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(Have some songs that are kinda what it'd be like to date him)

- Vinnie would probably start off as like a gold star boyfriend, or potential boyfriend, he'd find a way to say the right things he'd make you feel so special honestly, but one thing about him is that he's a flake. You can't rely on him to be there for you because he's too busy being there for someone else, If this is with habit and not evan, you are going to have to deal with a VERY jealous Habit. And I don't mean it like he's jealous and wants Vinnie for himself romantically, he's more upset that YOU have the audacity to talk to HIS thing. His human (like the way he'd be upset if someone tried to steal one of his cats). Habit would probably go out of his way to sabotage your plans together because he doesn't even want Vinnie to consider leaving him at all. And over time Vinnie would go from being perfect to being more aggressive and a little neglectful honestly and you might have to beg for his attention for him to get into his head.

- ALSO!!! a BIG no is calling him a monster. You call him this and it's game over for you honestly. It's like you've activated a sleeper agent when you call him out on it, you can expect him to yell at you and maybe get physical (if you had already gotten physical with him first)

- Vinnie will not be willing to submit to you (I don't even mean this in a sexual way) I just mean he's NOT gonna do what you tell him to unless you literally SCREAM at him to listen to you. You have to tell him he's being crazy and he's gonna end up getting upset with you for judging him because he's CLEARLY not doing anything wrong

- Vinnie is extremely overprotective, like to the point where it's obsessive/creepy but to him it's just an average Tuesday. You can expect to find really small hidden cameras throughout basically every room in the house. And if you found them and confronted him or asked them about them, he's gonna find some way to make it seem like it wasn't him and he might even attempt to shift blame onto HABIT. He'll actually act as if he's there to comfort you and pretend like had no part in at all. He is NOT willing to own up his mistakes, he'd rather make you feel crazy than just tell the truth. In his head though he'd view it as if he's protecting you, as if he's keeping a close eye on you, but there's just a part of him that actually just enjoys to observe, he'd shift his whole focus onto you, he'd tell himself over and over, "This is for their safety, this is for them. For us." and he'll tell you that he'll help you get rid of all the cameras and you'll watch him throw them out but little do you know, he's got more that you never even noticed.

- He wants you to like Habit the way he does. it's a whole "If you're not with us you're against us," thing y'know?? Vinnie wants you to understand that HABIT is literally the only thing he has left and habit is just so strong and powerful (he pretty much worships Habit kinda like the way someone would worship a deity, even tho he's worshiping the wrong thing (he was MADE for slenderman, Slenderman LIKES Vinnie) and Vinnie would wanna drag you into his same headspace because why leave habit when he can just drag you back into the apartment with him and keep you trapped with him??? again, telling himself it's for YOUR safety and not just for HIS benefit.

- this brings me to my next topic, not only is habit going to be jealous, so is Slenderman. and Slenderman is going to be SO mad over your relationship it puts you at more of a risk so it's going to make Vinnie more protective over you.

- if habit were to bring you into their life, he'd probably make vinnie keep you away, and he'd only be cruel (barley physically unless you fucked something up and pissed him off) if you got in his way. When eating dinner, habit would only give food to Vinnie and he'd completely ignore you, he'd treat you as if you're a burden on him AND Vinnie. He wouldn't want Vinnie to be dealing with you because he doesn't want Vinnie to be distracted from HIS plan.

- Vinnie is a really gentle lover though, he's creative and he'll make you things, he'll take care of you like no one else ever has. But you're going to need to constantly reassure him that you're there for him and you feel for him and you understand him and that you don't hate him and that he's NOT a monster. He has BPD and he's likely to split on you if one small thing happens, he won't mean it but it'll probably happen.

- He MIGHT end up trying to kill you. He killed his prior girlfriend so in the end he might be convinced it's what he needs to do. Slenderman will be in control of him and he'll be stuck in a haze and it's like he wouldn't even be there when you're BEGGING him not to. You COULD SURVIVE MAYBE but slenderman might finish the job if you can't get away/break Vinnie's haze.