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whats cool about being trans is my parents are totally right. i did kill their beautiful son. im the thing that animates his corpse in an ever more convincing parody of a happy girl. i devoured him from the inside out and now there is nothing left of him and he is dead dead dead and there is only me, with my hollow eyes and dark eyeliner and long hair, and my big smile. my limp, effeminate gestures belie the marionetting of the boy they loved. my fagginess is his death. already his body becomes a fitter home for my parasitism in full; the tits, the hips, the thighs. sorry about your kid. thanks for the biomass <3
i agree so much about making your blorbos pathetic but i do fear that many take this to mean 'make them more traditionally feminine/submissive' which genuinely hurts my soul. make your blorbos pathetic in interesting character-oriented ways. understand their neuroses and turn the dials up to eleven. juxtapose the parts of life they handle extremely well with the parts of their lives that make them eat shit. make them angry. make them cold. make them pave their own way to hell while building walls preventing them from seeing any other way. please i'm begging you no more pathetic as an euphemism for bottoming im gonna mclose it.
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sometimes I think about how online I've stumbled across some circles, specifically portuguese and some latin american ones from different countries, that thoroughly normalized hatred of brazilians, making racist comments about brazil/brazilians and disguising it as humor, seeing brazilian culture and language as lesser, barbaric or disgusting and even using what is more or less a slur to refer to brazilians (we've reclaimed the word "brazuca" so much I went most of my life without knowing it was originally a pejorative term. apparently it was coined in portugal but I've seen hispanic latinos using it plenty and with the original negative connotation too), not to mention when we are called monkeys, which idk if I'd say is a slur but is definitely insanely racist
and it's like. a mix of weird and fascinating to me. because if I stay in my own country and engage only with other kinds of online communities, I will never be really affected by this. I could even go my entire life without knowing that those people who hate us so vehemently exist at all. I only know about it, and have seen or personally experienced it, by chance.
it reminds me of how, in my country, it doesn't matter that my entire family from my dad's side is black. with enough babymaking the melanin went bye-bye and I was born with skin tone and features white enough to comfortably pass as such and absolutely nothing else matters. as long as I'm brazil, I am granted the full privilege of being white (maybe not to the extent that a person with straight, light hair and light eyes would, but I'm not being penalized or anything either) and I can live my entire life without experiencing racism.
but that's ONLY for as long as I am in brazil. if I step into a country that has different cultural norms of what constitutes "race", I am seen as subhuman. all I have to do is open my mouth, and as soon as others realize where I'm from, I am suddenly not part of the same category of "white" as they are, if they even consider me white at all.
I don't have any particular point I'm trying to drive home or anything. it just strikes me as odd and interesting at the same time how truly arbitrary it all is. and reminds me of how much I want to kill racist people with hammers
Man Im sorry for snapping at you , uts just that I only got 8 hours of sleep last night and I only had like, two pandcakes with strawberrys and whipped cream and like three premium sausags for breakfast
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Transphobia is about to be signed into law in the UK. We can fight this.
I am begging the UK trans community and its allies to attend the Mass Lobby at Parliament on June 25th, 11am-4pm, organised by Trans Solidarity Alliance.
Last year we broke the record for an LGBT+ mass lobby of Parliament. Will you help us break it again? Join us on 25th June 2026 to demand be
The new EHRC Code of Practice pushes trans people out of toilets, hospital wards, and community spaces. It normalises gender policing based on appearance and stereotypes. It becomes statutory guidance in the UK by the end of June.
Trans people are now legally their assigned gender at birth and must join gendered spaces accordingly, but if they are perceived as their lived gender, they can also be ejected from those spaces. The guidance says: either break the law, or donāt pass too well.
A mass lobby is where you invite your MP to discuss your concerns with you in-person. Ask your MP to:
Demand full parliamentary scrutiny, debate, and use their free vote on the EHRC Code of Practice.
Support any motions rejecting the EHRC guidance. As of June 4th, Labour MP Nadia Whittome has submitted a prayer motion - Early Day Motion 240.
Write to Bridget Phillipson, the Minister for Women and Equalities about our concerns
Your MP does not have to be an ally, they do not have to respond to your email for you to show up and greencard them (details below the cut.) What matters is that as many people as possible show up.
I cannot stress this enough: Showing up in person matters. It is much more effective than petitions, emails, and letters.
It is a horrible, stressful time, and I am so sorry if you're trans and live in the UK. But I was at last year's mass lobby and the line for greencarding alone stretched around the back gates. It was a record breaking mass lobby and made us impossible to ignore. Let's do even better this time. Details under the cut:
Worried about what to say?
Bring your personal worries about transphobia being signed into law, and trans friends being excluded from public spaces. You are a living person who deserves dignity. Remind your MP of that. You will also get guidance and brochures from Trans Solidarity Alliance that outlines our demands. This is mine from last year.
Money issues?
Trans Solidarity Alliance provides a travel bursary that you can sign up for via the link.
Got a refusal or no response from your MP?Ā
Come anyway! You can request a same-day appointment with your MP through a process called greencarding. They will come and see you if theyāre already in Parliament. Even if they donāt, theyāre made acutely aware of your cause because you showed up in person. This is my greencard from last year.
