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Before I get into this: I don’t have any issues with cursing, but I am seeing people jump into them quickly, and even casting them against each other on here so I’m going to explain some shit that people need to know if this is what they want to do.

Before the Three-fold law was brought to the forefront because of Wicca, there were a few commonplace ‘rules’ many, many witches followed, one of which was: To never use your power on a another witch.

This was not because of morals.

This was because there are ways of sending things back to the caster. A witch attacking another witch never ended well for either party (or their loved ones, really, because nothing ever just effects one person), it was essentially declaring a never ending war, because yeah you may have thrown up some protections, but all that has to be done is a reversal spell more potent than whatever protection you gave yourself. Rinse and repeat until one party gives up.

That being said, here’s two reversal spells I have in my book of mirrors. I have adapted them and combined other published spells to make these, so if you happen to have the same books as me some parts may be familiar. I have tested these.

Hex & Curse Reversal Candle

Get a new candle, you’ll want it to be large. The longer the candle burns the more powerful the spell.

Turn it upside down. Carve off the bottom until the wick is exposed and can be lit.

If necessary, slice the top so it can stand flat on it’s top, upside down.

Dress the candle in any oils or herbs you find appropriate to help you with this. Meditating on it can help if need be. Different curses/hexes are better stopped by different things, so if something feels right, use it. Just make sure it’s safe.

Light the wick, while chanting “Let this evil done against me reverse itself, as I have reversed you.”

Meditate and focus your intent while the candle burns. Do it until you feel it is enough. Let the candle burn out. If you stop meditating on it and feel like you should a few hours later while the candle is still burning, do it. When the candle burns out, the reversal is complete.

Hex & Curse Reversal Spell

 Gather 6 blackthorns, or pine needles.

Create a wax (or clay, if burying) image. It does not have to be specific, it can be a generic human figure. If this is a curse or hex, this spell will be able to trace where it came from.

Stick a thorn/needle through each hand, while saying “The evil you have crafted returns to you.”

Stick a needle/thorn through each foot, while saying “The evil you visit upon me returns to you”

Stick a needle/thorn through the mouth, while saying “The evil you spoke returns to you”

Stick a thorn through the forehead “The evil that you think and create returns to you.”

Hello all! After a bit of a hiatus I am returning to get back on track with my spiritual focus. My main interests are tarot and astrology, but I do dabble in some witchcraft and pagan practice. I mainly work with Bastet.

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(beautifully explained by American Witch, this article was so well done I just had to share it!)

The Fine Art of Reading the Candle and the Flame: Ceromancy is one of the world’s most ancient forms of divination.

Starring at a flame and viewing wax drippings is a great method of

determining if your magic is working effectively. Additionally the way a

candle unfolds or deconstructs as it melts can be very significant. I

will provide information on how to read glass encased candles, free

standing candles, how to read the flame, how to read the smoke, and how

to dispose of candle wax. It is important to note that candles poorly

made will burn badly no matter how you dress them, pray over them,

etcetera… . Also the environment such as the temperature in the area,

the presence of wind or a draft, and other factors can play a large part

in how a candle will burn.

How to Read the Signs in Glass Encased Candles: Novena or glass encased candles are commonly used in the Hoodoo and

Santerian tradition. However many who practice candle magic who create

their own candles use mason or other glass jars to pour their homemade

formulas into. I prefer the use of glass encased candles over

freestanding candles.

A clean even burn from the top to the bottom: This

is an indication that all will go well with your spell and that you will

get what you are petitioning for. Please be certain to choose the

correct spell, the correct novena, and use the correct timing. For if

not, even though your candle may burn clean, the expected results will

not manifest. On a positive note, a clean burning candle does imply all

will be well although desired wishes do not manifest speedily.

Black smoke on the glass, a dirty sooty burn:If the soot does not travel all the way down the glass, and is only at the top or perhaps stops in the middle, the negative influence or obstacle has been unblocked. 

If the black goes down the entire length of the candle

it means your working has been blocked and there are still forces

preventing you for attaining your desired result. It could also indicate

someone has casted a spell against you or has significant spiritual

protection. If this is the case burn another candle to break through

their defenses.

