zia 🌙✨

john carter the type of man to suck another man’s bludge through his boxers or pants moaning and whining like HE’S the one getting his dick sucked,,, he also cums his pants like it too

watching er for the first time is wild because i heard there was yaoi but no one told me a baby-faced noah wyle would spend the entirety of season one hanging onto another man’s every word. thank you 1990s accidental homoeroticism

Thinking about Peter Benton and John Carter this evening… autistic Benton and golden retriever John Carter… believing in my heart that the fanfiction is real… they’re fictional and I’m making them kiss in my mind

So many women have internalized the idea that being difficult makes people think less of them, when in my experience the opposite is almost always true. Every single time I have spoken up, voiced what I actually need and refused to shrink the moment in order to be more comfortable for everyone else in the room, I have been approached afterward by people who wanted to know me better. There is no reward waiting for you on the other side of making yourself smaller. People do not love you more for taking up less space, they simply get used to you taking up less space and adjust their expectations accordingly. Every time I have been exactly as audacious as the moment required, it has opened doors rather than closed them and I have made real connections directly because of it rather than in spite of it.