Anonymous Virgo

Good News!!! 

I just found these new lashes called GLAMNETIC, and I am OBSESSED!! 

These lashes are new and use a unique way to apply to you lid! First you put a thick coat of the magnetic eyeliner above your eyelashes, then you simply just place the eyelash on top and BOOM! Five minutes max on lashes!!

To get your first set, go to https://prz.io/e3nDE6bf2 and get $20 USD off when you spend $60 USD or more!!

My faves are Luxe and Lavish!!!

Hey everyone!

Long time, no chat!! I have taken a bit of a social media break for personal reasons off and on throughout the past few months, but am now back in service lol! I am so pleased to see that people have still been interacting with my posts though I was not active! 

So you guys really don’t know that much about me so i figured I would do the GTKM tag without anyone having to send me in questions

What is your full name? Secret! (Revealing my socials and more at 1.5k!)

What does your name mean? I believe it means Youthful

Are you named after anyone? Yes but no

Does your name make any interesting anagrams? nope

If you had to change your first name, what would you change it to? I really like weird and unique names, after watching ‘You’ I fell in love with the name Peach.

Where are you from? A small place in Canada (Revealing at 1.5k)

Where were you born? ^

Where did you grow up? ^^

Who did you look up to growing up? Even before I really got into playing hockey, I really loved Meghan Agosta from team Canada’s Womens Hockey team and I loved Jennie Finch as she also played a sport I was very passionate about. Same with Haley Wickenheiser! 

What are your best characteristics? My sense of humour and my forgivingness!

What are your favorite things about yourself? My strength. I have been through so so so so much that I am so shocked in myself for having such strength to still be kind to people and to look at myself and be able to change any wrong-doings I may have made in the past.

Which of your parents are you closest to? Neither

Which of your parents are you more like? A mix of both

Are your grandparents still married? One side yes, one side no

What relative was important to you growing up & why? Growing up I really wasn’t close to anyone of my relatives 

What is one thing that you’ve never revealed to your parents? That I was a little whore in high school, but they found out...

What would your parents have named you if you were the opposite gender? Hmmm... I am not sure

What do you call your grandparents? Grammy and Grampy

What is your best physical feature? A guy would say my curves. I was blessed with all the right curves. But I personally think my eyes, I have very unique eyes for a caucasian female!

What is your biggest accomplishment? Still being here!

What is your biggest fear? Things that I don’t know

What is your biggest regret? A lot of shit that happened throughout High School

What is your eye color? Brown

What inspires you? Progress

What is the most important thing in your life? I’m not sure how to answer this

What has required the most courage of you in your life so far? Seeking help

Who is your favorite actor? Bradley Cooper

Who is your favorite actress? Margot Robbie

Who is your favorite celebrity? Kylie Jenner

Who is your favorite musician? I love Florida Georgia Line and Dababy, I know a weird mix

Who’s your favorite person in the world? I don’t know, probably my best friend

What is your favorite childhood memory? Skiing or going to sports tournaments 

What is your favorite color? Pink!

What is your favorite cultural activity? Going to sporting events!

What is your favorite drink? at the bar: “Pornstar”, non-alcoholic: Orangsicle from Booster Juice!

What is your favorite fairytale? Aladdin

What is your favorite food? Chicken Parmigiana 

What is your favorite holiday destination? Orlando

What is your favorite ice-cream flavor? Mint Fudge

What is your favorite music genre? Country, but I listen to everything

What is your favorite physical activity? Going for walks, tennis

What is your favorite quote?  It’s from The Office...

What is your favorite snack? I love hot dogs LOL

What is your favorite song? “Look What God Gave Her” -Thomas Rhett

What is your favorite sport? Hockey

What is your favorite time of the day? Right before bed

What is your favorite type of clothing? Shoes!

What is your favorite way to pass time? Tiktok or doing my hair and makeup

What is the name of your favorite restaurant? The Cheesecake Factory or a local restaurant!

Send me numbers! Repost and see what your followers want to know!

First app you check when you wake up in the morning?

First broken bone?