If the soot is at the bottom of the candle it is a

warning that negative influences are being sent to you. There are many

challenges facing you and there is a tough road ahead. Someone(s) may be

working against you. At the top of the glass on the inside, take a

sharp object and inscribe the symbol of your spiritual comfort – such as

a cross – all the way around or in front and back. I recommend

accelerating your protections and start a series of uncrossing rituals.

White smoke on the glass:White soot is another

matter all together. This can indicate spiritual communication, purity,

and exorcism. It could indicate that the spirits have heard your prayers

and removed the negativity from the working. This is especially true in

unhexing or uncrossing rituals. Look to the amount of soot to tell you

if it is completed or not.

If the soot only goes half way down or less, the cleansing was successful.

If the soot is carried through the length of the candle you may need further cleansing and spiritual work.

If the soot is at the bottom of the candle, it signifies the presence of outside aid or help either spiritually or physically.

If the candle burned half black and half white this means that one aspect is overriding the other. Look to which is on top to see what was undone. If black is on top, your spirits cleared it. If white is on top the spirits of another have combated your attempts.

If the soot is on only one side of the candle, this

is a sign that what you are doing is incorrect. Either the candle

fixing wasn’t appropriate or the spirits aren’t happy with the candle

itself.

When the glass breaks or explodes: If the glass cracks but does not break

it means there was some opposition that was broken. It may have been

sent to the spell to try to deflect it or it may have been encountered

along the way. If it does not break or shatter then the spell is protected and was successfully defended. However, if the glass breaks or shatters it means

you are up against something larger than yourself. Malicious forces have

either protected your target or have been attracted to your working and

are trying to interfere. It can also indicate someone is casting

against you and you are not spiritually protected or strong enough as

what was thrown at you was larger than what you were sending out. Either

way, do a stronger working and light another candle to try to combat

it.

Blockages could be the result of someone coming up against you,

however you could be creating the blockage yourself thus sabotaging your

spell. Examine all possibilities.

When a candle leaves wax residue: If there is around

1/2” (1.27 cm) or more in the bottom, the spell needs to be repeated.

Wax on the sides of the glass indicates where there are personal

hindrances to the progress of the spell.

Accelerated Burn: This is considered a good sign, however the rewards may be short lived and the spell will need to be repeated.

Signs on the glass: It is good to look for signs on

the glass, particularly those left in soot or wax residue. For instance

if there is heavy black soot and a skull is imprinted in the soot –

naturally this is not a good sign. If it is white soot and there is a

dove – this is a good sign.

Use your own intuition to come to a conclusion regarding the significance of your desired outcome.

Reading Freestanding Candles

The way a candle unfolds or deconstructs as it melts can be very

significant. It is wonderful when the candle seems to collapse outward

or unfold like a flower. I consider that to be a sign that your wish

will be granted. It represents possibilities and paths opening for you. A

candle that is too lopsided in one direction or another universally

means that you are dealing with a situation that is way out of balance.

If the flame is buried by the wax, to me that is often a sign that the

wish will not be granted.

If they do burn cleanly and leave no trace other than a circle and a

bit of charred wick, then the spell worked very well indeed. Flat smooth

wax puddles means the spell worked well.

A free-standing candle runs and melts a lot while burning: This

gives you an opportunity to observe the flow of wax for signs. For

instance, if you are burning a bride-and-groom type candle for love, and

the man’s wax runs all over the woman’s, then the man desires the woman

more than she desires him. If you are burning an abundance or

prosperity candle and the wax melts and runs down onto the monetary

offering, the spell is working well and the candle is blessing the

money. Some people try to intentionally influence the way melting wax

runs with the intention of increasing the likelihood that things will go

favorably for them. Most practioners allow nature to take its course

and watch running wax for signs, without interfering in its movements.

A free-standing candle burns down to a puddle of wax: When

this happens, examine the shape of the wax for a sign. You may see

something of significance there, for the shape may suggest an outcome

regarding present or future matters. Wax puddles come in all kinds of

shapes; most candle-workers treat them like tea-leaves when they

interpret them.

