Again, people don’t just dive in blindly; many families may have already had children, or cannot have children but want them. You think there aren’t biological families that have realized they can’t handle kids? How do you think we came up with the solution of adopting children to other families?
“Maybe adoptive families have kids because they want to be a savior.” If they wanted to be saviors, I don’t think they’d be adopting kids from the US or European or Asian foster systems, they’d be going to places like Zimbabwe, or Ethiopia, where the children are starving and dying of diseases and dehydration.
“Maybe adoptive parents adopt because they want to live up to some stupid expectation of being parents.” That one right there, my friend, is a complete lie. You know what the expectations are with parenting?
1) You raise your kids to be respectful, or you’re a bad parent.
2) Your kids better behave, or you’re a bad parent.
3) Your kids’ actions reflect back on you; if they’re good, you’re good. If they’re bad, you’re bad.
4) (For stay at home parents) When you have kids, you drop everything to take care of them.
Those expectations apply to ALL parents, whether or not they’re the biological parents of their children. There isn’t some unobtainable, golden statue that says “NUMBER ONE PARENTS IN THE UNIVERSE” on it that motivates them to adopt their children.
And to give you both a good example of how I know for a fact that same race families aren’t always the best adoptive family: I have three older girls that I say are my sisters because we’ve lived on the same block, went to the same church, and they babysat me, my sister, and my brother my whole life. They (a pair of twins and their older sister) were adopted by a black couple. Their adoptive mother beat the shit out of them, starved them, locked them in the house and locked them out of the house for days and weeks at a time, whipped them with phone cords, constantly screamed and yelled and threw things at them. Those girls call her Lena, and they call my mother mom.
TL;DR, generalizations are gonna get you nowhere and neither is being racist, my dude.
People who don’t think the race of the adoptive parents don’t understand systematic, learned, and engrained racism.
And actually, maybe adoptive parents adopt because they feel pressure to have a child.
Yes, it is a long process, and it doesn’t fucking work at all.
If you think a black woman torturing her children is the same situation as a black child learning systematic racism from their parents, you’re dead wrong. One situation is where the parent, regardless of race, criminally scarred and harmed her children for no reason. The other situation is a situation where no matter how hard white parents try, they can not raise children of color without robbing them of their identity.
TLDR: adoption is a very imperfect, harmful process, and being racist and ignorant is gonna get you nowhere, my dude. It’s not racist for poc to want to live their own identity. It’s racist to think it’s okay to rob them of that.
Why do people, especially white people, fucking love to pretend that systematic, engrained racism is real. Why do people, especially white people, refuse to acknowledge that we have all been raised in a racist environment, and therefore were raised racist, and unless are actively unlearning racism, will teach racism to their children. Fuck off.
Just gonna add to this… I’m a lesbian meaning that I’m mostly likely gonna have to adapt. I’ve know that for years. Race shouldn’t be a factor in who you adapt. I’m no idiot I know that people fetishize adopting people of color, but those people are definitely in the minority. Fuck saying that adopting outside your race is gonna fuck up your kid. This post is just crawling with generalizations. This is coming from a mixed kid who was raised in an all white area, fuck you. Fuck all the black people who ostracize other black folks for not being “black enough”. It’s literally just playing right into the fucking problem
This is coming from a brown girl raised by white parents, who was robbed of the experience of being a person of color. I have just started to do the work to unlearn the racism I have been taught from being raised by white parents who did not have an understanding of the learned, systematic racism they were a part of. Unlearning this has involved unspeakable emotional labor that I should have not had to do.
If generalizations are a problem, and I hear everyone, they are, then acknowledge that there are plenty of white parents who have done the work to unlearn the racism, and therefore will not deprive a brown child of their identity, but the majority of white people have not, and will not do so. That’s not a generalization, that’s literally the truth of racism in America and people need to stop fucking ignoring it.
