In the end, who is cool and who is not depends all on the perspective of each singular person making a decision about someone else.
Same for facts and objects and everything else.
The impermanence of things makes me not want to get upset about anything.
Something got damaged/its status changed? 1) can it be adjusted? If yes then let's do it, if no then no need to get bitter blood about it. Things change all the time, time passes anyway and changes things again and again.
It's just all indifferent to me, and I say this with the least mean spirit possible.