There is much lore in the Mexican tradition regarding the wax remains

– they leave messages such as: long serpent-like strings indicating

evil intent being neutralized and probably a repeat spell is required.

Heart shaped wax puddles are positive when working love spells.

A Coffin shaped puddle indicates success when burning a candle against a nemisis.

Flat wavy papery remains usually with two claw-like projections are

read as scorpions which mean malicious gossip and back biting that is

being neutralized. Repeat the spell until wax burns clean.

Twisted pillars of wax, bizarre shapes or monsters is read as turbulence and further healing is required.

Wax remains in the shape of sex organs usually means some sort of infidelity or a venereal disease.

A hooded figure means the “Santa Muerte” Holy Death has been invoked and requires a further ritual to neutralize this.

Shapes of animals, cats, goats, domestic animals and fowls can mean

that an animal sacrifice took place to strengthen a spell against you. A

further ritual is called for to neutralize the spell (the source,

usually Santería or Palo Mayombe). Many make or buy tallow candles for

uncrossing and unhexing spells. On a positive note, it could be an

animal spirit that is close to you.

A free-standing candle lets out a lot of smoke but burns clean at the

end: Signifies hidden trouble or someone working against your wishes.

Things will not go well at first, but with repeated work you will

overcome.

Reading the Flame

( Pyromancy )

The flame represents the source of our creation, your inner light. It

speaks to us of the soul spark that is above and below, within and

without, that which links us all together originating from the same

source of thought consciousness. Each flickering candle flame contains

‘millions of tiny diamonds, roughly 1.5 million gems are created every

second, however they disappear in the blink of an eye. The flame is

powerful indeed!

If the candle lights and splits into two or more flames: this

indicates the presence of others, either spirits, deities, or human,

getting involved. Look to the rest of the candle to interpret whether

this person is good or bad. If you are trying to split up a couple and both flames stay lit, the couple will stay together. If you are doing a working for attract a lover

and the second flame seems to rise out of the wax your working will be

successful especially if both flames grow into one large flame.

If the candle does not light: this means that this type of working will not work for what you need and another type of spell should be used

If the candle flame is high: it

means there is a lot of power behind the spell and little resistance. If

the candle burns low it means there is a strong opposing spiritual

force and a cleansing and or banishing may be needed

If the flame makes a crackling or popping sound:it

indicates conversation. Either the spirits are trying to talk to you or

the target is talking about you. Look to the purpose of the candle and

the other actions of the flame to determine which is which.

If the flame flickers:there is a

spirit around. If the flame pops while flickering it is the spirit

trying to communicate to you. Open yourself up to it. If it is a

devotional candle and it is flickering it means you are in contact with

your deity and any prayers or petitions will be heard.

If you attempt to blow out the flame and it does not go out:

this means the spirit does not want you to extinguish it. The same can

be said if you blow it out and it flicks back on. Let the spirit

complete its work, something important may be in the works that you do

not want to interrupt. If you are uncomfortable ask the spirit to

protect the candle or ask for permission and try to extinguish it again.

If the entire top of the prepared candle catches fire:it

means all the resources of the prepared candle are being used due to

spiritual influences creating obstacles. Look to the other signs to see

if the candle was successful. If the preparations do not collect along

the glass as the candle burns, but remain pooled together, it means all

the resources are needed and will burn at the end of the candle. The

soot, flame, and glass should be read for the outcome.

If the flame burns high and calm and produces no soot:you

are in the presence of a larger entity or guardian spirit, most likely

benevolent. The same can be said for high aggressive flames that flicker

in large strokes . These tend to be darker spirits and deities, both

are there to listen or aid you.

If the flame goes out while burning: this means the

spirits cannot help you and the answer you seek is already determined.

This can also happen if you unexpectedly get the result before the

candle is finished.

Burn marks on the glass: Where the flame burns the

label with the Saint (Santo) can indicate that there is a nemesis or

frienemies that are stabbing you in the back and/or casting you the evil

eye.