I don’t believe that any person of color can be robbed of the “experience of being a person of color”. Every black person lives and breathes the black experience. By whom and where you were raised does not play a factor in how America perceives you. Just going off personal experience, I was raised in a fairly wealthy white area and I speak fairly properly, but that does not stop people from assuming I’m poor. By 6th grade I knew I was black, not because of my parents but because of the other children in my class. They reminded me constantly of my race, my blackness became my identifier. For years, I would correct people. I would point out that I am actually mixed, and that my family is from Barbados so I don’t really fit into the category of African American. After a point, I stopped correcting people because I realized, just like every other little black kid does, that my ethic identity was always going to be erased solely because of the color of my skin. I realized that the world saw me in a way that could not control. Every black person has to unlearn the white standards that have been forced upon them, and realistically parenting barely plays a factor. Having a black mom didn’t change the fact that when I turned on the tv all I really saw were white faces. Having a black mom didn’t stop me from hating my curls. Look obviously America has a huge race problem and people definitely need to stop ignoring it, but I think you are over exaggerating the effects of parenting in this situation. The problem is significantly bigger than that. I feel that you probably feel as I do, cast out by both races. By whites because you are not white and by blacks for acting “too white”. And here we land back at the root of this problem, what really is the black experience? Only thing all black folks have in common is that terrible emotional labor of unlearning systematic racism. Welcome to the club.
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White Foster & Adoptive Parents You Can’t Raise Black Kids
First, I’m against transracial adoption and fostering. Just putting it out there and IDGAF.Black kids need to be with BLACK families, not white ones. White people can’t raise Black kids. They can’t it’s impossible. Second, white people will never care about Black kids or Black lives. The only reason why white people foster and adopt Black kids I mean babies/toddlers (because we all know you don’t GAF about Black teens or older kids) is because they can’t get a white one. White people want white babies not Black ones. Since white women can’t pop them out fast enough or lose them to the foster care system white people are fucking mad. So then they turned their attention to Black kids. Suddenly, they care about Black kids. Only after they could not get a white kid. They took every other kid but a Black kid. China loves giving their kids to white people. Many white people went or go to China or South Korea to adopt babies. Now they can’t get babies easily. So what did white folks do? They went to Russia, Romania, Eastern Europe for white babies. Then those close down. So now white people are going to Haiti, Ethiopia, and Uganda to adopt. God leads them there. They are checking the all race box to get Black kids from foster care. Knowing damn well they could care less about Black kids. I mean Black babies cost less to adopt and white folks are fine with it. During the 60s,70s, 80s, and 90s white people could not adopt Black children. But white people fought to adopt Black kids and take them away from Black families. This whole damn system is racist. White people control adoption and foster care. White adoptive parents and white foster parents need to use their damn power to fight for Black kids to be with Black families but we all know they won’t do that. White people love getting attention and playing savior. A poor Black kid is saved by white people. Can’t get or afford a white baby? Go get a Black one. They are much cheaper and easier to get. I hate seeing Black kids with white people. I hate it. I was in foster care with white foster families and I hated it. When a Black child is with white people they lose a part of themselves. We need more Black families to care and adopt Black kids.
Or you could quit making everything out to be a “For the conveinence of White Folks™️” scenario? The average cost of raising ANY child, adopted or biological, is $200,000 a year and constantly rising. On top of a $25,000 adoption feel, the legal fees, and the cost of whole process.
Foster families are different from adoptive families. Foster families are paid a stipend per child that they’re fostering from the time the child arrives in their home to the time they leave, and not all of them care about the kids, but then the kids don’t really care about them back. You kind of have to not care because otherwise you’ll get attached to each other and it’ll only hurt even worse when the inevitable system-ordered separation happens.
Adoptive families, on the other hand, are permanent families for the children who would’ve been stuck in the system until they were 18 or (Gods forbid) anything happened to them. They’re families that WANT those children and WANT to help them. Who cares if they’re black or white or Korean or Chinese or European or from Jupiter?
You’re sitting there behind a screen complaining about kids having adoptive families that actually do love and care about them, all because they don’t have the same skin color. This whole entire hellsite has become infected with racist, segregationalist ideas and opinions like this one, but you and everyone else just jumps on the bandwagon and act like it’s okay to do and say and think these things, act like it’s okay to hate and spit vitriol. I’ve never seen anything so pathetic in my life.
OP, I’m sorry you had shitty foster families, but foster families aren’t paid to care about you. They’re paid to house you. Adoptive families are paid nothing and spend everything to adopt their child/children because they DO care about them.
Guess what, maybe adoptive families don’t care about them.
Maybe adoptive families have kids because they want to be a savior, whether that is a conscious choice or not.