Here is the EHRC Code of Practice in full. It's a tough read, but some highlights are:
Organisations canāt provide trans-inclusive, single-sex services, or they risk being sued for discrimination.
e.g. domestic violence support for women including trans women, menās rugby group including trans men (12.68).
Trans people will have nowhere safe to pee.
If youāre a trans man, businesses can't allow you to pee in the men's, and you can also be ejected from womenās bathrooms if youāre perceived as a man. Vice versa for trans women. EHRC suggests a āthird spaceā bathroom, which is discriminatory and unworkable for most businesses. (13.130-133)
Sports organisations must exclude trans people from single-sex competitions (13.73).Ā
A womenās only sports competition must exclude trans women because of their biological advantage or face potential lawsuits (13.74), but a trans man who has undergone testosterone treatment can also be excluded based on fairness rules (13.81).
Trans women are stripped of the legal definition of ālesbianā, and therefore no longer have legal protections if theyāre discriminated against on the basis of sexual orientation. (2.50, 2.92).
Here is the Good Law Project's better explanation of the EHRC Code.
I have also made a PDF printout of QR codes for the government petition, email your MP tool, and mass lobby link to pass around your communities. DM me and I'll send it to you.
Yes, yes I do. Because I AM all of those words. But because of anti-Black racism and sexism, Black women are denied the very basis of femininity. We arenāt allowed to hurt. Weāre supposed to be able to ādo it all by ourselvesā and never show weakness and parade around acting like weāre made of teflon coated adamantium.
Aw⦠Black women want to be infantilized like white women are?
But really, youāre ahead of the curb. Thatās what REAL equality feels like.
Thatās how most/all men feel all the time.
But at least your worth isnāt measured by both men and women by how confident and invulnerable you can be. (Or⦠ONLY vulnerable in a romantic context after youāre already in a relationship founded on how invulnerable you areā¦)
How about extending that genteel, fragile, delicate/dainty stuff to US.
(Specially black men, their hardness expected of them is off the charts.)
At the bolded, thatās not my intention. Your last sentences are what I really want in terms of giving Black people humanity. We are always supposed to be āhard,ā both Black men and women. Weāre supposed to be able to take any and everything and shuck and jive it off like good little Mammies/Uncle Toms.
As I said in another post, we take care of things that are deemed ādelicate.ā The care is what I focus on, not the sexist infantilization of my womanhood.
There is a level of condescension that comes with infantilization. One can treat me as a delicate individual without acting as if I canāt do anything for myself.
Just as one can treat a man as a delicate individual without insinuating that his āmanhoodā is in jeopardy.
But I donāt imagine we should idealize/foster female delicacy, or delicacy as a female trait, right?
And I donāt think initialization necessarily means condescending.
I donāt think I normally use a condescending tone with small children or young adults.
I think of them all as my equals. Even babies. Just people like you and me⦠who just happen to not know how to do anything beside cry and writhe.
My issue is the fact that Black women are denied femininity PERIOD, and thus my post may come off as gender essentialist in some ways.
Because delicacy is denied to me as a black woman, it should be fostered in a healthy manner that does not hinder my functioning as a decent human being.
girl, these niggas. i aint even going there with eyan-jās tom ass. *smh* they cant even interpret the base post because they just donāt fucking get it. cause i never saw you wanted to be infantilized and i certainly do not think the way Black women are treated makes us above or close to equal to anyone at all, shape or form. and then to turn it into a boohoo what about the brothers (extend that to us, fuck you) type shit? misss the fuck outta me.
that lil danyphantom negro and eyanj w their antiblack misogyny, all butthurt and writhing in anger at black women wanted to be considered as delicate as anyone else?
theyre repeat offenders.
that lil danyphantom shithead used to comment on my shit all the time, ALWAYS on some condescending PRO-WHITE, PRO-MALE bullshit, told him to stop bothering me or heād get blocked, and he continued doing so several times after being told off til i did block his ass.
and eyanj stays on some antiblack misogynist āboohoo males are the true victimsā bullshit, talmbout āwhy do these women have to talk at allā every damn day.
its just like real life where the only way you hear from negroes is when theyre gonna come shit on you.
you can scream and holler in pain coz everyones killing you
and they will sit there and file their nails til its time to join in on ravaging you.
Aside from arguably the word āfragileā thereās not a goddamned word on that list that indicates a lack of strength or personal conviction. Thereās nothing infantilizing there - unless youāve already bought into the belief that femininity is inherently infantile.
And Fragile? Know what fragile in this sense indicates? WORTH OF CARE AND PROTECTION. If you think that something thatās fragile canāt also be strong, or that even if it isnāt also strong that itās not worthy of respect, you are a horrible human being.
What the OP wants is access to the same variety of available identities and social attitudes that white women have access too.
To be motherfucking dainty
And delicate
And Elegant
And Poised
And yes, Fragile
And Genteel
And Graceful
Because blackness should not be a fucking special and marked category of femininity.
i know you guys love yaoi and i respect the grind and all but unfortunately I do think that the character who has a major internal conflict surrounding the disconnect he feels between the sexually assertive image he has to project to the world as a celebrity and his complete and utter lack of interest in sex or romance in real life is just aroace coded actually
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