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lilac trans enban / trans enby - an AGAB-less trans enban/enby term. can also be referred to as lilac enban / lilac enby, without the trans prefix.

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A Sexuality for those who are only attracted to Cis(gender) people if they’re Queer in other ways, whether that be gender-wise, sexuality, etc. (‘Ci’ from ‘Cisgender’, and ‘Var’ from Latin ‘Varius’ meaning ‘Various, diverse’)

Requested by Anon.

Coined by: RabidFreak

Sunmasc⠀⠀❀⠀⠀For when one's masculinity is connected to the sun, whatever that may mean for the user.

@soupyderrickfranthony, this is for you and anyone else who shares your strugles with the pink flag.

Demiwoman: an alternative term for demigirl for those who dislike the childish/diminutive connotations of the word “girl.”  Also, an alternative flag for demigirls who dislike the hyper-feminine aspect of the pink stripes in the demigirl flag.  Flag and term both open for anyone to use (I did not coin the term demiwoman, I just made the flag)

My ideals for bottom surgery is p much

- keeping my V

- being able to penetrate but not have anything crazy long

And idm sacrificing pee ability for it just cuz

A) learning about hypospadias , and how my urethras prolly borderline in my V makes my wonder if its even possible ngl

B) less complications! With my setup i gotta sacrifice somthing sadly

(I still see myself sitting to pee -just never bothered me lol)

I kinda wanna add on but not remove, and have come up with two things (without balls/UL/vagectomy) :

Extended meta (i really want phallo on top but have heard it prolly wont be possible due to the method , so ive reconsidered a bit just cuz i dont want to close the door on phallo fully)

Or

Phallo without burial + meta under it , with a pump in my labia (and id just pump and grow the og bottom growth)

There's actually a lot of combinations that are neat and various surgeries that go pretty unheard of (like nullification)

Of everything I've heard urethral lengthening is the main problem child when it comes to bottom surgery without vaginectomy, there's a much higher complication risk and the likelihood of needing multiple revisions is also much higher in return. Most surgeons won't do UL w/o vaginectomy, but if standing to pee isn't a make or break deal for you then that's not a massive loss.

Meta is very for lack of a better word "forgiving" when it comes to deciding what you want and don't want.

From what I know going from meta to phallo is possible but I'm not sure about both like described here, so honestly it might be worth it to see how you feel about the meta and if that doesn't work for you going to get revision for phallo? (Leaves the door open at least, and is a rather common process)

Speaking on my own plans; My important notes were - wanting to avoid complications as much as possible as I already have health issues and slow healing times (No go on the UL, which is fine because I have no interest in standing to pee) - being able to somewhat penetrate and be penetrated (Extended meta / no vaginectomy HOWEVER this does come with the fact scar tissue will make the latter of these desires more difficult) - Intent on shorter phallus length simply because I want that for myself :) - Just wanting something cosmetically that I like at the end of the day

Extended Metoidioplasty without urethral lengthening, scrotoplasty and vaginectomy is what I settled on, as well as having a radical hysterectomy, everythings going, I know the risks that come with it but felt that it was more important to prevent complications of possible future gynecological care as it can become more difficult to address those issues if they arise. I do not care for being able to be pregnant or being fertile, and already experience issues with these organs so I want them Gone.

r/metoidioplasty r/phallo and r/salmacian are all great places to look if you're wanting to scrounge other peoples experiences and possibilities (these subreddits are explicit, theres a lot of phallus posting, but it is nice to see the results especially as some people post their progress differences imo)

vislect girl ★ a term in which only a selected few may perceive and label you as a girl.

 ⓘ  anyone may use our terms. do not repost our terms without permission. if this has already been coined, consider this an alternative flag. we currently do not take coining requests.

vislect [x] by us.

vislect sun ★ a term in which only a selected few may perceive and label you as the sun.

 ⓘ  anyone may use our terms. do not repost our terms without permission. if this has already been coined, consider this an alternative flag. we currently do not take coining requests.

vislect [x] by us.

This is parental abuse.