A healthy flame: has a bright red core, surrounded

by a blue halo and then a yellow color. A blazing red center tells you

that spirits are getting to the heart of the matter. A red center that

is dim or just a pinpoint reveals a situation that may not be motivated

by the heart. If the wick of the candle starts building a little bulb at

its tip, chances are that you have opposition or a third party working

against you. If there is a lot of blue in the flame, I take that as a

sign that angels and spirits are protecting you from a possibly unhappy

outcome.

Extinguishing a flame: Use your thumb and index

finger to put out the wick, or use a candle snuffer, a plate, — magical

or spiritual candles are never blown out.

Reading the Smoke of the Flame

( Capromancy )

The candle smoke wafts towards you it means that your prayer is more

than likely to be answered. If it wafts away from you, then it means

that you will need a great deal of perseverance in order to have your

prayer answered.

If the smoke blows to your left “you are getting too emotionally

involved with the situation and are in danger of subconsciously

sabotaging your own prayer so that it will not be answered. If it blows

to the right you will need to use your head rather than your emotions to

pursue the situation.”

Disposal of Candle Wax

If the formula you are using dictates the proper disposal of wax

remains, follow the instructions. If not, when the spell is of a

positive nature discreetly bury the remains in your yard. If you don’t

have a yard wrap in a white paper napkin and place in the trash

receptacle. If the spell is of a negative nature take the remains away

from where you or people you love reside in addition to your place of

Everyone has days where we are simply too tired to even sleep. This may make full on conversations, pendulum readings, or even noticing the signs of a spirit impossible. However, working with spirits almost 24/7 has lead me to understand and find some interesting ways to communicate with my etheric friends.

1. Ask questions out loud and wait for the answer. Whilst you may not have enough energy to communicate in a way to get instant answers, your spirit friends will try their best to reply to open-ended conversations. Often, if you ask a question and wait, you may feel or experience their answer. Falle likes to do this occassionally, if I ask him how he’s feeling, I often feel his emotions.

2. Random Number Generators Similar to a pendulum, you can use websites like random.org to speak to your spirit companions on low energy days. It’s very easy to establish, put the range of the generation from 1-2 or 1-3 (for a maybe option), then tell the spirit to answer a 1 if yes and a 2 if no. Ask a few starter questions, such as their name, and then you can ask them whatever you need to.

3. Shufflemancy Similar to the RNG method above, this uses the spirit’s ability to manipulate results. Asking questions and then hitting shuffle on your playlist, the result that comes up is their answer. Analyze the lyrics to form a clearer picture.

4. Come in contact with their vessel. I have found that if I am low on energy, coming into contact with the spirit’s vessel is very helpful. Even on low days, holding, wearing, or meditating with the vessel has allowed me to maintain contact and communication.

5. Ask for signs. Is your spirit friend represented by something? Are they called or do they appreciate certain aspects of our world? For instance, let’s take my guide Rolana. She is a Robin and is represented by a Robin or Robin feather. On low energy days, if i ask her for a sign, normally within a few minutes i either see or hear a robin.

6. Ask them to manifest. Manifesting may not be your spirit’s favourite task, however on low energy days, asking them to manifest is sometimes the easiest thing. Noises, smells, or physical anamolies (?) can be established as answers (tap twice for yes, tap once for no, ect.) and can be effective if your spirit is feeling up to it.

Many witches like to choose what their wand is made of by their birth tree, or have seeds/the actual tree nearby for strength/guidance. So here you go 

Dec 23 to Jan 01 | Apple Tree

Jan 02 to Jan 11 | Fir Tree Jan 12 to Jan 24 | Elm Tree Jan 25 to Feb 03 | Cypress Tree

Feb 04 to Feb 08 | Poplar Tree Feb 09 to Feb 18 | Cedar Tree Feb 19 to Feb 28 | Pine Tree Feb 29 | Poplar Tree

Mar 01 to Mar 10 | Weeping Willow Tree Mar 11 to Mar 20 | Lime Tree Mar 21 | Oak Tree Mar 22 to Mar 31 | Hazelnut Tree

Apr 01 to Apr 10 | Rowan Tree Apr 11 to Apr 20 | Maple Tree Apr 21 to Apr 30 | Walnut Tree

May 01 to May 14 | Poplar Tree May 15 to May 24 | Chestnut Tree May 25 to Jun 03 | Ash Tree