Maybe adoptive families think they can handle children, and then learn very quickly they cannot.
Maybe adoptive parents adopt because they want to live up to some stupid expectation to be parents.
Also, white people are fucking racist. I can’t speak for other countries, but in the United States, racism is so engrained in the culture that people grow up learning racism and participating in racism, sometimes without even fucking knowing. When a person of color gets adopted by white people, racism is passed onto them directly from their parents.
Children of color adopted by white parents are robbed of the poc experience. They cannot grow up around a family who looks like them, and values them. I also do not support transracial adoption. I barely support adoption in the first place.
You’re making a lot of generalizations. Nobody jumps straight into adoption. Usually it’s lead up to by countless miscarriages, failed conceptions, and fertility/infertility tests. Even then, the process you have to go through to be screened to be able to adopt a child is ridiculous. Does everyone always pass or fail that should pass or fail? No, but it’s a pretty effective system for now.
“Maybe adoptive families think they can handle children but quickly learn they can’t.” Again, people don’t just dive in blindly; many families may have already had children, or cannot have children but want them. You think there aren’t biological families that have realized they can’t handle kids? How do you think we came up with the solution of adopting children to other families?
“Maybe adoptive families have kids because they want to be a savior.” If they wanted to be saviors, I don’t think they’d be adopting kids from the US or European or Asian foster systems, they’d be going to places like Zimbabwe, or Ethiopia, where the children are starving and dying of diseases and dehydration.
“Maybe adoptive parents adopt because they want to live up to some stupid expectation of being parents.” That one right there, my friend, is a complete lie. You know what the expectations are with parenting?
1) You raise your kids to be respectful, or you’re a bad parent.
2) Your kids better behave, or you’re a bad parent.
3) Your kids’ actions reflect back on you; if they’re good, you’re good. If they’re bad, you’re bad.
4) (For stay at home parents) When you have kids, you drop everything to take care of them.
Those expectations apply to ALL parents, whether or not they’re the biological parents of their children. There isn’t some unobtainable, golden statue that says “NUMBER ONE PARENTS IN THE UNIVERSE” on it that motivates them to adopt their children.
And to give you both a good example of how I know for a fact that same race families aren’t always the best adoptive family: I have three older girls that I say are my sisters because we’ve lived on the same block, went to the same church, and they babysat me, my sister, and my brother my whole life. They (a pair of twins and their older sister) were adopted by a black couple. Their adoptive mother beat the shit out of them, starved them, locked them in the house and locked them out of the house for days and weeks at a time, whipped them with phone cords, constantly screamed and yelled and threw things at them. Those girls call her Lena, and they call my mother mom.
TL;DR, generalizations are gonna get you nowhere and neither is being racist, my dude.
People who don’t think the race of the adoptive parents don’t understand systematic, learned, and engrained racism.
And actually, maybe adoptive parents adopt because they feel pressure to have a child.
Yes, it is a long process, and it doesn’t fucking work at all.
If you think a black woman torturing her children is the same situation as a black child learning systematic racism from their parents, you’re dead wrong. One situation is where the parent, regardless of race, criminally scarred and harmed her children for no reason. The other situation is a situation where no matter how hard white parents try, they can not raise children of color without robbing them of their identity.
TLDR: adoption is a very imperfect, harmful process, and being racist and ignorant is gonna get you nowhere, my dude. It’s not racist for poc to want to live their own identity. It’s racist to think it’s okay to rob them of that.
Why do people, especially white people, fucking love to pretend that systematic, engrained racism is real. Why do people, especially white people, refuse to acknowledge that we have all been raised in a racist environment, and therefore were raised racist, and unless are actively unlearning racism, will teach racism to their children. Fuck off.
Just gonna add to this... I’m a lesbian meaning that I’m mostly likely gonna have to adapt. I’ve know that for years. Race shouldn’t be a factor in who you adapt. I’m no idiot I know that people fetishize adopting people of color, but those people are definitely in the minority. Fuck saying that adopting outside your race is gonna fuck up your kid. This post is just crawling with generalizations. This is coming from a mixed kid who was raised in an all white area, fuck you. Fuck all the black people who ostracize other black folks for not being “black enough”. It’s literally just playing right into the fucking problem

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