[Flag ID/ 3 similar flags with 5 horizontal stripes. From the top of the first flag, the colours are dark reddish pink, greyish pink, reddish pink, greyish pink, dark reddish pink. The colours in the second flag are dark greyish red, greyish red, red, greyish red, dark greyish red. The colours in the third flag are dark greyish pink, greyish pink, pink, greyish pink, dark greyish pink. In the centre is a reddish pink circle, with dark pink outlines of shattered glass in the first flag, in the second is a red circle with dark red outlines of shattered glass, and in the third is a pink circle with dark greyish pink outlines of shattered glass. /End ID]

when one was previously feminine / a woman / a girl, no longer is, but feels their identity still has remnants of femininity / womanhood / girlhood

COINER — the biker

NOTES — I don't really like these flags. feel free to make alt flags for these ones

TAGS — @radiomogai @marcyie (ask to be added to the taglist)

demigalsarosflux / demigirlsarosflux / gemiwomansarosflux

flags for those who identify as a demi(gal/girl/woman)flux and gendersaros.

transangi demigirl (demigal/demiwoman/etc.)

flags for those who identify as a demi(girl/gal/woman) and transandrogynous.

transangi femby / transandrogynous femby

flags for those who identify as transandrogynous, female, and nonbinary.

transangi demiboy (demiguy/demiman/etc.)

flags for those who identify as a demi(boy/guy/man) and transandrogynous.

requested by @walkingintothesunnset

Teaching children/teens basic internet safety rules such as not giving out personal information (name, age, etc.) and internet stranger danger

Informing parents/guardians about the existence of the YouTube Kids app before they hand the unfiltered iPad to a kid to watch

Informing about YouTube Teen Accounts

More online teen spaces such as MMOs, pet sites, and RP forums with site rules to keep things appropriate

Emphasis of report and block buttons if something said in said spaces makes someone uncomfortable and/or breaks site rules

Game support forums not being locked to Discord servers and easily accessible to the entire userbase

Parental blocks that restrict downloading dedicated "adult community" apps

In mixed age online spaces, adults being less hesitant about using built in content filters such as tags and mature content labels

Parents/guardians understanding age ratings on items such as movies and video games, especially R and M

Parents, guardians, and trusted adults (ex. teachers, librarians) being available to listen and discuss when a topic is confusing (and not immediately get mad and complain about the material)

Better access to youth library materials (ex. young adult)

It’s only natural then that I lean in with hushed tones, conspiring with my dear partner for their success, to hell with the ethics of it. “We both know you are the smartest person in that room, the hardest working; you deserve that promotion more than any of the rest of them. Show them why they would be fools to overlook you! Claim what you deserve!”

There’s just something so cathartic about giving voice to that anger we both feel about the injustice of a heteronormative world. Channeling that anger that sits under the surface burning away without a release, and giving it one at long last. “Let that fire cleanse you of your doubt! Let your anger burn away the babbling of sexblinded fools! They fear you because they see how categorically you outclass them! Make them rue their spite.”

But that anger wouldn’t be inflamed blindly. It’s precise. Planned.

Going out clothes shopping with them; “this suit accentuates your shoulders, but choose a darker color. We want your presence to make them falter before you even speak.”

Studying their opponents, maybe using a little subterfuge if needed; “I overheard that one in the red has been filing his reports incorrectly for the last three months, if he speaks against you, shred his credibility with his own failures.”

Lovingly stroking their ego; “They respect your confidence, my love. When you take charge people trust you, they can sense your capability; the thought you put into your actions, the care you take when dealing with others. All the markings of a good leader...” Prideful words whispered lovingly. Nothing untrue, of course, but trimmed of any unwarranted humility or doubt. Those self-sabotaging nitpicks are nothing but the remnants of others’ ignorance, unworthy of consideration.

And finally, at long last when their hard work and dedication pays off; when they finally claim that position they’ve been wanting for so long… Not a single soul could fail to see who belongs in that chair. And oh how proud I would be to sit beside them. To see them flourish, crowned and resplendent. A good consort loves to see his king stand tall, and I am far better than “good.” The best only deserve the best, after all.