Jun 04 to Jun 13 | Hornbeam Tree Jun 14 to Jun 23 | Fig Tree Jun 24 | Birch Tree Jun 25 to Jul 04 | Apple Tree

Jul 05 to Jul 14 | Fir Tree Jul 15 to Jul 25 | Elm Tree Jul 26 to Aug 04 | Cypress Tree

Aug 05 to Aug 13 | Poplar Tree Aug 14 to Aug 23 | Cedar Tree Aug 24 to Sep 02 | Pine Tree

Sep 03 to Sep 12 | Weeping Willow Tree Sep 13 to Sep 22 | Lime Tree Sep 23 | Olive Tree Sep 24 to Oct 03 | Hazelnut Tree

Oct 04 to Oct 13 | Rowan Tree Oct 14 to Oct 23 | Maple Tree Oct 24 to Nov 11 | Walnut Tree

Nov 12 to Nov 21 | Chestnut Tree Nov 22 to Dec 01 | Ash Tree

Dec 02 to Dec 11 | Hornbeam Tree Dec 12 to Dec 21 | Fig Tree Dec 22 | Beech Tree

Apple Tree | Love | of slight build, lots of charm, appeal, and attraction, pleasant aura, flirtatious, adventurous, sensitive, always in love, wants to love and be loved, faithful and tender partner, very generous, scientific talents, lives for today, a carefree philosopher with imagination.

Ash Tree | Ambition | uncommonly attractive, vivacious, impulsive, demanding, does not care for criticism, ambitious, intelligent, talented, likes to play with fate, can be egotistic, very reliable and trustworthy, faithful and prudent lover, sometimes brains rule over the heart, but takes partnership very seriously.

Beech Tree | Creative | has good taste, concerned about its looks, materialistic, good organization of life and career, economical, good leader, takes no unnecessary risks, reasonable, splendid lifetime companion, keen on keeping fit (diets, sports, etc.)

Birch Tree | Inspiration | vivacious, attractive, elegant, friendly, unpretentious, modest, does not like anything in excess, abhors the vulgar, loves life in nature and in calm, not very passionate, full of imagination, little ambition, creates a calm and content atmosphere.

Cedar Tree | Confidence | of rare beauty, knows how to adapt, likes luxury, of good health, not in the least shy, tends to look down on others, self-confident, determined, impatient, likes to impress others, many talents, industrious, healthy optimism, waiting for the one true love, able to make quick decisions.

Chestnut Tree | Honesty | of unusual beauty, does not want to impress, well-developed sense of justice, vivacious, interested, a born diplomat, but irritates easily and sensitive in company, often due to a lack of self confidence, acts sometimes superior, feels not understood loves only once, has difficulties in finding a partner.

Cypress Tree | Faithfulness | strong, muscular, adaptable, takes what life has to give, content, optimistic, craves money and acknowledgment, hates loneliness, passionate lover which cannot be satisfied, faithful, quick-tempered, unruly, pedantic, and careless.

Elm Tree | Noble-mindedness | pleasant shape, tasteful clothes, modest demands, tends not to forgive mistakes, cheerful, likes to lead but not to obey, honest and faithful partner, likes making decisions for others, noble-minded, generous, good sense of humor, practical.

Fig Tree | Sensibility | very strong, a bit self-willed, independent, does not allow contradiction or arguments, loves life, its family, children and animals, a bit of a social butterfly, good sense of humor, likes idleness and laziness, of practical talent and intelligence.

Fir Tree | Mysterious | extraordinary taste, dignity, sophisticated, loves anything beautiful, moody, stubborn, tends to egoism but cares for those close to them, rather modest, very ambitious, talented, industrious, un-contented lover, many friends, many foes, very reliable.

Hazelnut Tree | Extraordinary | charming, undemanding, very understanding, knows how to make an impression, active fighter for social cause, popular, moody, and capricious lover, honest, and tolerant partner, precise sense of judgment.

Hornbeam Tree | Good Taste | of cool beauty, cares for its looks and condition, good taste, is not egoistic, makes life as comfortable as possible, leads a reasonable and disciplined life, looks for kindness and acknowledgement in an emotional partner, dreams of unusual lovers, is seldom happy with its feelings, mistrusts most people, is never sure of its decisions, very conscientious.