First foreign country you ever visited?

First Instagram, Twitter or Facebook post?

First make-up item

First plane ride you ever went on?

First time I ever got into trouble at home and school?

First time you were allowed to put on make-up?

First YouTuber you subscribed to?

First time you went shopping on your own?

My first BF/GF?

My First car?

My first Celebrity Crush?

My first cooking experience?

My first crush?

My first ever boyfriend?

My first ever cell phone?

My first ever date?

My first ever girlfriend?

My first ever kiss?

My first fear?

My first friend in college?

My first heartbreak

My first Instagram post?

My first internet activity?

My first job?

My first language?

My first love?

My first pet?

My first piercing and when did I get it?

My first time ;)?

My first swear word?

My first tattoo?

My first thought today?

My first time on a plane?

My first time on a ship?

My first time on a train?

My first toy?

My first tweet?

My first YouTube video?

My online profile picture?

The first book I remember reading?

The first concert I ever attended?

The first movie I remember seeing?

The first person I talked to today?

The first person that ever broke my heart?

The first person you text when something exciting happens?

The first text I sent today?

The first thing I do every morning?

So this routine, is my daily routine! Nothing to glam but what I wear on my face to make me feel less insecure or more put together. I have added anything expensive with cheaper alternatives.

So first, I start with my skin routine (will post another day) so my face is nice a fresh, and the makeup doesn’t sit harshly on my face. Also, some days I only do my skin routine and no foundation and other days I will; basically, I go with whatever mood I am or if my acne is flaring up really bad on that day. For this written tutorial, I have decided to post my everyday makeup routine using foundation.

 ( + I do not wear makeup everyday. Like if I am just chilling at home or only have plans to go to one place, I won’t put any makeup on)

Primer- Most primers are a bit expensive. Some people claim that they can go without, and I was one of those people... you can’t. If you are someone who doesn’t often wear face makeup, then I guess you could skip this step, I advise not to though. 

I use Bobbi Brown Vitamin Enriched Face Base Priming Moisturizer. I love this primer because it is a very smooth application and doesn’t leave your skin feeling sticky. Standard size is 50mL and $79.00 CAD, while the mini option is 15 mL for $25 CAD. 

While this may be still quite expensive to some, a great alternate primer is The Ordinary High-Spreadability Fluid Primer. I have only used this primer once and it worked well for me! This primer comes in one standard size of 30mL at $7.90 CAD at Saphora

Foundation- For an everyday look I prefer something that isn’t too cakey or too dark. I have been having trouble finding my skin colour and have been opting of shades that are too dark for me and almost impossible to blend. I usually go between foundations especially going between glam and normal everyday. 

For everyday I have been using Marc Jacobs Re(marc)able Full Cover Foundation Concentrate but, I do prefer Makeup Forever Ultra HD Invisible Cover Foundation much much much better. I am wearing Marc Jacobs foundation right now because it is on sale at Sephora for only $35 CAD, when it usually is $70 CAD. It does the trick and I do like it, but I feel it is more of a full glam type of foundation.

An even cheaper option than the $35 CAD deal from Sephora is: L’Oréal Paris Foundation Infallible Fresh Wear 24HR|Lightweight, Longwear, Breathable Formula. This is a nice foundation that you can get at your drugstore for under $20 CAD. The lightweight formula feels great on and makes your skin feel breathable. 

To blend: I usually just use my BeautyBlender or any other knock beauty

blender I own then will blend into my neck with a foundation brush. I sometimes will applicate my makeup with a foundation brush when I want more coverage.

Hey everyone!!

I have decided to change my blog name as I will start to switch my focus and aim of what I want my blog to look like! Originally I started the blog as a Tea blog for sports, as I thought the tea I had on some athletes was new and fresh. I quickly realized that tea blogs aren’t for me. I love reading them I think they are interesting and hilarious, but I cannot write gossip based blogs. Soon after starting thepillowtalkprincess I decided that I should change to sex advice blog and tea on athletes I have dealt with first hand. A lot of my followers may have noticed (may not have lol) that I lacked in creating posts. As a new blog I get an adequate amount of asks but not enough to conduct a blog just stressed on sex advice and tea. 

