Black

Diary For Black Girls

the memoir

as a woman of color, you don’t have the luxury of going off on someone when you’re trying to make it to better circles.

you don’t have the luxury of NOT being seen as the aggressive one if you mess it up. do not let one “telling off” ruin your circle. especially if you are in a circle of influence or close.

don’t let this celebrity drama fool you. the possibility of being able to go off on people and still maintain connections in real life? very low.

this is your reputation and career advancements on the line.

to prevent these situations:

women of color, get into therapy. learn anger management. learn to shade like the women of the south. learn to walk away. because if you do it right, you will come out on top.