Lime Tree | Doubt | accepts what life dishes out in a composed way, hates fighting, stress, and labor, dislikes laziness and idleness, soft and relenting, makes sacrifices for friends, many talents but not tenacious enough to make them blossom, often wailing and complaining, very jealous but loyal.

Maple Tree | Independence of Mind | no ordinary person, full of imagination and originality, shy and reserved, ambitious, proud, self-confident, hungers for new experiences, sometimes nervous, has many complexities, good memory, learns easily, complicated love life, wants to impress.

Oak Tree | Brave | robust nature, courageous, strong, unrelenting, independent, sensible, does not like change, keeps its feet on the ground, person of action.

Olive Tree | Wisdom | loves sun, warmth and kind feelings, reasonable, balanced, avoids aggression and violence, tolerant, cheerful, calm, well-developed sense of justice, sensitive, empathetic, free of jealousy, loves to read and the company of sophisticated people.

Pine Tree | Particular | loves agreeable company, very robust, knows how to make life comfortable, very active, natural, good companion, but seldom friendly, falls easily in love but its passion burns out quickly, gives up easily, everything disappointments until it finds its ideal, trustworthy, practical.

Poplar Tree | Uncertainty | looks very decorative, not very self-confident, only courageous if necessary, needs goodwill and pleasant surroundings, very choosy, often lonely, great animosity, artistic nature, good organizer, tends to lean toward philosophy, reliable in any situation, takes partnership seriously.

Rowan Tree | Sensitivity | full of charm, cheerful, gifted without egoism, likes to draw attention, loves life, motion, unrest, and even complications, is both dependent and independent, good taste, artistic, passionate, emotional, good company, does not forgive.

Walnut Tree | Passion | unrelenting, strange and full of contrasts, often egotistic, aggressive, noble, broad horizon, unexpected reactions, spontaneous, unlimited ambition, no flexibility, difficult and uncommon partner, not always liked but often admired, ingenious strategist, very jealous and passionate, no compromise.

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Red: Fire, Blood, Passion, Anger, Danger, Strength, Power

Orange: Fire, Air, Happiness, Enthusiasm, Creativity, Determination

Yellow: Air, Happiness, Intellect, Energy

Green: Earth, Growth, Money, Harmony, Fertility

Blue: Water, Sea, Sky, Stability, Loyalty, Wisdom, Calmness

Purple: Spirit, Royalty, Power, Luxury, Ambition

Pink: Care, Compassion, Love, Friendship

White: Spirit, Good, Innocence, Purity

Grey: Neutrality, Balance

Black: Power, Elegance, Negativity, Death

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Small acts of devotion.

Go hiking 

Learn self defense

Spend time in the forest

Go barefoot

Carry menstrual products in case someone needs one

Learn archery or how to use throwing knives

Go stargazing

Understand feminism 

Always help an animal in need

Keep an eye on anyone who seems to be uncomfortable with the person they’re with - discreetly offer support if needed

Make fashion choices that make you feel quietly confident

Cook over a campfire - or a wood burning stove

When drinking your morning cup of tea/coffee, step outside and enjoy the fresh air for a few moments

Dance

Wear oils and perfumes that smell of the forest

Be kind to kids - inspire them to follow their passions regardless of gender, ethnicity, etc. 

Learn more about constellations 

Boldly be whoever you are

Give money to any homeless people you pass

Plant native plants near your home

Work with the moon, follow it’s phases (use an app if needed)

Support aro/ace individuals 

Sleep under the stars

Buy more houseplants

Learn about the geography of the moon (Maria, Lunar highlands, etc.)

Watch wildlife/nature documentaries

Wake up at dawn

Go to pride

Learn bird language

Listen to instrumental music that inspires you

Keep basic first aid supplies with you

Donate to charities that help endangered species

Spend time in the mountains

PRACTICE LOVING YOURSELF

Small devotional acts.