In the recent days, I realized that I want to change the view and attitudes of my blog once again. This blog will become more transparent and mature. Sitting and just talking about sex and only sex doesn’t always seem healthy. After reading this you may be thinking, “no sex advice, goodbye”, and that isn’t what I am expressing. I am transforming myself into a broader advice and everyday life blog. Along with what i have been creating before I will be adding more recommendations, style inspo, what music or styles I am into write now, etc... I will also be making my blog a more personal space where I can express myself online and hopefully start a career out of online. With saying career, I am talking about long-term goals for my blog.

Why The Name Change? 

I have decided to change the name of the blog because I feel the new name represents me better. One thing I notice is that my followers really don’t know much about me and that is subject to change. So I guess, first on the agenda is changing my name to something more fitting.

Virgovalidation hit me while I was just scrolling through instagram, and the name just appeared in my head. I chose ‘Virgovalidation’ because, for one, I am a virgo; and second, every time I see any astrological post about personality traits and behaviours, I notice Virgo is always seen as the therapist. Truly most of the things said about a virgo I am guilty of. I am loyal and passionate, observant, a perfectionist, I am picky, and I am critical. My astrological sign, like said before is Virgo, my moon sign is Capricorn, and Rising is Virgo; basically I am a full blown virgo. I am an Earth sign gal. 

Virgos are critical, and picky, and the best advice givers, so the name ‘Virgovalidation’ comes from the personality and communications of a Virgo. With saying this, Virgos are seen to give the best advice and the worst at approval. I don’t like to be seen as critical and ‘judgy’, but sadly, I can be LOL. So ‘Virgovalidation’ was chosen because if you are ‘accepted’ or ‘advised’ from a Virgo you’re on the right track. 

One thing I want to make clear is that this is !!!NOT!!! going to be an astrological blog! But with saying that, if you would like to see some astrological content, I would be more than willing to share astrological content with you guys!! I am willing to share my thoughts on signs, rate signs from MY personal experience, or whatever else you may think of. (I am not an astrologist so I can’t tell you your horoscope. sorry haha)

New details

Going forward I will be planning on posting daily, and will post a schedule of what will be posted prior to posting day! If you have any recommendations or just something you would like to see, you know what to do! My ask box is always open, and I promise I will get to your question eventually.

If I don’t answer a question you have sent me- just send the question or response again with [***] three stars and I will make it priority!

I hope you like my new style, attitudes and vision for my blog; and I will try to accommodate to what everyone wants to see. 

I feel like in this social media age we have all dealt with hate at least once in our lives. It’s something that is becoming the new normal, yes it’s toxic, but lets be real... Online hate will probably never go away. 

(Obviously you are very lucky if you have never gotten hate)

First thing to remember is that EVERYONE talks shit. If you don’t congrats, you are a saint. I talk shit, my mom talks shit, jeez my grand mother talks shit --  tragically that is apart of human nature. So if it’s just a feeling that someone is talking shit, don’t even worry about it because stressing yourself out about something someone may be saying about you isn’t worth the worry. 

So a little personal story: When I was in high school, ask.fm was a big application and website that many people my age were using (don’t recommend). The app/website was a platform that people could ask you questions either anonymous or not and your profile was open to the public internet, so ideally anyone could ask you a question -- account or not. I started getting hate based questions and just statements, though this wasn’t my first encounter with real world bitchiness and pure maliciousness, as I was extremely badly bullied my whole life to the point of transferring schools and personal makeover (a maybe story for another time), this was my first encounter of the realism of no limits on the internet. I got so consumed with what people thought of me that deleting my account (which I should have) was not going to happen. I ended up getting criticism on just about everything about me: my looks, my weight, my personality, my sexual life, my height, my friends... god this list goes on. i was having about 30 questions a day, which doesn’t seem like a lot but when half of it was hate, it tolls. 

I have been cyber bullied and have had people bandwagon against me, so if that has happened to you as well here are some tips and reassurance: