(Venezia, Italy, 2011)
In a random conversation about phones becoming extinct soon as people communicate with new technology such as whatsapp and zoom instead, it suddenly dwelled upon me, that once upon a time, I did not have a phone.
A month-long solo trip around Western Europe without a phone, at the age of 22, was possible. Those were times when phones weren't so ‘smart’ and wifi weren’t everywhere. Those were times when phone cards are horribly expensive (especially in Europe), not accessible (only available at proper telcom shops) and just not worth the money and trouble for the limited call/text credits you get.
When you get lost, there is no magic blue dot (aka GPS) that auto-detects your location. Instead, you have to unfold and open your huge city map, turn it round and round, squint your eyes as though you are playing “Find Wally”, or have a passerby to engage in the same process and then circling out your location on the map. More often than not, the piece of map quickly becomes wet or torn, or both, from all the wear-and-tear.
When you meet a stranger on the streets, or a new friend at the hostel, there is no adding of each other on Facebook or exchanging of Instagram handles. Instead, you just hang out knowing that you probably won’t see each other again. In the rare cases when you formed a deeper than usual connection and really want to keep in touch, you scribble down a note with your email address, hoping that the other person would email you after you are both back to your home countries. One of the most bittersweet feelings ever is waking up to such a note beside your pillow, realising that your new friend has left but still care about you.
Those were the times when you carry around a heavy guidebook (loaned from the library as you were too broke to own them) that you depend upon to visit sites of interest and recommended food places. Of course 90% of the time you didn't actually manage to find those places and just ended up exploring the city your own way. You learn to trust yourself:
1. Food places filled with tourists are likely not authentic and bound to be overpriced.
2. Hole-in-the-wall type of eateries with no signboards are the best.
3. Point to what others are having when you can’t read the menu (usually only in the local language).
4. When in doubt, grab a passer-by and ask NOT what do they recommend, but where do they usually have lunch at?
Without a phone, you don’t start your day with lying in bed planning and searching for places to go. You don't obsess about uploading the best photo to garner the most “likes” for virtual self-gratification throughout the day. You don’t habitually scroll through your messages and social media to find out what everyone else is doing in their mundane daily lives. Instead, you breath and live in the new environment that you are lucky enough to be in. You remember and appreciate all the moments, the experiences, the stories.
It has been less than 10 years since then but technology has completely changed the way people travel. Now with COVID-19 in Year 2020, the entire travel landscape will greatly change once again.
Gone are the days..










