50 selfship relationship building questions !
hallo !!! here is . 50 questions to build your selfship . answer these however youd like , feel free to use this as an ask game also :] practice reblog karma if u do !
what role would you say you take on in your relationship? what about your f/o?
what are you and your f/o like in public together? do you enjoy pda?
how comfortable would you say you are with each other? were you two slow to get comfortable or was it really quick?
what's your favorite thing to talk about with each other? what about favorite thing to do?
who has a worse sleep schedule? is there anything you do for the other one to help them sleep if they can't?
are you married to your f/o? if you are, would you say that being married changed your relationship in any way? how so? if you aren't married, do you plan on it?
do you have any routines that clash with the others?
which one of you is more sociable? how comfortable are you both in social situations?
do you two have pets? do you want pets? what kind? how many?
what nicknames do you like to give each other? do you like them? why or why not?
if your f/o had a bad day, how would you cheer them up? how would your f/o cheer you up if the situation was reversed?
what kinds of physical affection do you both enjoy? is there anything one of you likes that the other doesn't?
what drew you to each other? is there anything specific, or do you think it was just love at first sight?
do either of you believe in love at first sight? why or why not?
which one of you tends to make breakfast/lunch/dinner more for the other? do you have any go-to's you enjoy?
who does the shopping, usually? who's more likely to buy useless stuff?
what were you both like in the beginning of your relationship? what are you like now? if it's still the beginning of your relationship, what do you think will change?
how do you like to celebrate the others birthday?
what's it like when the other is sick? how do you like to take care of each other?
what's a quirk your f/o has that you love? what's a quirk you have that your f/o loves?
what's a small thing that your f/o does for you that makes you happy? what's something you do for them that makes them happy?
do you have any alternate ways of telling your f/o you love them? what about your f/o? (ex. giving them gifts, making them food, a different phrase instead of 'i love you')
what kind of dates do you and your f/o like? do you have a favorite date that you've been on together?
how would you describe what it's like when your f/o hugs you? what about when you hug your f/o?
what's your f/os favorite kind of gift to receive? what's your favorite gift to receive?
do you and your f/o play fight? what do you do?
which one of you is more serious? when things are tense, how do you or how does your f/o like to lighten the mood?
how do you balance each other out?
what kind of decor does your f/o like to decorate with? what kind of decor do you like to decorate with? if you live together, how do you combine your tastes?
what's your f/os morning and night routine? what's yours? when you and your f/o began your relationship, did your routines change? how so?
is there anything you're insecure about that your f/o loves? is there anything your f/o is insecure about that you love?
if you had to pick one part of your f/os physical appearance that is your favorite, what would it be? what about the reverse?
what does your f/o smell like? what does your self insert/you smell like?
what does a normal day look like for you and your f/o?
if texting exists in the universe your selfship is in, how do you text each other?
what was it like when you were interested in your f/o? what was it like when your f/o was interested in you? could the other tell, or was it a well kept secret?
are either of you spontaneous? or do you prefer to plan things out before you do them?
if you and your f/o were to have a movie night together, what kind of movies do you like to watch together?
who catches the spiders in the house and releases them and who kills them out of fear?
who stands up for the other more often? what is it, usually?
you and your f/o go on a road trip. where to? or would you rather just go on an adventure with no destination?
what did other people think about your relationship? (irl or in source). how did you and your f/o respond to that?
what's different about your relationship in comparison to most others? anything?
do you lie to each other about anything? (serious or silly). why or why not?
what's your favorite form of non-physical affection to show your f/o? what's your f/os favorite?
what's one thing that reminds you of your f/o? what's one thing that reminds your f/o of you?
do you have any clashing opinions? (silly or serious).
what has your f/o helped you learn about yourself in the time that youve been together? what have you helped your f/o learn about themselves?
is there any habits you've picked up from your f/o? is there any habits they've picked up from you?
what are some little things you do for each other in your day to day life?