 Leave flowers at empty graves

Wear that lacy/flowery dress and the leather jacket

Wear a flower crown or flower hair pin

POMEGRANATES

Find nature and gentleness in the harshest of places

Practice your “don’t mess with me” look and posture. Use it while walking through crowds

Paint your nails dark red or wear red lipstick

When you find a small animal that has died, honor its life and death. If you can, bury it or leave it someplace for the other creatures of the forest

Go barefoot more often

Buy yourself a houseplant/s

Build your night vision, know your way in the dark

Take time to enjoy the sun whenever it is out

Drink coffee sweetened with honey

Demand respect and a listening ear from all – especially men

Decorate your home with dried flowers in the winter

When people do the unforgivable, hold them to their actions – do not forgive easily

Grow a rosebush or buy yourself some roses

Visit an arboretum or large gardens

Burn a candle for those who died unjustly

Volunteer with organizations that clean and restore forgotten places – graveyards, empty plots of land, etc.

Go swimming in natural bodies of water at night (be safe)

Offer a few coins/dollars to those who need it

Wear floral or fruity scents

Spend time outside in the winter too

Stand up for the abused

Go dance in or enjoy the next rainstorm

Don’t be afraid to defy stereotypes -  if she can be the Spring Maiden and the Iron Queen, you can be anything

Add more flowers to your garden

Take a candlelit bath

Know how to win a fight in case you need to

Don’t let anyone tell you who you can and can’t love

PRACTICE LOVING YOURSELF

First of all, it should be noted that poppets can be used for more than just cursing. They are cute and fun to make and are soooo useful!

Begin// •you can either make a poppet from felt and stuffing yourself •or, the route I usually take, you can be a $1.00 fashion doll from your local dollar store.

Personalization// •it’s important to make the doll LOOK like your subject. Cut its hair, color it with sharpie, draw on thicker eyebrows, tattoos, scars, freckles, birthmarks, makeup, different eye color etc etc. this part is really fun :3

Fill ‘em Up!// The most powerful part of a poppet are the contents. •Head cavity: for headaches add rocks, for confusion add lint, for love add paper hearts, for self confidence add glitter. •Chest cavity: for brokenness in self esteem and emotion add broken glass, for love add hearts, for beauty add pressed flowers, for protection add crystals. Also this is where you can place a small photograph or piece of paper with the subject’s name written on it (or the ashes of such, if it’s a curse) •Hip cavity: for impotence add glass or rocks, for passion add garlic.

Accessorize// •dress the poppet the way your subject dresses, or if it’s a curse, you may want to leave it unclothed so that your subject will feel vulnerable and exposed. •give the poppet things to hold. A purse, backpack, etc.

Identify// •Write the subject’s name down one of the legs, and a description of them down the other. •on its back, write your intentions towards them. ‘So and so I curse you to feel worthless and have your heart broken’ ‘so and so I bless you to be happy and healthy and protected’ or if it’s a poppet of you ‘I fill this poppet with energy so that self love it may bring to me’

Charge// •now, recite your spell that you wrote on it’s back out loud and charge the doll with appropriate energy so that it can carry out the task you’ve given it.

me: *spent the last two hours researching funny videos of fave band and watching their interviews before bed, loving them from afar*

me: okay deck, my reading for the night…give me insight into my life, something for my unconscious mind to think about as i sleep

me: *100% blindly pulls lovers card*

me: r u sayin wut i think ur sayin

deck: das wat im sayin

me:  

Now, I’m going to be upfront:

This post was written during the process of making a poppet for cursing. While this post can be used for ANY poppet for ANY purpose.

Is image heavy; many of the photos are shaky. This is common when I photograph my spell work. I don’t know why but I have my suspicions.

Features photographs of charged ingredients, sigils, and spells.

Talks about curses

Features a mini how-to break glass safely.

This is an attempt to be traditionally neutral. I do things different than others and thus my own methods bleed through. Remember to work within and adapt to your own cultural background, paradigm, and practice.

Trigger warnings: blood, glass, curses, poppets, sigils, spells, energy, charged items, etc. I’m sure there are others I’m missing but there you go.

This is a follow along using simple ingredients. It starts with how to make the poppet, talks about filling it, making the face and personalizing it, and then finishing it up. Away we go.